I need help trying to find my birth mother?

I was born may 18th 1974 in syosset new york town of oyster bay at 1:51 AM weighing 5 lbs 1 ounce. My birth mother was born 1958 in puerto rico and was 16 yrs old when she gave birth to me. Spence-chapin handled my adoption . I was admitted to spence-chapin on may 21st 1974 and i began living with my adoptive parents july 19th 1974. My legal adoption took place november 9, 1977 now i have registered on every site that i can think of and what was given to me can anyone help me find my birth mother i have 3 siblings 1 sister that is 24 or 25 another sister who is 19 or 20 and a brother who is 18 or 19. I got my non identifying info may 31st 2006 so everything i have put on here is what was told to me. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Heather B

Re-apply for non identifying information. I got far more information the second time around.

There is a very active New York search group on yahoo at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nyadoptees/

I assume you've registered with ISRR but have you tried these yet, http://www.gsadoptionregistry.com/
http://www.adoptionsearching.com/

cantstopLinnyG

Believe it or not, Craig's list, Facebook and Myspace are increasingly popular ways to find our first parents. Go to Craig's list in New York, then to Syosset and place ads there, as well as making Facebook pages & Myspace pages with your birthdate and other info saying you are looking for your mother.
Also, classmates.com is a popular site, by searching for high schools in that area and sending messages to classmates who would have been her age.

Animal Lover

The 8th one says 1973 with a ? neext to it and it is close to yours. It was written by a grandmother. http://www.originscanada.org/registry/alberta.html

Found this one on a site:

Sean Anthony Smith
Born September 1st or 3rd, about 1974. Born in New York, NY. Placed into foster care at about several weeks old, through Spence-Chapin services to families and children. (adoption agency) Lived first 5 or 6 years with Long Island, New York family, last name Jones.Mother,father and many siblings.Not permited to be adopted by foster family, they were "to old". Was adopted at age 6 by a single woman, I believe, maybe in the Queens, Rockaway, NY area. He may possibly be incarcerated in the state of Illinois. Foster parents would love to make contact. Agency prohibited any contact after adoption. Medium brown complexion, possibly a tall, thin early twenties young man. Any information appreciated, especially from Illlinois Department of Corrections. He possibly may have tried to contact the Jones family. Received a collect call from a "Sean" but mother unknowingly did not accept call. There has been no contact since 1979. Foster parents now in Alabama.

Found it on this you'll find the phone # on this too http://www.cyberpages.com/attractions/persons199610.html

Good luck on finding your birthmother!!! You gave a lot of info and I looked it up on google. â˜º

~JoJo~ 2nd round of Clomid

Have you tried this site? http://www.health.state.ny.us/vital_records/adoption.htm
I will keep searching for you too, I hope you find her!

vida711

sean did you know you mothers name. or yours brothers name.
if you do can you please posted. you will find your mother soon
dont worry abrthing willbe okey you and me together tonigh will do some thing. at 11:00pm get in your room on pritevated. and get on yours knees an we are going to pray. together. ask jesus for what you want with all you heart. and have faith. you will find your mother.

catherine0580

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Good luck!!!

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