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My foster parents....?

treat me like dirt.when i need something like female items they get upset with me like if my fault what my body goes through.and they tell me they wish they had never adopted me and calls me a mistake.so i wrote them a note saying i wanted to know more,they made fun of the fact of adopted.is there a place I can go where i don't have to live with them but can go to the same school i go to now.


    




Numsss
Im sorry youre going through this, the adoption counselor should have worked harder on your parents, you deserve better parents, get help right away! dont let them treat you like that,
also, let them know they are your parents so its their responsibility to give you anything you need


Good luck


Looney Tunes
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Sounds like you were adopted, correct?

So, you need to call 911 and report that you are being emotionally and psychologically abused by your adoptive parents.
If they don't respond, call again.

Chances are unless you are in immediate danger, you will not be removed, but a case worker from social services will be assigned to your family. The worker will help with trying to smooth things out.

You can't just put yourself into foster care; especially since you have already been adopted.

However, if it does not work out and your parents continue to be abusive, chances are if you are removed from your adoptive parents, you will go anywhere there is a space and you will not be guarenteed to stay in your same school.

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If you have NOT BEEN ADOPTED, but are still in foster care, call your case worker NOW. You should have her number and by law, be entitled to calling her/him.


Kate
I would get a hold of a former social worker or cps.


Opedial
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Are they foster parents or are you adopted?

If foster parents, phone your case worker NOW!

If they are your adopted parents, call kids help phone, they may be able to help.


mom to be
You need to either call CPS or talk to a teacher that you trust in school. All teachers must report abuse cases. Please get the help that you need and remember that your parents have problems..... not you. Good Luck.


Kimberley D
Anybody you could have a word with, someone you trust.
Im sure if you had a word with a teacher it would help!
You don`t deserve to be treated like that.

Good luck. x


babygirl due 06/19/09 =)
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you should get help right away...call DYFS


Meagan G
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Is there a friend you can live with? I would call CPS for verbal abuse, also if you plan on doing that, tell your friends how they treat you and see if you can get proof of it like a recording or something in case they try to deny it, I'm sure they can find a way for you to continue at the same school and a better place to live. You shouldn't put up with that.


FlutterMeBy
You need to tell your Case worker that your foster parents aren't being nice and he/she will find you another foster family or put you in a children's shelter.


allchildrenareangels
how old are you for starters? Do you have any good friends that their parents might be interested in adopting you. If you do know one maybe you should ask them if they will. You never know. No one should be treated like that and everyone deserves a family. If you don't have anyone you can turn to call CPS and tell them about the verbal abuse. Tell them you want a social worker. Your social worker should be able to help you. CPS would be my last resort though. It would be better if you had a friend that her parents might want to adopt you. Good luck.

Love,
Michelle





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