How can I find couples wanting to adopt a newborn in about 5 months time?

Wobbly

I imagine through Social Services.

Please just make sure you've thought it through very well first. If you do decide to go ahead, there'll be plenty of couples who would give their left arm to have a baby.

lauralam

i think u r a very brave girl.and a wise one for not havin the abortion.lots of ppl out their will take good care of ur baby.i say go to ur doc and go from their.just a pity we couldnt do it on here.i lost two children one aged 6 weeks old almost three years ago.and 9 weeks ago i miscarried after ttc for 18 months.there are alot ofppl like me who would do anythin to have their child.i aint puttin u down for that.i respect u very much for havin the courage not to go thru the abortion but with the thought of helpin another couple.i wish u all the very best of luck.but make sure u r 100% sure u want to put ur baby up for adoption b4 u go thru with it.

Emily Hobhouse

Brave girl. Speak to your doctor - they will point you in the right direction.

x !! Me !! x

Get advie from social services, your doctor, helplines, type it into Yahoo serch for adoption agencies. Good luck x

Still Me

You have plenty of time. Call a licensed adoption agency and speak with a counselor. Look in the phone book under "Adoptions".

Make sure to tell them you are married, as he will have to sign a Relinquishment for the baby to be adopted. They will do a marriage search as well. This will safeguard the adoption and prevent him from coming back years from now and seeking custody. It happens!

Good luck!

amanda d

if you go and talk to the local social services they will be happy to help you, and you will be safe in the knowledge that anyone they recommend to have your baby has been thoroughly tested and police checked. and your baby will be safe.

char

I have been through the same situation...albeit it's not quite over yet.

I explained my wish to my midwife who sent a referral form to social services.
You are then visited and talked to to see how you are dealing with everything and counselling is offered.
Then there is a big placement meeting and constant checks to see you are still happy with decision. You can have as little or as much input on choosing the family as you want...i chose a family who cannot have children conceived naturally as i didn't think it was fair i could have children but wasn't ready at this point and yet they cannot.

Your wishes are then sent through to the hospital you will be giving birth in and then it is down to labour and birth all hopefully going okay.

Hope this helps ;) and please make sure you get any support you need as it is not as easy as it sounds but can be got through xxx

meghananne23

(((((HUGS))))))) You're a hero!!!!! THANK-YOU for giving your child life.

Adoption is a very loving choice!!!

***YOU ARE NOT SELFISH!!!*** In fact, keeping the child is more of a selfish decision.

Here is a # to call:

1-800-592-4725

It is a pregnancy / adoption hotline and they will help you.

There is a couple out there waiting to give your child a lifetime of love!

sammy

Have you contactedSocial Services or a Pastor? Go talk to someone you trust and can help you that will give you good advice for you and the baby. I hope things work out for you. I will keep you in my prayers.

loubie lou

Bless you, you are doing a very brave thing.
Just make sure you have really considered properly, whether or not you want to give your baby up, no one can force you either way.
If you have a midwife or Doctor that you see visit them, you will need counseling of some description.
They will help put you in contact with an adoption agency or social services, who will help you through the process.
Take Care of your self x

april l

If you use DSS you will save yourself and the family alot of time and money. We just adopted and love it. DSS was helpful, less expensive than agencies and they will know right off hand who is searching for a child near you. You have to be sure about this. There are alot of emotions for everyone envolved and if you are not certain it will cause damage to all parties involved.

Orion

The safest way for you to find a loving home is to contact several of the adoption agencies in your area and find out more about the process in your state. It's wonderful that you choose to give this child life but remember to think about all that is involved. Choosing adoption can be wonderful for a couple who desperately want to raise a child but be absolutely sure this is something you really want. Often times mom's find it difficult to carry through once the child arrives. Talk all this over with an adoption specialist and don't just allow them to just make a plan without working through this with you. Best of luck.

StacieG

Making an adoption plan for the child is a very loving choice! I know a lot of women who carry a lot less guilt & regret for choosing adoption than abortion...I know a lot of women who have a lot of guilt & regret for having chosen abortion.

Contact an adoption attorney or agency local to you. "Interview" them to find the one you feel most comfortable working with. After that you can decide how open or closed you want the adoption to be (ask the agency/lawyer about your options). And then you can select the couple you want to raise the child you're going to give birth to.

Judi H

Go to an adoption agency

tina g

There are many good agencies assisting in adoption. Check locally. We are hopeful to adopt and actively looking to adopt an infant.

zaeli22

Good for you.....type 'adoption agency' into a search engine or look in the phone book under such.

cutiepie

go to an adoption agency or try social services

by the way
i'm glad you didn't have an abortion and you are helping somebody else but next time try not getting pregnant if you don't want to be then you won't have to ask this

TIMOTHY and NIKKI C

hello,we are a family of five and we are hoping to adopt a newborn baby and we are open to any health and race and the amount of openness you want if any.we have been trying to find a baby for the past almost 3 years with no luck and a lot of heart ache.we live in santa fe texas which is by houston and galveston.we have three kids.the oldest two are my kids by my exhusband they are 8,6yrs and my husband and i have a three year old that we almost lost at born due to birth problems.thank you and god bless.-nikki

christine h

hello we are a home study marred cuple age 35 and 40.We would love to adopt you baby.Please contact me if you would like more information.Thanks Christine

friend

Oh honey!!! I think that there are plenty of us out there looking to adopt... Itsaboutlove.org is one and parentprofiles.com is another one that I'm aware of.. I would adopt....thanks.. hope you find the dream family for your little one...

kitten16_18

Me and my husband can not have children at all thats what the doctors told us. So all we can do is look for a child to adopt but we are having no luck yet. Adoption we were told would cost between 10,000 and 100,000 dollars to adopt a baby so we have to find a person that wants to give their baby up for adoption ourselves because adoption is really expensive. You have a chance if you decide to give the baby up for adoption give the baby a better life and who knows you could be an ANGEL sent from God to give me and my husband the chance to be parents or if not us people like us. I will be your friend if you ever need to talk you can e-mail me or message me on yahoo messenger my screen name is kitten16_18 and my e-mail is kitten16_18@yahoo.com don't hesitate to e-mail me or message me on yahoo messenger if you ever need someone to talk to about anything anything at all I will be here for you to talk to I will be here for you no matter what. I Promise and I never break a promise.

BundyGil

You'll get killed in the rush. Contact an adoption agency or through the hospital you're going to.

gr8estmanager

My husband and I are looking to adopt.....but please do not trust everyone who responds to you on here. Go through an attorney and be sure that they have done their classes and home study.

Ask them lots of questions (no question is stupid) anything that concerns you or anything that you want to know about your child's adoptive parents.

Follow your gut and your heart. You will know what is right for you and your baby. Feel free to email me, if you need to talk or have questions. (regardless of what you choose to do)

Bless you, good luck and don't forget to follow your heart in any part of this decision.

= )

go to an adoption agency then you can interview parents and pick the one you want

*me*

Me and my husband, consider us please. Pray and ask God for guidance at this time, he will help you. God bless you, you seem so mature.

Email me at Cowgirlpink007@yahoo.com

Please go to your local social servicse department - contact details will be on your local council website.

Please do not think by having your baby adopted means you will never see him or her again - If you want you can maintain contact (sometimes face to face) with your child after they are adopted.

There are also many other options open to you as well as adoption. I strongly advise you speak to your local social services. Contrary to popular belief they should be very supportive and understanding.

Good luck in whatever you decide x

azer w

it must be a very hard time for you, but i think that you should go to social services and maybe talk to them before you make any decision's and if at the end of it if you still want to give your baby up then you know that they will help you and the baby. also you know that the baby will be going to a safe place

jeep

Try an adoption agency. Your state has many places where you can go. The process for an adoption is very long to go through in each state. Some let their friends or parents take the child. The best way is the state becasue of the rigorous classes and training and interviews that are done before adoption. Many people out there would like to adopt, but be careful of the ones who would take advantage of the child- use the government. Protect the child.

AdoptiveMama

You could contact Family to Family Adoptions Inc. They are located in Texas, but take care of loving birthmothers all over the country! They will help you find the perfect match for the baby. fam2fam.org is the website, and you could get their contact info from them. We used that agency when we adopted our daughter, and we were highly impressed with how they handled everything...Birthmother needs, our needs....everything!

They have a 5 star list of employees, and we will contact them again when our daughter is 2 years old!

Jakes MaMa

First off you... I like to tell you Are doing a a great thing... you are giving your child life. Go through a adoption agency, or social services.. it will not cost you a thing. I would not recomened responding to anyone's post here saying they want to adopt your child.. I'm sorry but there a process involed... that protects everyone involed. You can also look into a open adoption that way you may still be able to have some contact with your child after birth { photos, letters, gifts, and sometimes a chance to visit once in a while} Talk to your Dr. they can get you in touch with the right people. Good luck and God Bless you.
If it weren't for women like you I would not have my son!!!
Thank you!!!!
Jakes Mama

AJ_JOHNSON

adoption is a life changing experience that will effect you and your baby. the only thing i can suggest is speak to a councillor and social services. but its up to you what to do your life and another life your carrying. don't do anything you don't wont to do. good luck and i hope you make the rite decision for you :-)

sthom

www.rickandbeckywanttoadopt.com

Stacy and Jordan

My husband and I have been trying to concieve for little over a year now and havent had any luck .. We went to the doctor and I have pcos and he has very low sperm count we are very much wanting to adopt a newborn because we are not up for all the medical Treatments such as ivf which the doctor said was pretty much our only option. If anyone is interested in adoption we would love for you to email at Ladypioneer33@aol.com :)

ERIN

HELLO , MY HUSBAND AND I ARE LOOKING TO GIVE OUR BABY GIRL FOR ADOPTION. WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR YEARS AND HAVE TWO KIDS AND WE WANT TO GIVE ONE FOR REASONS YOU WILL COME TO KNOW. YOU CAN EMAIL US DIRECTLY USING anyepicevaa@yahoo.com

reiny

Looking for God fearing and loving family for my son.I am a citizen of UK. I worked with the missionary in the UK before my husband died.So i was sent to Cameroon were i finally lost my job because i was not regular in attendance to my job because of my baby's health due to the climatic conditions.More still my passport got missing and things became more rough and i could not return to Britain. When things became worst i had to go stay with my Parish Pastor since i was unable to pay my house bills.He welcome me but his wife does not, this make me know that she does not love me because when the pastor always leave the state for seminars she always treats me badly.Am giving out my baby due to the following;cause i cannot take good care of him;the climatic condition here is not good for him because it makes him sick.Please will love to give out my baby to a loving caring and God fearing family;Hope to read from you and know more about you. I will want it legal.Stay blessed email miriam.andrew99@yahoo.com

Theonelisa

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years and even tried IVF with no success. I love children and can't imagine my life without being able to share all I have with someone so special. If you're still looking, please contact me so we can meet. XOXO Lisa and Joe theonelisa@yahoo.com

ashely jessica

Mother Good Day, Mother are you still interested in adopting the baby you were looking for because am looking for a good and lovely family to adopt my son Kingston.so just get back to me interested for more information and pictures thanks and waiting . God Bless You

lois

i beg you to call me. 9405949229

hopeful

Is this a current post? I am 34 years old and haven't been able to conceive - if this is still current - I would love to talk to you some more about this. Email me if this is still an option - me and my husband would feel very blessed to be able to raise a child.

Mirabel

Hello go to the home page www.doorofhomeorphanhome.page.tl if you are still interested in child adoption . My husband and I adopted from there . Thanks Mirabel and Michael

stacey rosales

me and my husband is looking to adopted. we got married and having trouble getting pregnect and i would like to have a baby to love it can be a open adoption if you want

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