Coincidences resolved and/or explained by reunion?
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Coincidences resolved and/or explained by reunion?
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Have you ever experienced something that seemed random and unrelated until you entered into reunion and gained new knowledge about yourself?
Others who are not adoptees: Can you believe that such a phenomenon actually exists?
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SLY
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Yes, this often happens, and sort of gets explained as Adoption Synchronicity. My lost son and my oldest raised son were stationed on the same Navy base together for 2 years. They both kept being told about "some guy" who looked/sounded/acted just like him.
I have a peculiar mannerism that I do with my thumb when nervous. When my son and I were together I looked across the room at him and he was doing the same thing. I saw the light of recognition go off in his eyes at the same time.
I married my first husband on the same day, 2 years later, that my son was born. I had forgotten (like the good little bmommy I was) what the date was and met him on a blind date and married him 2 weeks later because he was leaving for overseas. Totally accidental? Synchronicity? Who knows? |
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gypsywinter
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Is it coincidence or sychronicity?
My daughter lost to adoption, was married on the same day as I. I don't have any other family, friends or acquaintances (that I know of) that married on that same day of the same month. Of all the 365 days of a year..how did we manage to pick the same day of the same month? My daughter and I knew nothing of each other for 34 years. I would marry 1 1/2 years after her surrender. |
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SusieQ
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I am not adopted, but experienced something very similar. I grew up on the Gulf Coast while my father lived in NY, so I rarely saw him. He moved to New Orleans when I was 15 and I began spending a good bit of time with him. In the home I grew up in, my mother and my brother were like two peas in a pod. My mother also greatly disliked me and allowed boyfriends to abuse me and abandoned me places, so I always felt unwanted. I was also very different from my mother and brother and felt further alienated. When I got to know my father, I noticed we had a lot of the same mannerism, the same sense of humor and other things. It made me feel good to finally fit in with someone. So, yea, I know it exists. |
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Melissa Swan
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I dont really understand the question.....
Coincidences between birth relatives and myself yes........
coincidences resolved or explained? what does that mean?? |
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De
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I think this phenomenon does exist but doesn't really have to do with a certain trigger. It can be a reunion, or another random thing between close friends |
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 Pressure to Adopt.....? |
| I am 22, and have a 10 month old daughter..my husband has only recently started actually stepping up and taking care of his family. I am a very strong and independent woman...its been the only way I&#... |
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 Anywone out there who is or know somewone, who had a baby girl on january 11? in Ukraine? |
| I was born in Ukraine, on January 11 1990- something.... nineteen ninety soomething. not telling you my AGE though... anyways so i am looking for my parents very hard. i can't get any ... |
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 Can I adopt a full grown man? |
I went to the adoption services and they told me I can not adopt a grown man.
Why?... |
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 MY FIANCE WANTS TO ADOPT MY TWO YR OF DAUGHTER WHOES FATHER LIVES IN ANOTHER STATE AND DOES NOTHING TO CONTACT? |
| me and my ex were never married we have been split since dec. 2009 me and my fiance have been together for a yr and are getting married he would like to adopt my two yr. her bio father does nothing ... |
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 Do you think its normal that I am jealous of sisters relationship with bio family? |
| My sister and I are both adopted. She is in reunion with her biological family, her mother,father and siblings and they are all close and have get together more often then she does with our mom and ... |
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 How can I just explain to my parents that I'm not ready? |
| I recently turned 16 and I really have a lot to sort out. I feel all moody - like I'm on this emotional roller coaster all the time and the fact that my period has started only makes it worse. O... |
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 should i put my child up for adoption? |
he is only 2 years old, and he is really really an imbecile. let me tell you why i state hes an imbecile:
he tells my hubby that oh "daddy u farted i can poop" and he does it al over ... |
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 I'd like to adopt from Russia/Ukraine. I'm in the UK? |
| Does anyone know any helpful sites to look for information regarding procedures etc. Also does anyone know of any reputable agency's? Either that you've used yourself or a friend/family has.... |
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 How to find my real mom, or who she was... and her name,? |
| When i was a baby, i guess my parents died or gave me up because i was in an orphanage for like 10 months, in Ukraine, and then i was adopted. i am not telling you my age, but i live in NJ. And i ... |
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 What are the positives and negatives of adopting a child? Racial issues.? |
| For some reason i've never seen my self as a mother, but if I were to be one I would rather adopt a child. Can I get feed back for you guys? Why do people say that people shouldn't adopt a ... |
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 Two articles in the Atlanta Constitution-is this representative? |
or do you think it is unique, only a few, or widespread? Do these findings surprise you?
http://www.ajc.com/news/
http://www.ajc.com/news/... |
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 Adoptees: do your kids know more about the mother-child bond than you do? |
| Yesterday, the family spent the day at a water-park. We all got home comfortably exhausted. After a nice shower, a hefty dinner, while comfortably ensconced on the sofa under a soft blanket ... |
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 Adopting a newborn child in Georgia? |
| My husband and I have a friend who introduced us to a young girl. She is unmarried and unable to care for a child she is carrying. We would like to adopt this child. My husband is 24, I am 23 and ... |
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 adoption?? please help? |
| ok so my cousin just got her kids tooken by the government not that long ago and they lived with us for a couple of months and my mom feel in love with her baby(not litterally of course) so my mom ... |
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 Foster/foster-adopt parents, and formerly fostered people, what is your view on respite care? |
For any who may not know, respite care is where foster parents care for children in care if their usual foster parents need a break.
I've always been in two minds about this, I recognise ... |
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| How do you respond to the question, "What country"? |
We adopted through foster care. When someone who doesn't know us very well finds out we adopted, one common question we get is, "What country did you adopt from?"
P... |
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 Bio parents: What term do you prefer to be used? |
| I'm just wondering what term biological parents prefer to be called by. I'm an adoptee and I've always referred to mine as birth parents or biological parents, but after searching ... |
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 Is it self fish for me to think we should stop reproducing for now? |
| I've always wanted kids, but today i thought about how so many children not just in America need a home and someone to show them love and support. I'm not completely against giving birth to ... |
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 First mom issue...ideas plz? |
Most of you here know my story. I adopted my step daughter 3 years ago and have made sure to keep her first mom as involved as possible.
Yesterday I got a call that she was unexpectedly in ... |
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