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How should a woman equip herself to travel safe even when she's unescorted ?



    




bearklektor
This comes from an interview (survey) of many convicted rapists. They looked for women with pony tails (easy to grab and control), women who were busy- preoccupied with a cell phone or looking down for their car keys (basically not paying attention), Women who did not make eye contact with them (would not remember what they looked like to report to authorities later) They said that they were less likely to bother with a woman carrying an umbrella or anything that could be used as a weapon. If a woman put up a fight or yelled or screamed they were more likely to give up because they wanted what came easy to them. So with that info. I would carry some type of umbrella or walking stick, keep your cell phone handy, know where you are throughout the day in case you need to provide a location to the police should you become a victim, look at every man in the eye if they pass you or you are stuck on an elevator, or subway, alone with one, Don't wear your hair in a pony tail, and Do pay attention to your surroundings. If by travel you mean you are going somewhere by plane, you can't take pepper spray or a knife with you for protection. Maybe you could obtain one when you reach your destination. Be careful because you could also be charged with weapon possession if caught carrying a knife or pepper spray. I know it is illegal in the state I live in.

If a stranger asks you if you are traveling alone don't let on that you are. Tell him you are meeting your family or friends soon. Just basically be aware but not too paranoid or frightened to talk to people and enjoy yourself.

If you have the time before you travel take a self defense class for women. Women need to use their lower body (stronger than their upper body) for defending themselves. a swift kick you know where is a great way to intitially disable a man. Also stomping on the shin with your heel/shoe. The butt of your hand driving up his nose works wonders too. I like to take out the knee cap with a good hard kick.


callmemonu
Equip with: Presense of Mind, Self Confidence, reasonable Fitness


wizeANDpowerfulOZ
There is no substitute for preparedness and sharp senses, but...

Take a self-defense course, and aska about kubatons. They are a small version of what police carry, and can be used in a variety of ways. There are also expandable batons, which can tuck neatly in your purse, be held in your hand like a long roll of quarters, and expand into a very effective impact weapon.

Here is a link to some of the expandable batons.


itsmeee2006
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Always be aware of your surroundings. Travel in well lit areas. Carry a stun gun(if you can get it) or mace.


♥ Lisa♥
cell phone, stun gun, whitsle, open eyes .. stay in well lit areas never pull over for any car, if you have a problem with your car stay in and call some one for help a friend or police.. if the police try pulling you over drive to a well lit space before pulling over


wildthing1954
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make friends with as many females as possible, and always carry a can of pepper spray.


corzich
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bulletproof bra, garlic


Jennaleigh
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Pepper Spray, Noise Maker (sm. blow horn), and especially a cell phone with one touch dialing. "I'm calling the cops you better back off buddy."


sisters2fun
make sure to take a cellphone , and do not drink befor you are driving , also do not take directions from people you domt know , and last do not give people you dont know a ride


fiddle mike
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Take a cell phone and a pistol you know how to use (and your Concealed Carry Permit). Don't be afraid to use either.


przhm247
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GUN


ate up
It is best to travel very light and lose the purse.
Get a slim wallet and place it in frnt pocket or in bra.
Travel in sunlight and don't set yourself up for possible situations.


srilakshmi_2janit
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equip yourself with wepon free hands like karete, judo ,boxing etc. you must not afraid of the thretentive forces. you must be always cautious and make others aware of you.


erik m
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Try wrapping yourself in barb-wire fencing. I saw it in a wrestling match once, and nobody was harassing that guy! Besides what's life without a few scars?


Hans v
carry pepperspray


krishna c
Thumb rule is go in a group, in a well dressed according to occassion but if unescorted, then (A)prepare your schedule plans. do tell your source point from where u leaving that whereis your destination. and also let your destination to be informed when u r arriving.(B) Keep ur cell phone with fast dially provision to police station landline number .with alternative numbers too. (c) walk in confidence
,alert and aware of your surrounding.(d) if asked by a stranger for something behave u r very busy expecting someone.(e) if followed try to head for a busy area and raise alarm.(f) if confused ask the address to traffic poice or any good and busy shop, and keep on verifying cross questioning wether the mentioned direction told is right , agin if in doubt better move back to safer place and call them. (g) taking a umbrella is good decision but u have to know how to defend yourself by that. (h) If u ever became victimed to rape go to police station or hospital .
(i) always carry all emergency numbers.with u including doctrs.(j) to learn self defence will be wise decision for every girl of the age 15. or any age.(j) fnally never wear such a dress that u find yourself inviting to others(of course when u r alone.)


Olorunyomi A
If she is a genuinely Born- Again Child of God, then she should fear no evil,most especially when she has started her journey from home after prayer. Psalm 91 1-end . He/she that dwell under the secret place of the Almighty shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty.
She fear no evil if she is also a woman of faith. The angels are dispatched to carry and guide her steps and underneath is always an evalasting arms to carry and sustain you.


saoud s
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no safe


raho_vin
A woman must be equipt with calmness and presence of mind. Bringing sharp weapons or firearms can be of great help if she has the skill of using them otherwise these can harm her rather than help. She must also have the basic martial arts training for self-defence. She must avoid talking to strangers. Being too showy is an invitation to disaster. Let the family members know where she goes, expected time of arrival to destination and back home. She must have contact munbers of police hq, close friends and family members. Having cellphone is not a luxury, it's a necessity always have it handy and if can afford must bring 1 or two.
Don't put money in one place. Hide some in bra, panty pockets pants shoes and the smaller denominations in the bag. Wear shoes that won't give problems in running. Or better cancel travel appointment and reschedule it when escort is available.


joy
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She should take careful on her behaviour or attitude on that moment.


richa s
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1. dont provoke anyone
2. be alert and confident, make eye contact but only look AT THE EYS AND forehead region and not lower. a lower glance sends wrong signals.
3. dont travel alonein the dark or in secluded areas.
4. always inform some one about your where abouts. dont wander off without anyone knowing.


SIYA S
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a woman needs to know her confidence, courage & should have trust in other people for her help in need.
but on her own i think peeper spray is mandatory. also learn martial arts but remember without cool temper even martial arts would be of no use. so be tactful & courage.


Francis
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make sure you go out about an hour after eating lots of beans... wink wink No one will come near you then !! :-)


Alphone C
Stun gun, mace, noise maker. Have it in hand and ready to use when unescorted. You can punch it up in any search engine and order it from many many sites. Maybe illegal in your state but most would deliver anyway.


Sunita H
(1) look confident wherever you go; and (2) casually mention your boyfriend who's an ex-professional boxer...


John C
Two words: Smith & Wesson


va-sumo-vin-okar
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A small pin (hook pin or pin that using for combining two or more papers) is enough. It will do a lot. It should be used mostly at the face of the stranger (at chin, eyes).
First pin him in the hand. He will look his hand as it pain severely. Next moment use the pin on his face. You can handle the pin very easily as it is small and you can hide
it also.


monolita
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my god!! i travel so much alone, have been for a very long time, and all over and by buses or general category trains etc...i have never had a situation...
i don't think we should be so paranoid, we should be sensible, and not do stupid things as find yourself alone in a new place dead at night...cut off people who are being a shade too friendly and who sends the creeps up your back...
i have also enjoyed the freedom of being able to travel at the drop of a hat, and have made amazing friends on the way...
life is too short, we should enjoy it and put our faith in people, rather than be afriad of them...i have never been let down by it...


dimple vador
First of all rid yourself of all that golden glittering stuff. Try and be as much simple as possible. If you know before hand where you are going, than try to dress yourself up in such a way that you mix up with the local people.





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