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Flying Monkey #073177
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Since I don't want to be PREGNANT I would choose abortion. If I was willing to carry a pregnancy to term I would PARENT. |
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23 year old texas female married
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If I had an unplanned pregnancy Oh wait I did, guess what I kept her and am raising her. Tomorrow she turns 12 weeks old. I guess in reality I couldn't do either. But in make believe land I'd have the abortion because I would suffer severe depression giving my baby up for adoption. Even though I would chose an open adoption to know they are not legally enforceable and that some crazy b**** thinks she can lie to my child and tell her I am some crack wh*re that didn't love her or want her. Yeah in make believe land I'll go with abortion. In reality I chose to parent. |
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Shelby..:0)
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if you got ureself pregnant i think you should keep it and love it!
NO abortions!!
And why adopt them??? you will only regret this later on in life! |
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yeahhjes
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they are both as hard as eachother at the end of the day.. just in different ways.
either way your letting go of a baby..
i would never encourage abortion- but i would NEVER judge someone in that situation.
sometimes you dont know all the details or facts.
a friend of mine fell pregnant by rape and was told there was a high chance of the baby killing her or not making it to full term. why should she put her own life at risk when the odds were against her.. |
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Philippa
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Neither - I would parent but if I had to choose adoption or abortion it would be abortion as both my son and I had suffered tremendously because of it. We both have to deal with depression, he suffers with anxiety attacks, I suffer with PTSD and have self harmed for many years plus I have tried to commit suicide a few times as the emotional pain is so bad. |
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lizzy
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I would have an abortion!! And i would recommend a friend doing the same. No offense to anybody!!!! |
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Laurel J
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Abort and tell my friend she'd better make her own decision. |
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chikn79
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Both should not be taken lightly... they are equally difficult decisions and both can have lasting ramifications.
Adoption can be a wonderful thing, but you need to remember that a pregnancy has physical and emotional aspects... it can take a toll on your body and after 9 mos of caring a baby it may be almost impossible for you to say goodbye.
Abortion may be the more appropriate choice depending the situation surrounding how you became pregnant. But this is a decision that YOU and only YOU need to be able to live with. It's not a bad thing if it's done early in the pregnancy (after 5 mos diff story).
I feel that this kind of decision depends on the individual. |
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Stephanie S
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If you have consumed alcohal or drugs during the pregnancy so far, then it would be probable that you'll have a baby with a cognitive development problem. So if it were me and I'd done any of this while I'm pregnant within the first three months, I'd do abortion because that is a critical time in the baby's development and It would have been screwed up. Otherwise I'd give it up for adoption and keep being healthy so that someone else who can't have kids, can have the opputunity to adopt a healthy baby. |
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Mom to Foster Children
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Well neither have anything to do with one another but if you are looking into what would we do...
Abortion is NOT birth control |
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CHERRIO A
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adoption |
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mrs.J.stone
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adoption |
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nikkol z
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I think you should find someone who wants the baby don't go with an agency too expensive for the person who wants a baby there are many people who would love and care for that baby as their own |
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Rob V
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adoption will give some other family the chance to abuse your kids you don't want that man !
abort it so then you are the one that abuses it by not lettin it come to life ! ahaha jk
and if you're one of those ppl who are like "well i could be killin the kid who cures cancer", you also "could be killin the kid that kills a kid with cancer" haaa just somethin to think bout . |
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Shareeka F
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My opinion is if you can lay there and do it you can raise your child that the both people made. If you have an unplanned pregnancy yes it is good to adopt but i would suggest that you keep the child in the family because one day the adopted parents will have to tell the child that they are adopted. I do not recommend abortion because you will be killing a gift from God and that's is murder even though many people do not think that it is. |
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Sophie
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ADOPTION |
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Carolynne Clitty
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They are both very hard things to do - personally, when I was in that position, I chose adoption. Abortion, I think, is even harder than adoption, but don't just choose one or the other as the easy option! Please think about it - I have regretted it for a while now. It wasn't the right choice for me right then, but now I wish I hadn't done it. If you really feel like you want to give the baby up, I'd say adoption. |
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Lani Lovee <3
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oh stfu retards abortion is not murder the fetus is not alive and its a woman's body a woman's choice but since you are willing to consider adoption i say it would still be better |
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Mommy to 11 month old Jacob
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adoption always trumps abortion in my eyes |
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COUPONKELLEY
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I am thinking right now you feel all alone. I would find a prolife place like we have BirthRight here and a couple other places. Anyway, these people will help you if you want to look into adoption, if you want help so you can have the things you need and to go through the pregnancy. They sometimes can help with certain bills, housing etc. They have connections. They can even help you find a good trusted place to go to if you are considering adoption. I wouldn't be able to give up my baby. I have one son we adopted when we were fosterparenting. Each little person we cared for became a part of us and forever will be. If you choose to bless someone else with a child- thats a wonderful gift to them...a sacrifice for you. Abortion is murder-I'll bet you can pull some up on youtube or some other site and see what they do. I think rape and the mother or baby's health would be the only way I would ever consider abortion. God Bless You!! (remember those hotlines and help places are supposed to be confidential) |
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adoption |
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r sunset riidez
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adoption |
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Ryan R
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don't get an abortion you may find out that you might want the kid and it would help if ypu put your age. |
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Loughran.
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Adoption no matter what the situation is. |
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thutton24
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Hi, had a friend who's partner got pregnant and didn't want it. He wanted to raise it but she decided she didn't want pregnancy. Believed it really messed her up after having the abortion, so would suggest if she is able to cope physically and mentally with the pregnancy go with adoption. She will have the abortion at the back of her mind for life, and some women have issues dealing with that. |
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FreakoChick
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dont kill a baby period. abortion is murder. |
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ibtc8503
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Adoption! And for the idiot saying the baby isn't alive, it is alive!! It has a heart beat and how do you know it can't feel what is happening to it. As for an unplanned pregnancy at least give the child a chance to have a happy life by giving it to a family that wants and can provide for it. |
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Stoofapotamous
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umm well adoption is probably best because if she chooses to have an abortion thats a decision she will have to live with for the rest of her life.. it may seem like the best thing for her now.. but she willl most likely regret it.
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