Does anybody think they would have a worse life if not adopted?

kaluah96

no i think mine would have been better. i look at my nmom and the letters on my space from my sisters and brothers( which i have not contacted anyone yet other than my n mom and she's only written me back once) but i can see the love in the family that i came from. the family that i was adopted into abused me mentally and physically simply for the color of my skin (but i was chosen). no one should live in an abusive home. and i can see that my siblings are happy and not abused.they're always thryng to get home. i'm always trying to run from mine.

sunny

Depends on how you mean 'worse'.

For me adoption was picking the short straw all around.

But the act of being adopted is difficult in it self. But it's like trying to describe the color yellow to a blind person: impossible.

Proud Adoptee

Absolutely. As a child who came from an abusive home and was put into foster care, my life could have been MUCH worse. In fact, it was MUCH worse prior to my adoption.

mrs. derek jeter

honestly i have no idea. from what i know, i would be poor and living in a small town in croatia. but then again, idk if it would be so bad because your with your real family no questions or wonders about what could have been. its a tough question because it could go either way.

Sadie W

if your talking about giving your child up for adoption then no not if you couldn't cope. not at all.
but if your fostering and was wondering whether too adopt then yeh. if the child has grown up with your from wat ever age it would be torture for all the people involved to bond again.
goood luck. x

Carnie C

I don't know that my life would have necessarily been worse but i am molded by my parents, not my bparents. As such, we have differences of opinions. I disagree with their narrowminded views of life because I was raised so differently (and not by rich people I might add). I do know my bmom would have had an incredible struggle trying to raise her kids. she and i have talked about it and she has said that all of our lives would've been so different if she had not made that choice. I know if i just met these peopl eat work or out and about, we would NOT be friends or associates.

I do feel that I am better off but who is to say? we can not turn back the clock.

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