My boyfriend gets upset that I make more money than he does, so he dismantles my car regularly so I can't work?

Vince M

The solution is called "The Police Department." If he is not the owner of the car, then he has no legal right to dismantle anything. If he touches your car, have him arrested.

If you won't because you are afraid of losing him as a boyfriend, they you have BIGGER problems that can't be solved on Yahoo Answers.

Whether he is beating you, berating and belittleing you, or harassing you with his actions, he IS abusing you. Get legal help, and, if you won't, get medical help.

Rozee M

Dump him! He sounds like a jealous, selfish, ego maniac and he's trying to ruin your career! He's not worth your time!

rich2000000

call the police for vandalism

glessnerbeth

What a loser--not him (though he IS) but YOU!! Wh ysaddle yourself with someone that sabotages you!! Have some respect for yourself and get OUT of this relationship immediately.

Axe J

Run for the hills and get help.
These sound like 'warning signs'.

I m not joking.

korvosiaay

Why are you posting here? You know what you have to do, dump his butt and go solo. That is, unless you like the situation as it is.

ayelbee

What an idiot?

Why do you put up with it. If he cared about you he would be pleased that you have such a great job that lets you earn a good wage instead of being so self centred and childish.

Lay down the law or tell him to take a ride in a car that does work...otherwise you will end up with with your boss having a very bad impression on your work ethic that it will carry on and on to whatever jobs you go to once your boyfriend has lost you this one.

Its your job, your life and your choice.

Jessica K

First off this sounds ridiculous! Like really? Seems to me he is controlling, he should be happy that you have a good job and you are making more money. Tell your boss/manager that if he calls in for you; not to listen; only when YOU call in. Or set up a code/password with your work and only when it is used then you are really calling in or something? I don't know, I don't think any female deserves to be treated like this by there man.

Jason M

I call BS..

Brandy D

I am mostly going to echo the responses you have already read, leave him!

But I also want to say, that I have been there! And you need to ask yourself this, if you learn how to fix what he dismantles, what is his next step to controlling you? Will he physically restrain you? Most likely the answer is yes. If he is obsessive and controlling enough to prevent you from going to YOUR job, in YOUR car, then he will probably take it further if you find a way around him.

If he is only your boyfriend, then I would leave while you can. Don't end up married to this guy, because then he will really think he owns you.

Thunder

Are you truly serious??? And you don't see a deeper problem here?? I think you think it cute or something. Seriously! If you are allowing this, then your company would be better with a more responsible person. Here is my opinion, but I don't know if you can handle it. One way to protect your car, and stop him from calling into your work, embarrassing you......Walk away from him, permentanly. Period. Tell him to find a new life, you don't have time for his childish ways. Duh!

!!Randomness!!

if i were you i'd ditch him. The guy sounds like he has problems. I mean if he dismantles your car in the hope of getting you fired..what a loser

bluff mike

Put him on the street. He sounds like real bad news for you somewhere down the road.

Fred C

A - dump him
B - get a restraining order
C - if, after you are split, he damages your vehicle, have him arrested for vandalism.

That is what I would say if I believed the question was serious. However, reading the posts about stapling books, jealousy over intelligence, and padlocks on the fridge, I come to the conclusion that there are only 2 possibilities. Either all the questions are bogus, or you are both loons that have found perfect soulmates.

Scott H

Get a new boyfriend, this guy is a loser.

beankittyky(=^v^=)

"KICK HIM TO THE CURB"!:O "GET YOURSELF A MANFRIEND INSTEAD OF A BOYFRIEND"!:)

(=^v^=)

sgoldperson

Yes you should be embarrassed that you stay with him. This isn't a safety issue either. You should break up with him and if he follows you and tries to cost you your job get a restraining order. Until you break up with him though it's your own fault.

Julian M

Dump the loser. Restraining order, call the police. No one has to put up with that. This is 2009 not the dark ages.

Curious

Can you deactivate him?

clarkeinc101

Call me next time this happens ... I'll give you a ride :)
Then I'll comeback to the house and fix your car :)

Rock Firestorm

And you're still with this guy why?

You can continue to complain and have issues or you can break up with him and get to work on time. It's up to you.

olddog0558

It's called kick his *** to the curb, followed by get a
restraining order, followed by vandalism charges, followed by a baseball bat upside his head.

Of course, if you're too stupid to get rid of him and do these things, the point is moot.

Rick Astley

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