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As an adoptee, a question i have is do you sometimes feel like your the only honest person when dealing with?
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As an adoptee, a question i have is do you sometimes feel like your the only honest person when dealing with?

rejection from siblings that cannot accept your existence even after ten years of knowing of you? And would you contact more siblings now that know nothing of you or would the experiences of adoption put you off? I live in a small town and am surrounded by ten siblings and birth parents. I truly believe when i was adopted from birth 37years ago, i should have been sent away and not kept in such a small town, as now its a mess knowing im blood linked to so many and still been rejected by all.


    




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Ouch Lucy.
OMG that would be so hard - living in the same town - with so many surrounding you.
I'm so sorry. I'm having similar problems - but they're all at least in another state.
The biggest hurt for adoptees is the rejection as an adult from bio family.
(IMHO)
If you need ANY support - here's the link to a great online forum of adoptees from around the world -
http://www.adultadoptees.org/forum/index.php
Take care of you.





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