Adoption centers and chances?

I have heard many people claim that there are many woman or people looking for child in abortion centers and it is wise to not do a abortion. However you should give birth and the child up for adoption. But with further thought i believe that is indeed untrue their are numerous child in adoption centers waiting for someone they can call their parents and i would not like to live knowing my parents just threw me out since i would become a burden to them what is your view on this? Is it indeed true that many child get adopted? or is it just another way to make it sound better than abortion (btw im a guy just wondeirng =))
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thanks for all the info well i mean if ur mom is a drug addict should she still give birth? theirs alot of questions i mean surly their is never a endless flow of birth but out of that category how many are gonna be orphan up for adoption? i can estimate at least 20 percent of the maybe not entirely normal or maybe a couple of normal people are not adopted. adoption kinda remind me of the pound u go in select one u want and take it home -_- however i do understand that adoptions is a good alternative to abortion thanks for all the answers i'll choose a answer shortly

Chrys

I know that a child growing up in an adoption center may sound bad, but these children get a life, a chance, a future, a cance to have kids of their own one day, to fall in love, to experience joy as well as pain. Abortion is murder...no other way around it. Some people say an unborn child is not a peoson.....if that's the case then what is it?? Broccoli??? I mean come on! There are millions of families waiting for a child! There aren't tons of places with just children held, and waiting around since birth. Most of the older children did not grow up in these canters. They have been taken out of aweful situations or both parents have passed and they have no other family. Adoption IS a much better choice. Most abortions are just done out of convienence......I just hurt for these children....

Forever Happier

I know many people who are adopted, and most of them really could care less to know their real parents. Once they are adopted they got mom and dads who they know as mom and dads.... they consider themselves lucky. I do realize that their are children who need adopted, but I do not agree with abortion.

Wise Advice

Children placed for adoption are not thrown out. Plans are made, usually with great care and great sadness, to give everyone involved a better chance at future happiness. It sounds better than abortion because it is a very different choice.

eve

i'm not real sure on exactly what your question is. Are you talking about healthy babies in the US? Or is this in a different country? Healthy babies in the US get dopted just about as quickly as they are born. I don't know what you mean by adoption centers. Do you mean places where the babies live until they are adopted? There are no such places in the US that have healthy babies waiting to be adopted.

christine h

Simple answer:God has a purpose for every child ,adoption creats familys.Its all good

cora7391

I will not apologize for being blunt ....I am not judgemental but abortion is murder with that being said i am a foster parent and yes there are a lot of children newborn to 18 yrs that need a forever home I am so glad that my mom and my sons mom choose life

Still Me

Your questions and comments are a bit confusing and negative to say the least! But just let me correct some of your views:

Adoption is one of the most loving plans a mother can make for her child! Birthmothers are usually not drug addicts, teenagers, or uncaring people at all. Most are very caring mothers who want so much for their child! Most are just normal people who are struggling to make ends meet, are under a lot of ongoing stress, have little support form anyone, and may already be struggling to parent other children.

The planning and care that goes into adoption is incredible. Birthmothers are to be respected! They are unselfish, and are able to put their child's needs before their own. That is a challenge many mothers would find impossible. These babies and children are not looked at as a "burden" at all! They are grieved for, longed for, and missed deeply. But their birthmother would not settle for anything but the most stable life possible for her baby!

NurseL

Healthy Caucasian newborns are in high demand. A child with a disability or that is born to a drug addicted mother has a hard time finding a home. There is also thousands of children who are older rioting in foster homes, waiting for loving parents.

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