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How can I return a child I adopted?

I recently adopted a child hoping for a great start. However, it turns out that the kid is not all he was meant to be by agency.

First of they told us he is fun and nice to be around, I have yet to hear him make a joke yet alone make me laugh.

He has no manners, never cleans the dishes, or take the trash out. He always wants attention or needs feeding, yet he can't dish out anything.

He is far from bright, brought home a quiz, and with excitement showed it to me... I was dumbfounded to think he would consider a C+ something to be proud of, and I had to let him know that that is not good enough for the fridge. I'd be impressed if he made it as a manager at McDonald if u know what I mean.

What makes this so painful for me is that I am wasting my time and money on him. It just frustrates me, and I cant stand the sight of that thing anymore.

My question is can I return him or do I need a lawyer?


    




uncle stevie
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Just go back to the agency tell them your views on this child and how you feel towards him and you will not need lawyer. yours


surfcandee
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troll-

who ever believes this post should have their computer taken away!


Randy B
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You are repeating yourself. You asked this, um, question earlier this week.

My previous answers till stands. If you kept the receipt you can return him to the agency. If not, try Walmart. They will take back just about anything without a receipt. You may only get a store credit or a full gift card but at least you can get a new set of golf clubs outa the deal.

Then again, maybe Madonna would take him off your hands. I hear she is now looking again after being denied in Africa.


Crucio
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Was not this posted just a few days ago?


Mei-Ling
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"Troll! Troll in the dungeon!"


Rowan
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April Fools day was Wednsday. Trolls to the left, to the left.


SpookyMulder
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STFU troll.


snowwillow20
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Psychiatrist, maybe.


The Lauren
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This was posted the other day. Troll. Thats not funny


kateiskate
*yawn*

How original.


Hanna T
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lawyer, and thats awful you should be ashamed


LOJunkie
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troll


Jennifer L
April Fools was a couple days ago.


cantstopLinnyG
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Im so sorry he's not working out for you. Its such a shame that some adoptive parents think the child will be "just like them". Try Craigslist, or maybe the Y!A regular who constantly trolls for kids will ask you to email her. She probably luuuurves McDonalds.

Tootles.


36 weeks with #2
wow u are horrible

did u want a kid or a maid?


kiddo
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seriously...i can't believe people would actually believe this is true.


Angela R
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I'm assuming this is a joke, but if not, then call social services, explain everything you just said to the social worker, and then you won't have to worry about "giving him back", because I'm sure once they hear this he'll be removed from your home for HIS best interest. How you could ever pass a homestudy is beyond me, you're definetly not cut out to be a parent of ANY child.


Sarah
You probably need a lawyer if you want your money back unless you got a receipt. Just keep your head up and don't give up hope. I'm sure there is a baby out there for you, maybe next time you will find one that isn't a total waste of skin.

And remember, there is more than one way to skin a cat. If the agency or birth mother refuse to reimburse you be creative. Does Nike still employ minors in sweatshops?


Casey Hester
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hahahhaaha. these are the trolls i actually enjoy. the ones who are actually humorous.


Daisey Duck
ha ha troll


Flabstabber
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Your just not abusing your privilages as a new parent properly. make it take the trash out, make it clean the dishes and tell him he cant come out his room untill he is partial owner of Mcdonalds. The parents are to blame its not the child


JeffDawg
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rock on!


Philippa
Why does this come up again *yawn* and is boring but if there is any truth in it then I think I responded to the previous one *yawn*


Joshua B
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Ok, this isn't a car dealership. Making a kid isn't like making a car.. How old is he and how long have you had him for?


Brenna
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I sincerly hope this is some kind of a sick joke because if not I feel extemely sorry for that child! here is an idea call child protective services on yourself and maybe they will remove him and take him to a home where he can get some love!


Maria
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huh?


Jess L
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tell me you are jokin!!!


BMG
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Dude, that's messed up. Seriously, just because the kid is a little slow in the head or he didnt understand what was going on you tell him he's not good enough for the fridge?! WTF DOES THAT MEAN ANYWAY?! If you ask me, YOU should be the one who gets sent to a home where you're all alone with no one to talk to...you disgust me...


Angela
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you are a horrible person....i cant beleive this...


njnic
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No one said that parenting was easy and even when you birth a child they don't always turn out to be your dream child, but you love this child and try to teach him the right way of life.

Teach and love the child, maybe the adoption agency shouldn't have approved you to be a parent.





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