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My runaway adopted son has come home to me...?

My adopted son Pedro recently ran away from home. After a long search I was beginning to give up, but in the end he returned on his own.
Now he has questions for me, and I'm not sure what to tell him. He wants to know why his parents didn't want him. He's also making demands that I may not be able to fulfill such as tacos two nights per week. He wants to move from my walk in closet, into his own bedroom (which means the cat will now be without her own room). He's even gone as far as telling me that he wants to go to school with the other children (he's 8 by the way). I'm beginning to wish he never came home. Does anyone have any advice for a father in need?
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I told him the reason his parents didn't want him was because he was a needy child. I've also explained that I on the otherhand, will not put up with neediness, and if he keeps his up, he'll be packed in a crate on the next fruit truck back to Mexico.


    




Vertigo
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Such an ungrateful brat!! And wanting to kick the cat out of her room just so he can stop sleeping in the closet!! How DARE he. He should think himself lucky he's been adopted by such a caring, considerate person such as yourself. I hope you're not feeding him too much by the way - one small meal a day is quite sufficient.

Ps: I love all the outraged answers you're getting! These people are so up themselves that they really believe you're being serious!!! Some of them might even need to go into therapy to get over the shock of it all.


cagney
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what's wrong did they cancel dukes of hazard on CMT and you don't have anything else to do tonight?


Adoption is A-OK!
the burritos and tequila worked??? yay!!! I knew it got me back home!!! yay! ole' bueno yo quiero taco bell!

ETA to Joy M -- hey, thanks for recommending me due to my thoughtful insight!

Mr. Blank -- i trust he has a lot of cinderella work to get done! no pinattas for him!


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You have a leather belt, correct?


I.P. Freely
kids today are so clingy and needy. you have noone to blame but yourself. you spoiled the kid rotten! i bet he even had two pairs of pants and one pair of shoes!!!you need to stand firm on this. don't give in to his taco night. he is lucky you let him back home. if he mentions about moving into the bedroom one more time...tell him there's the door, don't let it hit you little illegal @ss. i think the boy is plenty old enough for a whoopin'. good luck.


LaurieDB
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Everyone knows this entire tale is merely a drunken delusion.

ETA:
Blank, I'm definitely not TTC (as you alleged in a previous reponse to me.) LOL

It was purely your username that prompted the thought of infertility (shooting blanks.) But, you are quite the piece of work, aren't you. At 21, I'm sure you enjoy just playing around here. Silly boy.


matthewlincoln87
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OMG!!!!!! He is demanding he gets his own room, non the less the CAT'S Room!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont believe in beating a child, but i think you should stop feeding him, atleast till he gets the point that your incharge. Also one more thing, you should give him to me. I will make sure all corrections are made with that little spoiled runnaway brat.


AdoreHim
Has child protection been called- if not they should be- I pray that you are not serious.


Jethro
kid needs beaten. I think the garden shed might be a room for him. He doesn't need two pair of pants and HEAT. tHERE ISN'T ANYTHING WRONG WITH HIS WALK IN CLOSET FOR A ROOM. ?mY KIDS BOTH SHARE A WALK IN AND ARE GREATFUL FOR IT. i think these damn caps lock keys are messing with me and it is making me angry. My kids dont like me when i get angree. Anyways, a leather belt is definately in order here. And without a doubt, do not give the spoiled brat taco nite. His ungrateful parents of mexican decent didnt want him so why does he need a taco? tell him to make you lasagne for dinner and he will eat it and like it


grapesgum
Sorry, I have no advice. Sounds like your adoptee is of the ungrateful variety.


Felix the cat
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You are so full of it.


Debbie Downer
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Is your wallet on a chain?


Jelly tots
FULL OF S.H.I.T

move on


NYC GiRL
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yea u said so many psychos out there. Buddy ur one of them!!! Stop wasting our damn time with ur stupid made up questions about some kid that u made up in ur mind. Grow the F**K up and get a f****ing life


Morgaine
You are so dumb.

Stop being a troll.


take a bow
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What about the dog's room?


whatever!
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grow up!!!!


Adopted Jane
This guy needs to learn to cover his profile

21 with a 8 yr old adopted child

I THINK NOT .....

Lmao


?
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OK, you seriously have to be joking!!!! I'm adopted and this is NOT funny what so ever!!!!!! My advice for you is to grow up!


love~me~or~hate~me
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lol


aloha.girl59
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I think this question should have been posted under Jokes and Riddles.


Live ur life 2 the fullest!!!
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U R F****** KINDING RIGHT
I WISH THAT MY PATH NEVER CROSSES URS BECAUSE I PROMISE U...
U WILL TRUELY REGRET ADOPTING THAT LIL BOY... IF U DONT WANT HIM I WILL TAKE HIM
PENDEJO


Gershom
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funny.

no really.


GEE-GEE
You are just an ***. How do you have your son in a walk in closet, yet the cat has its own room. I seriously hope you are joking. Either that, or I hope someone calls CPS on you and you get arrested for child neglect.


Bizzi
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Isn't your kid 8?
Runaway?
Pedro?
hummm, starting to wonder here...
FOS!


janna w
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this is a joke right?


mrslondon5488
i think you are very stupid he should not treat your child like that!!! you should be turned in to child services!!!!


bec
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I just checked your profile and i'm so glad to see that you aren't telling the truth! Why do people think that these things are funny!


Mom to Foster Children
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your are totally a waste of human life! This is in no way shape or form remotely funny!


Joy M
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I think you are an adoptee and have serious issues.

Serious.

Maybe adoption is A! Ok! can help you?


She is full of it too.


lovelyme3
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ARE YOU SERIOUS??? YOUR OBVIOUSLY JOKING CUZ IF YOU WERE SERIOUS I'D HAVE TO REPORT YOU TO CHILD SERVICES LOL NICE SENSE OF HUMOR, :)





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