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rachael
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you were too ugly thats why you were given up for adoption?
next time tell him they tried to put him up but no one wanted his nasty a** so now his parents are stuck with him.
you may not be the violent type, but there is a HUGE difference between violence and flat out defending yourself.
aim for the breastbone. it will knock the wind out of him. heel of the hand, right in the chest. do it quick, it will hurt you less.
stomp his foot, it will stop him fast.
and when he wont leave you alone, get up close to him, look him in the eyes-tell him to back off or its gonna get nasty-then knee him in the groin.
i dont condone that often, but for crying out loud.....enough is enough.
just for the record.....i would not let this go much further....you need help. you should not have to go through this |
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MamaKate
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Dear Temperance,
(((HUGS)))
Please get medical care and documentation.
Then talk to your guardians or social worker, THEY should be filing assault charges on your behalf as well as making a complaint to the school.
No one has a right to bully you like that and it is AGAINST THE LAW to assault people. This boy needs to be attended to and made to face consequences for his actions. His behavior is inexcusable, violent and should NOT be tolerated by you, the people responsible for you OR the school.
I know you know his behavior is not a reflection on you but rather his own insecurities and issues and he needs help. Ignoring his behavior will only encourage him to continue and place you and others at risk.
You are a very intelligent and sweet girl who deserves to be treated with respect and dignity - not like a punching bag or a doormat. I am so sorry that there are people in your life who do not understand that. They are not only missing out on, but also hurting a beautiful human being.
Peace. |
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yeahright
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Come pick me up--we'll both kick his ***.
In all seriousness--call the police--tell the principal and then document the response from them. And, if you don't get the response you need--and then call the press--and tell them your story--sue them for your own personal and physical stress that was done on school grounds. They are responsible for your safety.
Empowerment comes from neutralizing your attacker. You may not be violent and I respect that--but that does NOT mean you don't defend yourself. It is called MACE. Bullies typically crumple when they are confronted. YOU ARE NOT UGLY--just vulnerable to someone hurting you. |
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School Nurse
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forget the campus police if they are not going to do anything. File assault charges with the local police. If you don't, he may do if again to you or someone else if there are no consequences to his actions.
Don't wait, do it now. |
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Mommy to 11 month old Jacob
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why won't you go to the police? that is what you should be doing... |
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LARRY J7
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Where are your parents, or guardians in all of this ?
Seems to me..that if someone attacked a person, any person, let alone a youngster... that the parents or guardians would be all over this with a vengeance.. They could "prefer charges" of assault and battery in this situation... and, if the teacher that witnessed this did nothing to intervene or report it... THEY could be held liable for complicity in the matter !!
I simply can't believe that something like this could happen and the police not be interested in getting to the heart of the matter and have a great deal to say about it as well.... Seems that someone is not doing their job there as well !
Good thing for your attacker that I am not your parent.....
There would be reason enough for this little snipe to worry about his steps over the next while... that is for DAMN sure !!
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Daisey Duck
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I'm sorry this is happening to you but sweetie if you don't stand up for yourself no one else will. If you don't report this idiot it will continue and probably get worse. Go to the dr or emergency room. Tell them what happened and make sure you tel them about the teacher to.. They will report it (they are required to report abuse by law) to the police not the rent a cop at the school. The police will do an investigation and most likely charges will be filed as they should. As for your teacher she shouldn't be one if she allows this kind of behavior to go on. I would talk to the principal an guidance counselor at your school and show them and I mean make them look at what this idiot is doing to you. Why haven't your parents gone to the school about this? |
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Katilyn
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That teacher should lose her job.....Why didn't you do something back? or something abou it? don't your parents wonder why you have bruises all over your face? |
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Rowan
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Well i'd definetly go to the hospital, as you could have internal injuries. At least get looked at.
The school deputy sounds like an idiot. this is violence and it could escalate into something very bad. Please for your own safetly go to the actual authorities and at least file a report. If you don't there will be not record, and that needs to be done. |
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BLW_KAM
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Tell the principal and if that doesn't work, call the school superintendent. They can both be in big trouble if they allow you to be assaulted in school.
Please don't set up a cycle of allowing yourself to be further victimized. This is how so many women get into trouble. They don't report abuse, they take it, and eventually they think it's normal.
Please, please, please tell your parents, the school social worker, the principal and the superintendent. No one has the right to treat you this way, no one! |
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Gaia Raain II
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If you can't report this to the police, it sounds like you're stuck. I don't really have any advice for you. This sounds like a bad school, a bad town, and the only way to improve your situation is to get away from these sick people who prey on you and leave you to fend for yourself. Why aren't your parents doing something about this? They ought to be raising a major ruckus about this. |
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ilovenickandpie
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just do what u think will help i would go to the cops but do what u think is right |
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<3 Camille Cutie <3
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OMG!!! talk to your parents then talk to a teacher -- i know you said you wouldn't but you should... you can worry about those suggestions later though, GET YOUR BUTT TO THE DOCTOR and make sure nothing is SERIOUS... If you are worried about what it looks like, put on a little powder, but that doesn't matter. Drop a note by your principal so nobody knows it was you (if you are worried about being a "Tattletale"), He needs expolsion, but he may just be suspended. If anybody calls you a tattletale, play dumb and say it must have been somebody else who was there
P.S. somebody obviously loves you or you wouldn't have been adopted - He really is a dummy, i guess |
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Ant teh DGK
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That is assault... and he can be charged. Forget the school cop, he is probably a rent a cop anyways. Go to the police station and report it.
Well what do you want us to tell you, if you don't want to go to the police... I mean seriously. I suppose you could fight back, but I don't really see any good coming out of that. Get a schedule change and avoid the guy. To be honest if I were a friend or family member of yours I would f*ck that guy up.... >: |
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kiahsobyk
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If you want it to stop you will eventually have to do something. If one cop didn't listen (which I don't believe) tell it to another, and another, and another, until someone listens.
If you just enjoy living in the "victim mentality," with everyone around you constantly showering you with concern and support, then you will no doubt continue to post things like this and invent reasons for people to act the way they already have in answering to you here.
If you actually are in a situation like this, don't come to yahoo for the answers. There are many, many people around you who will actually help, you just have to go out and get them. Walk into a random church, for crying out loud.
Take an interest and active role in your own well-being and welfare, or get used to the idea of a life of perpetual abuse. |
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Hippie
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Tell your parents |
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girl w/ ambition
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You NEED to tell the cops girl! Don't be a dumb@ss!!! You can sue him for this! That is BATTERY. You have got to tell an authority figure that will listen... the COPS! Don't be afraid... it is well worth it. |
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Where were you
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See a doctor he might have broken your jaw. Go to the ER. And apparently he is to stupid to realize somebody wanted you because you are adopted. Your parents love you as do so many others. God bless you and may God be with you. You are in my prayers. |
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Princess Cherbs
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Um...I dunno. Hit him back? |
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Glam Mommy
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if you won't go to the cops and file a report, then you are SOL and just have to keep dealing with the abuse. |
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