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NurseyPants
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That depends on way too many factors to answer on this site!!! |
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Heather
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First of all- how old are you really?? (2 months ago you posted a question about having your own cellphone and you were only 13 then-- yup I can read back after reading some of the posts from the question about you being 17 and wanting to know how to break this to your mom that you were pregnant).
Second of all- I wouldn't come to yahoo answers for advice on something as serious as whether to abort/keep/put child up for adoption. That is a VERY personal decision that only you can make.
Seriously, good luck to you though. Sounds like you really need something good to happen to you. See if your parents would be willing to spend a little more time with you, because it seems like you need some parental interference in your life. |
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Lucy da cat
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OMG don't listen to krusty the klown.
If you're not gonna parent this kid, abort before it's a person. Don't carry it to term cause of selfish jesus crap only to abandon it. |
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23 year old texas female married
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Keep. I would always chose to keep my child. Even if the father is yelling abortion and people at church are asking to adopt. I chose parenting. I am the best parent for my child!
Keep your baby. Nobody can love your child like you. A mother has unlimited amounts of love.
EDIT: I agree with the poster above me. Delete this question. This is personal choice. |
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cantstopLinnyG
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I am adopted. I was in the same situation. I chose to have an abortion. There was no way I would give a child up for adoption, knowing the pain I had and will have for the rest of my life from being relinquished and adopted.
There were only 2 options for me personally. Abortion, or keep.
If you decide to keep, there are plenty of resources available to you. |
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jkb :) :( :@
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Posting a question like that on the internet is no way to make such an important call. This is a question that only you can really answer. Are you willing to give it up? Can you afford to give it a good life? Are you willing to live with the consequences of an abortion. Delete this question and make your own decision. Good luck. |
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Shareese B
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I was faced with the same dillemma your with about a month ago and i must tell you....absolutely keep the baby!...the father begged me to get rid of it and I was at first but I gained my strength and decided to spare the baby's life to not only not have a abortion but not do adoption and take care of my responsibilties...I just had a ultra sound yesterday and I instantly fell in love!....the baby was dancing up a storm!.....so def think about it as long as you can to make the right decision.. |
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Flying Monkey #073177
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ABORT! ABORT! ABORT! This would be a no brainer for me since I don't want to be PREGNANT.
Since I don't want to be PREGNANT again, ever, in a million years, there would be no choosing to give birth so no need to ever think keep or adopt. |
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crzymmof8
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You have to do what YOU feel is best. I am an adoptive mother. I am glad that my children's birth parents chose to have them. But then they really had to choose if it was best to let others raise them or if they should. We have relationships with some of the birth parents and they are great. You have to follow your heart and know that whatever you do it is the right thing for you to do. Hugs and hope you are well. |
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Laurel J
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Wow. That's a very personal decision that depends on a lot of things. If you were to let someone tell you what to do in a case like this, you'd never stop regretting it or resenting them.
I don't think there's a right decision here, just the right one for you. |
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Sarah
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Truly only you can answer that for yourself.
People will tell you to abort.
People will tell you to raise.
People will tell you to adopt the child out.
And then there will people who
Tell you NOT to abort.
Tell you NOT to raise.
Tell you NOT to adopt the child out.
Everyone's reason will be valid. However, it really depends on what is right for you. Your heart will tell you what is right eventually. =] |
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Opedial
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do what you need to do dear. |
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Philippa
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It's a personal choice and depends on the person's situation. Personally I would parent but was coerced into surrendering. |
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I Love You Karstyn<3
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Keep it
Abortions wrong |
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♥ kay.
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It's all up to YOU. |
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Shaina
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you don't provide any details so how can I answer? |
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xsushi
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It really depends on the stage you are in your life.
If you are unable or having difficulty supporting and taking care of a child, such is the case when you are a single mom, or you are preoccupied with studying or work, then the most wise decision would be abortion or adoption. Just keep in mind that abortion goes against moral values in some religions. I think as a parent, you would want your child to have the best care in the world. So if you are capable of supporting the expenses and labor of keeping the child, then go for it. |
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T
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Adoption or keep it. I have many friends that have suffered PTS from their abortions. |
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albatros
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O honey, I feel so sorry for you! This is so hard for anyone ever to have to answer. I myself had to make this tough question, I decided on an abortion when I was 19 I am now 30 and have had a very hard time trying to get pregnant again. I am now married and not having any luck with pregnancy. Abortion is an option if you never want children again, there are soany physical and mental issues that arise after an abortion.
Please consider your choice very carefully.
I hope the best for you
have any questions feel free to ememaile offline at
kaycee19992002@yahoo.com |
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cacie c
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KEEP or adopt a child is a precious thing you do not want to kill it unless you are uncapable of having a child |
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Chick2417
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never abortion
keep or adoption |
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lovedanceplay
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Oh, honey, please don't decide based on comments off Yahoo Answers! If you know for sure that you are emotionally ready for a child, you are financially able to support it, your home is a good environment for raising a child, and you are positive that you want a kid, then by all means keep your baby. If you decide that you aren't ready or for some other reason you don't want a kid...Well, you should know that adoption is impossibly stressful emotionally on the mother. To give birth to your child, then to give it up to someone else, is a horribly difficult thing. However, when you choose adoption you know that you are doing an amazing, selfless thing for someone else. Abortion, in my opinion, is not murder and is not wrong. If a person has good reasons for not wanting the baby then abortion is a perfectly reasonable, acceptable decision, especially if you don't want the baby but you don't want to do adoption. Please, please, please discuss this with people you know and love. I don't know what your situation is, but if you can, definitely discuss your decision thoroughly with the father. I really, really hope everything turns out okay for you. |
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Tiffany R
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dont Abortion that killing a child if you dont wanna keep a baby then the best thing to do is give it up for adoption |
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Jennifer L
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I don't tell people what to do in these situations. The choice to abort, parent or place for adoption is yours. All I advise is that you make an informed decision. Take the time to educate yourself on all of the options out there. |
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Paix
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If you are uncertain about whether or not to keep your child, I don't think it should be. Maybe you should just have an abortion. If you really wished to raise a child, I think your heart would have told you, dearest.
Think about it. Would you like to know there is a child in the world of yours being raised well by people you trust or do you wish to prevent her/him from coming to the world? It is simply what your heart says.
If it is after three months, I would not have an abortion. Otherwise, I might. But again, hun, it's what your heart desires.
Good luck! |
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nevermind..... [;
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if you have no money/arnt ready, adopt him/her
if you cant give him/her away, keep
if your heartless and only think about yourself after being stupid and getting pregnant (unless u were raped), abort.
its your "right". |
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*Ferret Lover*
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Please give birth to the baby and put it up for adoption if you don't want it. Your baby is a human being and if you abort it, it is murder. Did you know that at nine weeks your baby has fingers? I am not trying to blast you with religion, but how many laws in the bible do you agree with? You must know it is wrong to murder. Please just give the baby up for adoption. |
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Sophie
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keep or adoption |
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