Can a single 27 year old woman adopt a child? I have been single my whole life and I want a baby. I have gave

up on trying so find Mr. Perfect. No guys like me, so I give up. I'm in this world and I'm all alone. I have no family. Just a few friends...a decent job. Anyways, I have always been one of those very motherly women and I want a baby really bad...or a kid. So...how do I try and adopt? I don't make a lot of money so aren't there any places that let people adopt for free? The office I work in is a medical facility and we always have these adults that have like 6 adopted kids and they live on Medicaid so if they can do it I can too right?
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I don't want to go through the pregnancy. I think there are too many foster kids in the world and one of them out there is destined for me!

Morgaine

You are 27. Far from being over the hill. You have YEARS still to find the right guy, get married and have children of your own.

What would you do if you adopt and then meet the Mr. Perfect? And why does he have to be perfect?

If you are serious, look into foster care. It is free, though you have to be able to prove you can support yourself and the child without the "check" that you get for being a foster parent.

sunny

Ahh, another adoptee with a big job. Fill subsitute mommy's emotional voids.

Sounds like a great childhood;

-Single mother
-No extended family
-Not much money
-Full time daycare
-Someone who 'gives up' at 27

I'm sure there are plenty of women who would LOVE to give their infant to you.

I didn't get married until I was 37. Get a hobby and some therapy, and find out why your outlook on life is so bleak.

Independ"ant"

Another myth "Mr.Perfect". Although I must say a lot of parents are doing a shitty job at raising boys today, there are millions out there that are pretty good guys. Try investing a little time into introspection. The problem with women that have a hard time finding a soul mate usually lays within themselves.
It would be very hard on any child never mind an adoptee to fit the bill of being "perfect". Good luck.

Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot

Why does he have to be perfect? You just need to find one who's perfect for you! 27 is so young! I agree with the poster who says go into counseling and figure out what's really missing in your life before dragging a child into it!

Crucio

Yes singles can adopt. You might consider looking into adopting from the foster care system. This is going to be the cheapest form of adoption and in some cases depending on your state it will be free. Some places will even give you subsidies for your adopted child(ren) until they turn 18 it might only be like $500/monthly. I have even heard of some states that will pay for an adopted childâ€™s college education provided they go to a state school. One can generally say what age range you are willing to take. For example infant to 4 years old. Or if you were going to take a sibling group you can say the highest number you would be willing to take (i.e. sibling group of 3 or 4 children) as well as lowest age for the youngest child and highest age for the eldest child.

I would suggest contacting your state Foster Care Department. They will be able to provide you will much more information on the criteria you would need in order to adopt. As well provide a list of things you would have to do, such as take some classes, suggested reading material etc.

http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/howToAdopt.aspx

DarthFangNutts

First step is to make sure you really want to adopt and are ready for a child because liking to play with your friend's children is different than having your own. You don't go home after a playful day and do nothing. The child is with you always.

Anyway, if you decide adoption is your route, then I would say find a good agency that someone can refer you to. The agency does not have to be local because agencies are all over the place. Also decide is you want domestic or international adoption. Domestics, you run the risk that the birth mom may decide that they don't want to give up the baby after birth and you would essentially "waste" the time you spent waiting. With Internatioanal, it's more certain that you will have a baby after the whole process.

Keep in mind, the international process is slow and quite a lot of paperwork. Time depends on which country you choose.

As for age, most countries have age limits, not minimums (atleast you won't fall into any minimums at 27) but some do tend to sway away from single parents.

Anyway, good luck.

denise

If you are healthy, with sound mind, and a job, then, "yes". Just go talk to who ever you want to adopt from and apply. It will take a good while to do it. Good luck!

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