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Is it better to have an abused child, or to abort the unwanted child?
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Is it better to have an abused child, or to abort the unwanted child?


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Hey hey hey I'm not even a mother and I would never do either of these things! I'm doing a project to make a bill to make abortion illegal and this is one of the arguements that pro choice people make. It's sickening.


    




Heather B
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This is the adoption section - I don't see the relevance of your question.

Making abortion illegal would not stop them from happening, just as it didn't stop them from happening in days gone by.


"blessed with 4" Kaden,KeKe,Kia,KJ
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neither, take precautions to not have unwanted children


Cyrberus
yikes

It is better to have no child than to have one and abuse it


tish
while you're are writing your bill, be sure to include that criminalizing abortion will not make it stop. it'll just make it unsafe. also, it's a bit presumptous to assume that an unwanted/unplanned pregnancy means the child will be abused.

ps. doesn't anyone do their own homework anymore? i swear, this is about the nth person who wants us to give information for a school project.


Camira B
Abort.

BTW, I'm sure you'd be more than happy to take responsibility for all the dead expectant mothers because they tried to abort themselves if your bill ever got passed, right?


I have a Thumbs Down Troll! YAY!
I would say adoption, but there are ways to abuse a baby while pregnant. So in a severe case I would have to say abortion.

In a perfect world, every pregnancy would be treasured and wanted. :(


proudmommy
It's better to have the child and give it up for adoption.


Nic@Nite
neither...adoption


Oh me oh my...♥
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This is really a stupid question because no parents know they are going to abuse their children before they are born. I would say if you abort so that you don't abuse your child you have issues that are way deeper than pregnancy!!


grapesgum
Neither. In a prosperous, civilized culture such as in the USA, it is better to provide all families with the basic economic support (a living minimum wage, decent housing, and health care) that they need to build healthy and happy families. Unplanned does not mean unwanted. Exploitation by the rich means that working families cannot afford to have babies.


it's me
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Why are you assuming an unborn child would be abused? The child should be born and placed for adoption...or maybe surprisingly loved by the mother


Somebody
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I agree with niether just place for adoption


Lone Wanderer
dude your mean, adoption


peanut
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adoption


peggie m
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Adoption all the way!


Smile for a While.
ADOPT !

Abortion is murder.


Just a Mom
What an unpleasant question! I don't know. Neither is wonderful, is it? I will say that I am glad that my children were born because although they had a hard start before going into foster care, they are going to rise above that and have a really awesome future. I can't imagine saying that I wish they were dead. But I know that some adoptees wish they were aborted. I don't judge them because I am not in their situation.


Nubbers the Hedgehog
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adopt it out!! who would kill or beat a poor lil' bib?


Carnie C
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both are tragedies. adoption would be the best option.


Michael G
If your already pregnant then give it up for adoption, unless you think killing your child is the answer.

If your not already pregnant use contraceptives.


melissa_annemarie
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If someone is pregnant and in an abusive situation,the best thing to do is talk to a crisis counselor and get out of the situation for the well being of mother and child.If that is not a choice that can be made then place the child in a caring home where they will not be abused and neglected.

edited-did I read wrong,are you saying that if you have a baby you would be neglectfull/abusive.I stick with my above answer


New Jersey
How about gvie the child up for adoption at birth so it can go to a loving family.


in the car
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abortion is legal for a reason


Bryan C
y do u ask any way neither cuz the abused child will have hate and kill u ( i noe i was and i wanted my dad dead ,but im not stupid enough to kill him) an adopted child may end up in a bad family


Victoria
abort .

Answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap7nbdTJHbSskF8hAbghnxDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081015161622AAm0Ts0
thanks!


ineedu_2needme
Abort.
There's no guarantee the adoptive parents will be any better.
Ever seen Matilda?


Cheri
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Neither..... adoption.

Abortion is murder and it could have happened to you!

If you have a heart, you'd do the right thing and adopt to a family in need. Someone who has been trying to have a baby for years and is waiting for someone like you to make their Life Long dream come true.
Then you need to have your tubes tied. End of story


Unidentified :)
Adopt...what kind of a mother are you?





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