Should adoptions be banned?

To answer your question:

"Should adoptions be banned?"

No. not at all. Not ever.

For all the reasons listed in the other answers and more.
Every child deserves the right to have a loving home .

vimesfan01

Uh, no.

Weirdo.

The world's population is already ridiculous.

People need to adopt MORE, not LESS.

You have got to be kidding me!!!!!!

What is wrong with you?

lolabbyâ™¥

Oh GOD.
stfu.
There are kids UNWANTED on this world.
Why would you need to bring another one in this world if there's a billion unwanted?

you make me sickk.

Zeena

If this isn't the most ignorant thing I've seen all day I don't know what is!

Are you kidding me? do you know how many kids are in foster care?THOUSANDS.They deserve homes whether God is there for them or not.

And if you want to get technical...if adopting prevents kids from being born, has it ever occurred to you that maybe those souls were never meant to live on earth?

You need a reality check darling.

KTea

My dear god, hell no.

Listen, if my biological mother had raised me I likely would have never seen my first birthday due to lack of care and knowledge with my severe conditions at the time. If my biological mother would have raised me, I would have been likely your worse nightmare considering her need for control. If my biological mother raised me, I would have lived with a woman who still to this day (although the whole family has told me) that she did drugs and drank while pregnant with me. I would have had to live with this woman, who's actions have affected my life forever.

If I was not adopted, I would have been placed in foster home after foster home, experience who knows what, not having a family that love me as their own, would likely seek drugs and alcohol as emotional pain relief as I would not likely have gotten the care I have now that enable to function with the urge for drugs and alcohol.

Would you have prefered me to have lived the options stated above, or have what I have now, my loving foster parents who adopted me, raised me as their own, helped me get to where I am today, this young woman with confidence, achievement regardless of the many challenges I have to this day from birth. I would have not had the influences of a principal, former vice-principal but another principal, former teachers, family friends, and many others who have been a part of my life from the moment they met me.

I know without all I have in terms of influences, family, and so forth I would be likely you're drug addicted individual living on drugs and doing who knows what.

dylans.sarah

You make no sense!!!!
Lets let the children who are not even created yet have a good home and the parentless children who are already here stay in group homes!!!!

Think before you speak!

[= Noelle =]

No....there are so many children out there that need homes regardless of whether couples can have children or not. And no they aren't really preventing their biological children from coming to this earth...they're brining joy to children already here on this earth. I disagree with your statements.

chickenfarmer

We're talking about children who were never even conceived (you really think they care if they are here, they don't exist). It is not someone's responsiblity or purpose to make a child. Of course new children need to be born to continue the species but we have plenty of people taking care of that.

damon b

wtf is wrong with you....?

Erica C

You sound like a Nazi. I guess when the homeless, unadopted babies die of starvation out on the streets, at least "God is there".

Too bad your parents didn't give you up for adoption. Then no one would be allowed to take you in, except for God, and maybe He could have given you a heart... and a brain.

arnie

No wonder this planet is in so much trouble.
Why add to a population boom when there are children in desperate need of a loving family, that are now being neglected through no fault of their own because their parents are unable to provide the basic necessities of life?
Your nothing more than a bible bashing nit twit who should know better!!

hollyy.heart.attack

I'm sure there would be way too many orphans if only infertile people were allowed to adopt.

mommy & wife due w/ #2 March 27

i do not understand why you would think this even for a minute..there are so many things i want to point out but i do not feel like typing that much so just a few
1.where would all the children go?
2.it is not up to you weather people have their own kids or their own through adoption (thankfully)
as i said there are so many reaons what you are saying is ridiculous..it really bewilders me..and yes their parents do have every right to not have them and they are not preventing them from anything..
wow

Suzy Sunshine

You are cute.

P.S. Your 'god' is doing a really crappy job raising parentless children.

WHAT??

There isn't even a logic train to your question. Who is saying that fertile people aren't adopting to give a child a better life? Would you allow them to adopt if they also have their own biological children?

Gaia Raain

Adoption should have NOTHING to do with whether or not the parents can have children. As a matter of fact, the only thing about the parents that should be considered is whether or not they are well versed in adoption loss, and whether or not they are physically and mentally healthy enough to care for a child who has suffered significant loss.

Adoption isn't about finding children to make adults feel better. It's about finding homes for children who need them. Why would someone need to be infertile in order to understand the loss a child suffers when they lose their family? What does infertility have to do with a child needing a home? And why would you think it's a child's job to fulfill a lonely couple (or single person)? That's a bit much to put on a kid who's already lost his/her entire family, don't you think?

MayMay

First of all my friend was adopted by her cousin, she wanted to have someone in the family adopt her, and chances are there isnt anyone is her immediat family that cant have kids, so if fertile people couldnt adopt she would either be living in a strangers house till shes 18 or living with her abusive dad, or her mother who got into a car accident and has to live in a mental ward because she has perminant brain damage...and for me i want to adopt, i figure i dont need to bring any more kids into this world while there are still many more out their who still need a home...and if you adopt dosnt mean you cant still have a kid of your own its nothing like using a condom if you were fertile when u adopted chances are you going to be fertile after you adopt to

miss me!

Bottom line... Sweetheart you are totally ignorant!!!!!!! Before you start making these Bull Sh!t statements, maybe you should take a look at all of the children that have no families, whos families have abandoned them, who have no one that they can feel loved by, no one who they can turn to. Where is their god? is god feeding them? loving them? clothing them?? I looked at your profile, you should seriously grow up, live a day in the real world, you are 17, still so ignorant... poor little girl. AAARG!!! You are stupid, and i wont waste another minute on you.

Nurse Autumn Intactivist NFP

WOW!

Your views are TWISTED!!!

I think you may need some therapy...

ADOPTION IS ABOUT FINDING A HOME FOR A NEEDY CHILD, NOT FINDING A CHILD FOR A NEEDY FAMILY

Mom to Foster Children

WHAT? Your kidding right?

I Love A Child With Autism!!!

You are a twisted little cookie aren't ya? Adopting is a personal decision based on an individuals situation. Why do you feel that you have the right to impose your misguided philosophies onto others? Who died and left you dictator of adoptionland??? You seem a little off and I hope that you have no children to pass this craziness on to...adopted or biological!

ano

So if everyone who is fertile has a baby (I mean we have to...right?) but we don't want it, then what? what if we CAN'T take care of it? Put it on the street and keep having more? I mean almighty god is going to feed him right? take care of him? bathe him and put him to sleep? seems like he's doing a GREAT job with all the other dying orphans!!!

Kevin DeXter

were you repeatedly dropped on your head during your childhood ?

flowergirl

Ok, I read your little 'about me' section, and see you're only 17. You really just have no idea what you're talking about because you're still a child yourself.

ETA: And as long as we're talking about God...Guess what! I, personally, believe that God put me on Earth to be raised by my (fertile) adoptive parents and not my (also fertile) biological parents!

Amanda McFarland

I do not believe adoptions should be banned. There are people out there that can have children that adopt, so that that child can have a life. Imagine what it must be like for a child to sit in a orphanage or in temp. care. It must be really nice for some one to come along and adopt them, whether they can have their own children or not.

lilith2024

well i guess everyone is intitled in their opinion..but WOW this one is a doozy.

i completely disagree..do you even have a lue to how many children there are that DO NOT have families? and you are wanting to cut that possiblity of them being adopted in more than half?

your being incredibly selfish with your opinion on this matter...some peope understand that MANY child have no homes so they want to give that child a different, better life. so what if they are fertile?..they are being decent human beings..something of which..sorry to say you obviously are not.

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