My husband and I have trouble carrying a baby full term, we are thinking about adoption, any ideas?
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My husband and I have trouble carrying a baby full term, we are thinking about adoption, any ideas?
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My husband and I have had about 4 miscarriages, the fist time I lost 2 babies both at 8 weeks, the second time I lost 3 babies, one at 8 wks, 10 wks and 14 wks, the third time I lost one baby at 14 wks and this last time we lost our baby at 24 weeks which is the furthest we have made it. The doctors finally figured out what is the cause of this and it has to do with my heart disease and they say my body is capable but my heart may give out and it is not pumping enough blood the the babies. We want nothing more than to bring a child into this world, but for my health we are thinking about just adoption, but I don't want to spend $40,000 I just want to give a child a loving home and a loving and close family. We don't know where to start and what to do. We live in South Carolina, my husband is 25 and I am 20.(if that helps any)
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I work at a funeral home and I am a funeral director and embalmer so I can never escape death, I don't trust anyone to be carry my baby. It is just we are tired of losing children that could feel pain, I knew I was hurting and I feel bad that my children could feel it too. It is something that we will never get over but we don't want to replace our unborn children just help a child that needs us. I come from a big family and we want a big family as well.
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Nameless
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Firstly I'm sorry for the loss of your babies. The most needy children often are found in foster care, and can be adopted for little or no cost. I would advise you look into that. |
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look into foster care (not private adoptions). that should save you a TON of money, if not be free. you can adopt a baby from the state. |
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Gaia Raain II
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Adoption is about finding homes for kids who need them. It's not about your fertility. No kid wants to be second choice. Please don't adopt because you can't have one of your own. It's not someone else's kid's job to fulfill your desire for a baby.
ETA: I re-read it, and I'm still seeing the same thing. You say: "want nothing more than to bring a child into this world, but for my health we are thinking about just adoption". I didn't say that, you did. Adopted children are your SECOND choice. And btw, I DO have the right to judge you. You put yourself out there, you asked the question. You don't like the answers? You know where the door is. Don't let it hit you on the way out. Other womens' bodies are not your strip mall, and I'm not going to suddenly change my stance on that because you reprimanded me. My mommy reprimanded me my whole childhood, and I still ended up with my own thoughts. Strange how that happens. |
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✿31wks! Baby's almost here!♥
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Have you looked into finding a surrogate mother? The baby is still yours, you just wont carry it.
http://www.surrogatemothers.com/ |
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