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How can I convince my brother to love his child?

My brother and his wife don't want to admit it but their 8 month old male baby was born gay. The baby started showing signs of being gay about 6 weeks ago. I keep telling them their baby is a switch hitter then they get very upset and ask me to leave. How can I convince them to love their child for who they are?
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The child started to play with dolls, prefers dresses, and wants to play dress up over boy activities.

I meant to put this in another section. BTW why are you calling me an idiot when I am asking for help. Thats mean.


    




Punk Rock Fashionista
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I don't know what to tell you, but I would like to thank you for being one of the few people who realize people are born gay and are gay their whole life. It's not a choice, and people don't "become gay". Good for you. Your nephew is lucky to have such an open minded family member.

I have a family member who is gay. My dad never suspected the family member was gay, but he says now that he looks back the signs were quite obvious around age 3 or 4.


IAskUAnswer
How the heck are you able to tell that an 8 month old is gay? If this is even a serious question, you saying that about their child is just about the most stupid thing I have ever heard. They probably ARE loving their child for who he is and are not being mad about that, they are mad at the riduculous statements you are making.


I love my babies
Whatever, you need to grow and get a life.....


Emily B
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You do realize that the baby might not be gay? btw how does a a baby show signs of gay-ness? it might just be picking up social skills from his parents and think their acceptable because he is young and doesn't know different.


Melissa
Umm, how old is this child? Don't start labling it gay until it's old enough to decide for itself if he's gay or straight, or whatever he wants to be. I'm sure they love their child and don't need to love it dfferently because you say he's gay. They'll give him the same unconditional love they have since bringing him home.

So rude of you!


jammer
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Your an idiot!!!!!


3 Month Guy
How can you tell that a baby is gay? I dont' get it.
Did he started kissing other male babies?


chik7896
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Wow I don't even know what to say to this crazy ridiculous made up story!!!


à®Ashley♥
What is wrong with you!? You can't tell that at 8 months!! You need to stop right now... wow some uncle YOU are!


Cortney R
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That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard...Stop making up lies about a baby .


Cam
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I had to re-read your question. At first I thought you said 8 years. But 8 months? There's no way to tell at that age.


Lillie
Perhaps you're the one who needs to accept the child for who he is...obviously you're the one who has quite an issue with him.


sundaizie ♥~♥
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So you tell that the baby is gay...HOW???
He prefers the pink blanket..he smiles to much..he doesn't like footballl??? How on earth do you think that you can tell if a baby is gay??? My onelittle boy really liked playinhg dools and dress up with his sister...he actually liked it better than she did. He's a doctor..with 3 little boys of his own..someplay with dolls some with trucks..some with dolls in the trucks.
Please see if this babies parents will talk with someonw who can be objective..and is knowledgable enough to talk them through this. How very very sad for the baby is his parents cut him off from all the love and emotional care that he deserves for some realson as bizzar as this. I hope they are not just really imature "parents" who have no idea of how to love and care for baby. They and you..if you are so involved in the decision making process of the 'gayness' of their baby and how to raise him....you allneed help!!! Don't think you know what you're doing...you don't..the baby will be the one to suffer....and that's TOTALLY NOT FAIR! ♥


LaraSue
Don't feed the trolls


heveansent
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wow i bet he trys to make out with all the other 8 month old boys. You are such a good uncle for looking out for him.

Seriosly fool they're asking you to leave because they dont want a psycho around their BABY


Reinstated!!
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UR AN IDIOT


I Believe!
I'm glad you are not my family.


lolly
its amazing how many people wait for questions like this to get fired up..there are real questions and promblems on here people!


scorpio_queen_2003
errrr troll...


janna w
Labeling children is absolutely UN acceptable. First of all in a child's eyes a toy is a toy. And how exactly does an 8 month old dress up? He's still wearing diapers I doubt he gets himself dressed. It seems like the reason your brother is getting upset is not because he doesn't love his child but because you're purposely trying to annoy him! If it makes him upset stop running your mouth. It's obvious that you know nothing about children. I've NEVER heard my gay friends say " I've known I was gay at 8 months old!' Respect your brother and his family and keep your uneducated mouth shut. If by some stroke of fate he does decide he's gay...let him decide...right now you're deciding for him... Could it be maybe you're gay and instead of coming out you're projecting on this innocent little boy?


Bored247
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That does not necessarily mean the poor aby is gay ! ♥
The baby doesnt know anything about that!!!
Anyways, you cant really convince your brother to LOVE someone its hard he has to learn that himself, and if he doesnt, im sorry to say, hes not worthy of that cute special baby!!!


gal
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how do they know an 8 MONTH OLD BABY is Gay!!??! That is sooo wrong!


Mia C
ur so wrong, how can you dare to say something like this about a baby that can even talk yet......maybe your the one that's gay!


Debbie Downer
Yes, the baby is gay.

And Elvis is still alive and working at a gas station in Boise.


gsdhfj
Thinking he's gay is the best way to turn him gay





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