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Anybody do not like adoptions?

i was adopted and most people love adoptions... i was just wondering who doesn't like adoption, just to have a majority.. i was actually just wondering... if people don't like adoptions, what are the reasons? because adoption is such a great thing.
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and i love adoption...


    




Aislin
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I'm going to have to disagree with you too. Most people do not love adoption. I'm sure some do. Some don't care about them at all and some hate them.

I am against adoptions. I do not love them. I do not even like them. My family and the majority of my friends are also against adoption after finding out about the corruption and ethical issues involved.


DevonChaos
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I am adopted, and I do not love adoptions. At all.


Sunny
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No, I do not love adoptions.


Pip
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Actually I disagree with you as most people I know don't love adoption they see it as something that is that has it's place in our society. I have relatives, friends and son who are adopted and are happy, well adjusted adoptees but they also know adoption is flawed, most adoptive parents I know are happy they adopted but are aware that with adoption there is loss and for natural mothers such as myself adoption is a painful subject due to loss.

My son has issues with adoption made worse by knowing the truth behind his adoption which is that it was unnecessary and that I wanted to raise him. I have suffered the loss of my son, suffer with depression and the pain will never go away despite knowing my son is alive and well.


AdoreHim
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I know that there are a lot of people that dislike adoption. Some I have heard actually say they wish they had been aborted instead- however I have to tell you I am very thankful for my adoption, and I also have 2 adopted children. It is interesting you say that most people love adoption- unfortunately in this site those people are not in the majority- as a matter of fact, I have been told by some here that I am living in denial - I cannot be a happy adoptee- THEY ARE WRONG. I am


De
I like them and think they are very good in making families but some don't and that's okay


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I love adoptions and am particularly grateful for the fact that I, myself, am adopted. :)





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