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I am a ten year old boy who hates his family can I put myself up for adoption?
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I am a ten year old boy who hates his family can I put myself up for adoption?


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I am homeschooled


    




cha
yes! go to social worker and tell them your situation,if you are physicaly abused then they will help you,or if you want i will adopt you email me....


Kelly V
No, but you can learn from your mistakes and explain why you hate your family
Do you want to go to public schools?
tell your parents how you feel


Mandee
What makes you think another family would be better?


quennethe
almost all 10 year olds hate their parents. In fact you will probably continue to hate them until you are about 18 to 25.

Have fun with that....


BPD Wife
A wise parent once told me that if you hate your parents, then that means they are doing their job! Sounds like you have great parents!

And no, you cannot put yourself up for adoption.


DOT
No. What you can do is talk to a school counselor or a teacher you trust. They will be glad to listen to you and offer advice.


Tera L
No. The only reasons you should try to get away from your family are if they are abusing you. In that case, you should call DHS and ask to be removed from your house.


blueyedblondej5
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What is it that you hate about your family? If they are abusive, physically, emotionally, verbally, or mentally... you can talk to a school counselor or look online for numbers to call for social service, and then they will get you out of that situation and probably put you into foster care but that is only if you are being abused. If that is not the case, then you might want to try some family counseling.


Bouvier
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No, you can't sweetie. Why do you hate your family? Is it because they have rules that you do not like to follow? Or are they treating you poorly? I hope it's the rules scenario and not the other. In any case, your family is truly all you have when you think about it. Friends will come and go, but your family will be, or should be there for you through thick and thin. I think it's best that you talk to somebody. Try another adult that you trust (if you feel you cannot talk to your parents), or maybe your guidance counselor at school. I hope that in time your situation is better. Your growing up fast, and changing, which is hard too for any young man. Stay on the right path. Stay in school, always do the right thing, and be good to yourself.


Lori
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We all can hate our family at some point in our lives, but if you just talk to them politely, they can understand how you feel. But no, you can't put yourself up for adoption. Nice try though.


CHERYL
NO,ALL 10 YEAR OLDS HATE THEIR FAMILIES. BUT IF THEIR ARE OTHER PROBLEMS.THEN YOU NEED TO GO AND TALK TO SOMEBODY THAT CAN HELP YOU. BUT IF IT'S JUST THAT YOU DON.T LIKE WAS YOUR PARENTS ARE SAYING.THEN YOU JUST NEED TO GROW UP AND UNDERSTAND ,YOU ARE NOT A LONG. JUST SIT DOWN AND TALK TO YOUR PARENTS,AND SEE IF THE AL CAN TALK IT OUT.


claimsadjuster
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I am sorry that you feel this way about your family. Have you talked to anyone to let them know how you feel? Have you tried to search within yourself to find out why you feel this way? Hate is such a strong word.
Unfortunately, you cannot put yourself up for adoption and I am uncertain of the age that you can divorce your parents. I think McCauley Culkin did something like that.
Give it some time and pray about it. I hope your situation improves.
And if your family doesn't tell you, then I will tell you, I love you and you are somebody!


jammer
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I don't know about the adoption bit, but you should seek help from a family department in your area. Or tell a teacher at your school. I hope your family life improves, every child should at least have a happy home life.


readpetspoetry
no. anyways, evryone at atleast one point in their life "hates thier family"its'just a stage. talk it out with someone- oh are you an only child? if so that could be a reason. no brothers or sisters can be pretty borring.


Mom to Foster Children
no, sorry you can't! and you only hate your parents because of your age...it's called the beginning of puberty! you will be fine and eventually love your parents again once you are older!


Victus
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No, you can't

You can emancipate yourself after the age of 16, but until then get over it


crazynate104
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NO!!!
What could possibly be so bad????
U cant emancipate till after 16!!!
U should get over it or fix the problem!!


hey
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lol no


lip gloss gall
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u shood not do that cuz u might not lik the family u get and wat if they r meaner cuz i wanted to do that and then that is wat mi mom maid me think bout


Vicki
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No way! In the future, you will love them again!


Fashionlate
no you can't... but when you get older and show you can take care of yourself you can get emancipated. Each state is different on ages/requirements.


Waiting For Baby #1
Not exactly, but if you are being abused in any way you can contact CPS (child protection services) and they will come to your house and speak with everyone and if they think it would be better to remove you, they can place you in a home for children or in foster care. I suggest talking with a teacher or principal when you go in for testing. I used to be homeschooled when I was younger and I didn't like my parents alot either. I was too scared to tell anyone what happened at home when no one else was around, because i feared my father. Just be tough, if you are just upset with them, allow yourself to calm down, and then try telling them how they make you fell. But use a calm voice, so you sound mature.


just call me mrs. brown ;)
You seem like such a loving little boy. I'd adopt you.


Ally R
No


puplovr766
Well you can actually buut why do you hate your family and what city do you live in?


oreo_cream_76
first of all, you are ten years old...that is not considered legal by law, as you are still a minor. So the anser is, no, you cannot put youself up for adoption, I believe you need a parent/guardian consent...only if your parent/guardian did something bad to physically harm you and then child services would take you away and you would be put up for adoption.
It is not a realistic idea to put yourself up for adoption...
Have you tried talking to your parents? Explain to them what is on your mind and why you are frustrated. Maybe you can work something out, or suggest a new idea...such as doing a family activity? These things help strengthen family bonds and will help you to get closer to them. Hope this helps!


chiqui
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why do u hate them? r they really that bad? or u just hate because...you need to think what is the real reason , if they are doing something bad to you, look for help maybe you can take them to the court...


Katie
No. Please, tomorrow you'll love them again.


zoey101
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Sweetie, I don't think you can. All families have a rough time. My daughter who is 9 tells me all the time, she wishes some else was her mom. Talk to your parents, let them know how you feel, maybe you can work on some of the problems together.


Candyace
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I am 11 and I have been thru a LOT of drama. try looking at my page. I never wanted to actually "leave" my family, I just felt like running away, but I never did becuase i knew that I still loved them so much. No, you can't put yourself up for adoption, and what did your family do to make you ask such a thing and mean it? Or did they not give you what you want all of the time? ;)





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