OMG!! I need to do this again.?

Helena B

you want a family someday? you're already given away a family. ur sick.

Crazy

Stop getting pregnant.

mochi icecream <3

what kind of mother are you?

if you cant support your children, dont make any at all.
dont you feel bad for your children?

Amy

The social worker who worked with your last adoption would know how to deal with it.

Randy B

Judgments aside (there are enough others here who will do that and you don't need another), just pick up the phone and contact them. They will not have to say yes or no right now but at least let them know. In many cases I know that DSS tries to keep siblings together where possible and if the birth mother of our little one got pregnant again (which in all likelihood she will since she's already had 7 and she is under 30) we would get a call asking if we would be interested in adopting the little bro or sis.

If you have contact with them then call and ask. The process still has to be followed like last time but at least you will know where he/she will be going.

rosesheartspurple

Call and ask,it wont hurt! Are the other ones open adoption? I'm not gonna put you down but girl you gotta think about your body and how many you can really handle! Get on birth control so when you do settle down hopefully your body could handle another pregnancy! Your doing what you feel is the best for the kids!

Good luck girl!

icehockeymom7

I guess I would approach the attorney or the agency you used before, when this couple adopted your child. They will contact the parents and see if they would like to adopt this baby. If you are sure you want to relinquish this baby, I do think it would be good for them to be together as siblings.

Michelle L

Well, I have to applaud you for taking this decision seriously and considering the best situation for your child. I am glad you see your child as an important life who deserves parents who can love and care for him/her. I also respect your decision to have a family later in life.

Having many friends who have adopted, and planning for a future adoption myself, I would say to go through the agency you used with the 2nd adoption to contact those adoptive parents and ask if they would like to adopt a natural sibling. Many adoptive parents would jump at this chance. It saves both you and them many hurdles and you already have an agency to work with. The worst they can say is no and that doesn't put you in any worse of a situation than what you would face in choosing new parents anyway. I will pray for you and your child. I wish you both the absolute best!

Penny P

If this is real....then I would suggest talking with the social workers who helped you with the other children's placement. You can ask for your child to be placed with the same parents as the others. I work with a lady who adopted three children, from the same mom, all as infants. The birth mother wanted all her babies to be raised by the same parents, and my coworker was so thrilled to raise the siblings together. I'm sure the couple who adopted your other chilren would probably accept another-

Alex

In answer to your actual question... sit down with them explain that you are having another baby, and tell them they are great with your other kid (i'm assuming) and you were wondering if they would like a sibling, and include that it would be a blood sibling and everytrhing.. However, adoption is not a light issue, stop getting prego you are 19? sounds like you need to seek counceling, and birth control, and smarten up

coleblondehead

You really shock me the way you express yourself, its like
youre giving away puppies or something, havent you ever
heard of birth control or a penny between the kness.
You have to group up, I know having babies is for adults
but making wise decisions to not have any more is more
important than having 10 and giving them according to
you good homes. One mistake I understand but 2 or 3
thats very selfish and self centered on your part. So you
want to call the parents and tell them hey you want the
set. Thats outrageous of you.

crzymmof8

OKAY I see you are being attacked. Stop it everyone! Just call them up and talk to them. I think whenever bio siblings can be kept together it is a good thing. My oldest son has many bio siblings (none with him) and he knows they are out there and it bugs him. So I admire you for trying to keep the 2 together. I am sure that the AP's would be glad for the chance to keep them together too.

xlinzx88x

two words: tubal litigation

for god's sake, think about it!
One "oops!" okay, still f*cked up that you gave your kid away but getting pregnant 2 times after that and giving them away too? Seriously. Get fixed.

I'm really concerned for the kids you do want to raise because you seem awfully disconnected from the lives that grew inside you. If the baby you do want to keep ends up really sick, are you even going to care? Sorry, you're not cut out for motherhood. Plain and simple.

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