Okay so Adoptees Hands up, who is prepared to admit..?
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Okay so Adoptees Hands up, who is prepared to admit..?
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That they have problems ?
Who is prepared to say that they have problems in their every day to day life and they believe its from being adopted
What else would it be from ?
Do you have problems relating to other people ?
Do you struggle daily?
Are you in pain every single day of your life ?
I'm able to admit that I am. I am lonely, I am sad, I exist day to day, hell I cant even get along with OTHER ADOPTEES on a forum.
I rub people the wrong way daily
I have pushed away all the people I know, but not on purpose, just by my actions
I am not depressed, I am just in pain. I am in MORE pain and turmoil since searching and finding my birth mother and then having her reject me and finding out other things. I am in more pain and turmoil since finding out I have this Massive family that is exactly like me on the other side of the world. I am in more pain since my adoptive mother died some 7 years ago.
So how do you fix something this broken ?
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Thx Laurie
I dont think I will ever get over the pain of having this massive family on the other side of the world."my people" That look like me, that act like me, that feel in the same way I do, who are crazy, emotional lunatics that have hearts of gold.
But what do I have ? I have a small "old" family who are stiff upper lip english and who look nothing like me, act nothing like me and who are like "oh there she goes again" through out most of my entire life
Ive tried reaching out, Ive tried giving them books to read but its dismissed like a lot of people on here do ie "yeah and so what - get over it " type attitudes...
The ONE person who MIGHT have got it is DEAD as in my amum. she was sensitive and emotional but still not like me
I met a family member last year, to have someone say OMG you are JUST the same as us, you are EXACTLY like us, looks, behaviour etc was Soooo good. But its cut me to the core after 5 mths with that "family" of mine then to let them go :( its destroyed me
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bailie28
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i do have problems and i think most of mine go back to my adoption..i have very few friends despite living in numerous places i dont keep track of them..i found my sister last year and havent written to her and didnt even send her a christmas card..this is me..i have problems with people..i tend to have social anxiety...right now i feel like a recluse..since we moved i wont go put in my job applications..and im not sure why..i feel depression coming on and i feel powerless to stop it..stupid eh...i worked up till sept of last year..so i dont know what my deal is...you cant fix it..you learn to live with it and try to make your life better and you try to find something to laugh about everyday |
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Sam J
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I'm adopted but I don't feel any of those things....but it's good that you can admit that you do....maybe a adoptee forum or support group would help?
I don't really know but sorry to hear u in so much pain. |
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ChimesOfWind
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I am the bio child of my parents, and my older sister is adopted.
I don't believe she ever had problems
She is just a normal teenager
She often sees her bio mom as she is a part of our family both by blood and bond
I don't think your like this because you are adopted. I think you just want something to blame for your depression. |
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zucchinisyoucantkeepagoodonedown
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I think you are speaking of the "human condition". To be alive is to suffer. There is joy too, but suffering and struggle are unavoidable. |
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