Adoption Or Abortion?

cantstopLinnyG

Abortion. Adoption waill cause a lifetime of pain due to being separated from you, abortion will only hurt for a second.

God's plan for women is to raise their OWN children, and not give them away to strangers. It is NOT God's plan for fertile women to supply barren women with babies.

It may be too late for you to have the procedure, depending on where you live, so keep your baby. No child wants to be separated from his or her mother and siblings, and NO ONE will be able to love your child they way you do.

Nora D

It's too late to have an abortion. Your other kids will wonder what happened. Have the baby and give it to someone who can raise it. I think it's easier to explain an adoption. Honestly though there are a lot of programs available for people in your situation. Food stamps, WIC... call your county human services office. You can even put your child in foster care for a little while until you get on your feet.

Rowan

youre 7 months pregnant. no country will allow an abortion at this late stage. i dont understand, is the baby already born or are you pregnant? how about keeping your baby? Think about the other kids, they'll start to think you're going to give them away too.

ETA:Inde said *No spiritual father would tell you to pray on whether to abort a 7 month old fetus unless your life was at risk. *

I cannot believe i missed that. *headdesk*

Independ"ant"

Troll.

You Anti Choice morons are so obvious and mentally touched in the head.

Randy B

"unburned baby"..."spiritual father"...

If you go to church as often as you pose to do then you already know the answer to this, um, "question".

snowwillow20

Too late to abort at 7 months. Your baby could live if it was born now.

Do whatever you can to keep your baby. It needs you and it's siblings.

LaraSue

I refuse to feed the trolls.

PhilM

It may be hard to end the life of your fetus, but look ahead, and you will see that giving that baby away will affect you and you may never, ever get past the guilt and shame. God's plan for your life does not include you abandoning your baby.

solitudesheep

Abortion...at 7 months it is illegal unless it is threatening your life

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiKlfYjVHe9Za0VsNQkoCCzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090211073934AARAqOt

So was it a fire or a car wreck?

Troll.

Lyndsey J

Your question is very selfish!! And u call urself a mother, your sick to think of having an abortion at 7months...U cant do that at that date!!! AND U GO TO CHURCH!!!! U
U lost ur husband in a fire wot would he think of u givvin up his child? u should embrace it and keep his memory alive...wot would the other kids he left behind think of if their brother/sister is put into care? and not them...u need help....

~JoJo~ 2nd round of Clomid

ADOPTION, you are 7 months along, give the baby a chance at a wonderful life with parents who cannot have children

If you need any help trying to find an agency or family, please let me know I hope for the best with whatever you decide.

Take Care

pepperhead2u

7 months pregnant and you WANT to abort
seriously - have a think about that one
no country in the world (even those yucky 3rd world ones) will abort a 7 month pregnancy

give the kid up for adoption

Dusti B

I am looking to adopt I'll give you a couple thousand dollars if you let me adopt you baby!

Meh

7 months? I don't think it is legally possible to terminate without something really wrong.

ramirez mother of 4boys

no don't have an abortion.i dont even think u can!!??? or give ur baby up.u will regret in the future think about it really good. thers lots of things out ther that can help u out.. ask a family member or something but keep all ur children together U WILL REGRET IN THE FUTURE... IAM SO SORRY ABOUT UR HBBY

AdoreHim

Abortion is something that you should not even have to pray about. You should know, or at least your spiritual father should know that an abortion at any time of the pregnancy is taking a life, let alone at 7 months. Did you realize that if your baby happened to be born right now, he/she could most likely survive. Everything is there that will be just smaller. I am SO sorry that you lost your husband, however please do not take the life of the child that God created through your husband and yourself. God does have a plan for you, but not just you- also your unborn baby. Place for adoption if you do not think you can raise another child without your hubby. It may be hard to place that child in the arms of another family, but look ahead, and you will see that taking that baby's life will effect you and you may never, ever get past the guilt and shame. God's plan for your life does not include you aborting your baby.

Master

I think I would go with the adoption option. Can you really abort a baby at 7 months?

Cindy D

Adoption. How is abortion better for your baby?

Angelique

I don't even really think you -can- abort a baby at 7 months..and what you are asking is the best for you and your baby..the best thing would be..i'onno...-don't- kill the baby..that would be very..very good for it. Give it up for adoption if things are that bad..

Ashley

If you cannot keep they baby, then having the baby and putting them up for adoption is the best for the both of you. Obviously, if the baby is simply killed, that is not good for them. I know plenty of people that would adopt a baby that was saved from abortion. Save that precious life and give the baby a chance. God has a plan for that baby, just like he has a plan for you. If you do believe God has a plan for you, you should know that He would never want you to hurt your baby. If you are unable to raise the baby yourself, there is always someone else who is willing. Please save this baby's life and give him or her a fighting chance.

Ellen

you can't get an abortion at 7 months. If you truly don't want the baby, give it up for adoption.

moonlight

Adoption

because you'll just end killing
an innocent life and adoption lets you
know that better people will take care of
em

NO you cant have an abortion at 7 months! No doctor can do that. It has to be done in the first 1-3 months. By 7 months it is considered a baby now by the medical community because it can survived outside the mother if it was born now.

Give it up for adoption (your only option now). No one ever says anything things about women who give a baby up for adoption. Good luck.
You can even pick the parents that will have your baby!

PINKLUVER

I think its better you give the baby up for adoption. If you have an abortion at this stage it can be very difficult for you. Also you wont regret having killed your baby.

RPMR

Adoption
Abortion will cause you a lifetime of pain haunted by the fact that you killed your baby! I mean... you are 7 months pregnant! I suggest you have your baby and keep him for a couple of weeks to see how you feel. If you still think you can't raise it, then give it up for adoption. Hope you make the right choice for your baby because abortion at this point is not really an option!

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