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I want my step father to adopt me...?

I want my step father to adopt me.. I am 24yrs old and I want him to be considered my real father on paper... Any advice on how to go about doing so? Where do I even start? I live in NY
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my real father fell off th face of the earth 14 years ago.. I do not have a way for him to sign over his right... i was under the impression if I was of age it wouldnt matter


    




Trinibuff
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That's sweet. I'd talk to an attorney but here is some information:

http://www.adopting.org/adoptions/adopting-an-adult-how-to-adopt-an-adult-person.html

Note: Adult adoption is handled differently in all states. Some state statutes only provide for adult adoption if the person to be adopted is of diminished capacity. Some states require the consent of the spouse of the person to be adopted (if married), some require notification of biological parent(s), and some require nothing more than the consent of the adult parties.

Check your state's laws here: http://www.adopting.org/adoptions/adopting-an-adult-state-laws.html

Good luck!


Just a Mom
I think that you need to get a lawyer.


Crucio
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You’re an adult you don’t need the permission of you biological father for your step father to adopt you. Only if you were under 18 would you need that. So you both should contact a lawyer and go from there.


maccrew6
SInce you are over 18 it is a relatively easy process... SOme courthouses can send you the papers to fill out and file.. or you can use a website like rapidadoption.com Good Luck!


Lori A
Before you do please check into passport issuance from an amended birth certificate in case you plan to travel.


mom of many
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some states allow adult adoptions and some don't. If your state does its a fairly easy process and you do not need your bio fathers permission or signature. I know of a few people who have done this.


Mommy to 11 month old Jacob
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First of all talk to him about it and then secondly I think all you need to do is sign the proper adoption papers and pay the proper fees.


Moondog23
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well you might try asking


CC
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He can't until your birth father gives up his parental rights.





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