Can anybody help with this adoption question?

I just found out today that I have a sister out there. I am the only child from my mom and dad's marriage. I do have a brother from the woman that my dad was married to before my mom. Well when his wife was pregnant with their son, he got another woman pregnant and they had a daughter. I know I shouldn't be worried about it but this girl is my sister. I would like to find her. Does anybody know of a good free site to try to search for her? All I know is her birth parents names and her age. That is it. Thanks! Any info would be appreciated.
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I talked to my mom about it. I don't want to cause any drama in her life because I don't know if she knows if she is adopted or what. She is around 32 or 33 years old right now.

Possum

First - add details to the free registries here
(have you got her date of birth???)
http://www.isrr.net/
http://registry.adoption.com/

Check here for information on state records here -
http://adopteerights.net/nulliusfilius/?page_id=39

Check here for search help - and links to free search angels -
http://www.adoptioncrossroads.org/

All the very best with your search - you have every right to think of her - and I hope that you find her.

anastasia beaverhausen-the real1

why on EARTH should you not be worried about it? she's your SISTER!!!!!

pm me if you want and i will try to help.

lucy

Im adopted aged 37yrs. Found my birth father ten yrs ago. He was and still is a married man with 5 kids that no nothing of me. Im in the process of telling my half siblings about me, waited long enough for him to be honest with his family. If you find your sister be prepared for rejection or acceptance. Shes as innoncent as you are, its the deadbeat dads out there that are cowards... good luck...

birthdad in hell

No free sights i know of but if you got a credit or debit card go to the family heritage sites like geneology.com and register use the free 2 week trial then cancel(lol) i know it's not exactly nice but you might find the answers your looking for. as for the dead beat dad respondent.
Why do you blame the dad and why is deadbeat dad syndrome always the excuse? i know there are a lot of them out there but dam. don't you think for a minute that maybe it was the mom. I mean really did he know she was pregnant? If you don't know these things stop being so dam judgemental. people like you are the reason i've spent almost 2 years fighting for my child. get your head out in the sunshine for once and please don't make judgemental answers without all the info. Do yourself a favor and try thinking for once. "deadbeat dad is why "is a losers blanket answer in my opinion.

Crucio

If you know her parents names you could try doing a search for them go to google, yahoo or some other search engine and type in People Search. There are some that you will have to pay a fee to get more information. Depending on her age often you can see possible relatives for people you do a search on.

These are just a few
www.peoplesearch.com
www.whitepages.com
www.zabasearch.com

Once you get her name you might be able to check Face book and Myspace. My advice would be to trade lightly this could be quite a shock for this young woman, even more if she does not know that she is adopted. Even if she does which hopefully is the case it could still be shock for her to be contacted out of blue If you are able to find her I would recommend a letter or email at first. Please prepare for anything itâ€™s possible this girl could embrace you or she could want nothing to do with you at all. If you do get a relationship going you could connect straightaway, it could take some time or you might never have the connection that you have dreamed/envisioned. You will need to prepare for any outcome good or bad.

Edit -- you might also consider singing up at Adoption registries so if your bio-sister is looking for any family, you would be hooked u with contact information. In some cases you might just need her birthday.

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