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I want to put myself up for adoption?

I'm going to make this short and simple; i really want to put myself up for adoption i'm 13 i feel and know my mum can't look after me anymore, i just get in the way and i'm a problem for her so i just want to live with someone who will look after me and give me the love and affection she never has and never will give me, my dad doesn't care, and i feel shamed to ask anyone or tell anyone in the family just incase they laugh at me or tell me i'm being stupid.

I know i need to get hold of an adoption agency but how do i do that?


    




ixieblue
You can't put yourself up for adoption.
The process of adoption is that your parents MUST sign over all parental rights at the time of adoption to another person or family.
Sorry to tell you but you would probably end up in foster care until you are 18 as its extremely rare for a teenager to be adopted and there is no guarantee that you will end up with a "better family" as foster care is only a temporary solution to a living situation with the biological parents.
So sorry but the likely hood that your parents would even agree are slim and if their is no abuse in the house hold or if their is no threat to your safety and well being then social services will not remove you from the household


Lady Gaga person.
you can't put yourself up for adoption, you won't want to be without a mom, my mom and dad died in a fire, when i was at a young age, i was left all alone, and i suffered from smoke in my lungs. I was put into an orphanage, now I'm a teen who got adopted .. i hated being in an orphanage, i was in foster care too, but it was all scary for me for all those years. i would not want anyone to be in an orphanage especially one that isn't that great to be in, you would most defiantly want to be with a family then wait years to be adopted by another family. if you really Feel that your mum can't take care of you, talk seriously to her or a family member about it. maybe you can move in with another relative instead of being with your mom. if you feel you always get in her way, talk to her about it...i would not want anyone to be without a mom. if you really feel the need to although i really don't think it's possible, to put yourself up for adoption, call an adoption agency. talk to THEM about it.. you call an adoption agency. go online to adoption agencies, in whatever state you live in, and try to find the phone number,, good luck!!!! hope everything works out! maybe even talk to your teacher about it, it will help...


H******
Sweetheart, you'll only end up in Foster care because the vast majority of adopters demand baybeeeeees only

I'm sorry. If you are in danger in any way, please tell someone a teacher, someone in authority or call ChildLine


Kyle
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call child protective services


Rosie
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Adoption wont fix your pain. You want your mom and dad to express their love for you warmly and openly. Teenagers need hugs just like little children do. I think they even need it more, it's such a trying scary time for you.

((hugs))


kidmindi
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An adoption agency won't take you, you are too old. If your mom really can't take care of you, you need to call social services. They can help your mom correct whatever is going on with her and they can make sure you are safe and well cared for.


diamond angel
ur 13 no one wil adopt u sorry to say but ur best option is foster care speak to social services


Happy Go Lucky
It is not possible to put yourself up for adoption.

You should call Child Protective Services. They will help you and if you mother really is that unfit of a parent they will put you in foster care. You won't be put in a new family directly unless you go to live with another family member. The probabilty of you being adopted is very small. Most people want to adopt infants. Sorry.


Kashayra
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Me too liek my mudur werks all day so i be gittin madd board and we shud go 2geder so we kan b frands cuz my mudur beatz me all da time when i dunt cleen da floarz





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