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Are there any people in this section that you just really dislike?
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Are there any people in this section that you just really dislike?

As in, everytime you read an answer or question by them, it just makes you mad?


    




Flying Monkey #073177
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The ones who constantly troll for babies to adopt. Oh and people who write ranty questions that are baiting and/or solely posted to call others out. Kinda like this one.


Divine Oubliette
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I don't dislike any one particular person but I do dislike pro-lifers who use abortion questions as a platform to spew their brand of hate ie calling people murderers.


Hallie
tricia123
allbabiesareangels
and anyone else who is infertile or tries to take my baby because "two parent stable couples" should take all of the poor abused babies away from single, divorced, widowed, and teen women and raise them to be just as hateful and snotty as they are.
And my mom I think she uses this thing too but I don't know her online name.


cantstopLinnyG
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There are a few that make my blood boil, because they seem to be trying to start trouble. I don't dislike someone because their opinion is different than mine, but it does bother me whan I see them calling ap's greedy pigs or n Moms crack ho's, or adoptees bitter. I cant stand the stereotypes.

The only ones I truly don't like are the ones who continually troll for babies- and there are only a few. Just google their email addy's when they post to a girl who is looking for advice on whether or not they should surrender.

It's ok, though, I just report them and then email the girl myself with the womans email addy & the links to posts she has made all over the internet to show how crazy she is.

Love
Linnny G
(hint hint)


Carol c
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No. Even though there are a few people who seem to only be here to stir up trouble with their provacative questions; they aren't really worth any kind of emotional investment.


MamaKate
No. I mostly feel sorry for people who are selfish, non-compassionate, rude or close-minded. It simply shows how unhappy they are with themselves. I feel sorry that they lack a spirit of community and humanity because they are missing out on so much good. I am willing to agree to respectfully disagree with people but when someone stoops to poor behavior, I generally assume that it is due to their own personal anger/guilt/shortcomings/issues/etc. and can't help but feel a bit sad for them.


grapesgum
Not really. I respect most regulars here. The posts that I dislike are by people who refuse to recognize that adoption is not win-win-win. Oh - and the baby trollers.

ETA - Hallie - you can put people who solicit you for your baby on your email spam list. They will be filtered out to your "junk" folder.


✧ Ⓛⓘⓛⓨ ♥ kaelers, emy & bella
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There's some people whose posts automatically make me think, "here we go...", but I don't dislike anyone until they make it personal by PM'ing me or responding directly to me in a rude manner. Well, those people and baby-trollers.
Anyone else, I'm pretty neutral to even if I disagree with a lot of what they say.


Jennifer L
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I can't say that for sure. People can present a different face on the internet to strangers than they would in direct personal contact.

ETA: I suppose that people who post troll questions have a mark against them, in my book.


kateiskate
There are a few posters here that I almost always disagree with, but I wouldn't say that I dislike them because I don't know them as people beyond Yahoo Answers. But differences of opinion make for healthy debate.

People that I don't really care for much are the people here that perpetuate stereotypes.

Other than that, I suppose the only thing that really annoys the crap out of me is when people answer a question directed towards adoptees or about another aspect of adoption and people answer "Yeah my best friend's mom's second cousin's hairdresser is adopted and she's happy". Please leave the commentary to those who are directly in connection with adoption.


snowwillow20
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No, but sometimes I get a big laugh from a question or I just shake my head in disbelief. It is not in my makeup to be mad at people I don't know.


__A_YAHOO_USER__
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Everytime I get mad, an angel lose its wings!


monkeykitty83
Nope.

Even people I disagree vehemently with give me things to think about and reconsider.


Freckle Face
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Nope. It takes and wastes too much energy to be mad, dislike or hate. Live and let live.


myst1998
No, I don't know anyone here and reading words as opposed to seeing the facial expressions and hearing the tone of voice the words are asked in means it is very easy to take someone's post the wrong way.

Having said that, there are certain questions and comments I dislike due to the ignorance and uneducated responses in those comments and questions.

Some posters annoy me and I know annoy other posters... we can't all agree on the same points or our world would be rather boring and no one would have free choice.


BLW_KAM
There are two people who regularly post here who have surpassed my ability for tolerance. If their real world persona is a reflection of their words, then it's fair to say I dislike them.


DevonChaos
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The baby trolls. One specific name comes to mind. She is a predator of the worst type. I hope she stops preying on young mothers soon. Karma is going to catch up to her big time if she doesn't.


Hardcorë_Mom Baby #2 is a BOY!
I dislike the rude answerers and people who 'pretend' to be something that they are not.


Bodhi
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No. If anything, my favorite posts are those that I disagree with, because they challenge my current way of thinking and make me consider other viewpoints. That's the sole reason I come here. So, oddly enough I guess, the people who ought to annoy me or rub me the wrong way are the people who I like the best :)


lee la
not really but if they did i would send them a email telling them how i felt and how it offended me and hopefully they will send me an email with there apology in it


LaraSue
No, because I don't know anyone in this section. I can't "dislike" someone based on online interactions.


mkay
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you mean on yahoo answers? nahh


sizesmith
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I don't dislike them, because I don't know them. I have some that I totally disagree with, even though I've learned from them, and there's a few who really need to be in a mental institution, although since they're so sick, you just have to pity them, and go on without hating them.


icehockeymom7
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There are people here who I think like to "get a rise" out of others, and I just try to ignore it. Sometimes people have had such strong negative experiences in their lives that it clouds their ability to really see things objectively. When it comes to adoption, there are some on here who are 100% convinced that if you are an AP, you are awful scum, no matter what. But that isn't most people here, it's actually only a few people.


Shelly P. Tofu, E.M.T.
Yes. Can't name names, but I can think of at least three off the bat who drive me nuts with their narrow-mindednes and stereotyping.


allchildrenareangels
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Nope!!!!!


P.W.
course not!! Maybe u because I find u weird cos u find other people annoyin just cos they ask qu. I think i said cos too many times in dat sentence lol...





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