Giving you baby up for adoption?? Im 16 and 35 weeks pregnant.?

I want my baby to have a lot more than what i am able to give her at this point in my life. I'm giving my baby up to my Aunt and Uncle who have no been able to conceive, they have tried for 10 years with absolutely no luck. I'm not even halfway threw high school, I have no job, no car, NOTHING I need to raise a child. I live with my single father, and I refuse to have to raise my baby with HIS money, thats just not fare. Also the dad, is a piece of SH*T, and I will not have my baby grow up without a father. She should not have to suffer due to my stupidity. I decided that giving my baby up was the best decision for me, when I was only 5 months pregnant. During this pregnancy, I have grown to love the baby inside of me, more than anything else in this world. My heart wishes deeply that this would have happened much later in life, and I would not have to say goodbye to my baby shortly after her birth. I know the decision I've made is the right one, and that my baby will have a great life, and that's all that matters, even if it kills me to let her go. Has anyone else giving a baby up for adoption? Any advice i coping with the emotions that come along with it.?
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My Aunt and Uncle: Parents to be.

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AdriannaLynnDueSoon28weeks along

awhh ! :) Hunn, youre defintly doing the right thing. If you think that youre not in the right time and place in your life to have a child- msot defintly give it up to a relative. At least youll still see the child :) Dont worry, see the child often so it doesnt forget who you are.

xJasmine

Pip

I checked out the pic and left the comment :)

My situation was different to yours as I was 19, working, wanted to raise my son (no reason not to) but was bullied and lied into surrendering. I was expected to get on with my life and 'forget about my son'. So for 23 years I suffered in silence apart from one time I talked to my husband about my son. Even then he got the bare facts as it was too painful for me to talk about my son. It took reunion for me to start talking about how I really felt which was pain, sadness, anger, bitterness, shame, guilt dealing with an invisible amputation. When someone loses a limb people can see that but to not raise a child that has been adopted nobody can understand unless they have been through it. The pain and sadness will never go away but I have learnt to deal with it. I found writing helped a great deal as I could write what I wanted without being judged.

Rosie

Your Aunt and Uncle should step up and HELP you raise this baby. You should not have to say goodbye to her. Let them help you with stuff, but you keep your child.

This is in the best interests of the child long term.

Expecting 12/18

you are lucky to be mature enough to go through this. I have 2 children and am pregnant again. my 2 kids are from my ex husband, we are currently going though divorce and custody battle. the new baby I am pregnant with has a different dad. he is abusive. I think this is his way of "keeping me." i am scared. he recently kicked me out of the house and left me with nothing. he is excited about the baby and wants to be a father. but I am now homeless and left with nothing. he made me so dependent on him. he thinks this is a joke, all fun and games. I am so scared and dont know what to do, I would be selfish to try to raise this baby on my own. I am 16 weeks, and she is already going through a battle. this isnt fair! I wish I had as much courage as you do. I wish you well, and hope everything turns out for the best for us both :)

Ask Me :D

You are doing such an incredibly good thing. It's so hard to give up someone you love dearly, especially if they are your own child. You have an endlessly loving heart and you've shown this by going such a good thing for your baby. You should be so proud of yourself, you say your only 16 but anyone can tell by reading this you have the brains of someone much older.

Your baby is going to live a beautiful life, and so are you. You have done the best you can for your child's future and by doing so you have proved to everyone you have one of the kindest hearts a person can possess.

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