We wanted to adopt a small chold between the ages of 2 and 4
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We wanted to adopt a small chold between the ages of 2 and 4
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since 3 of our children have grown and moved on . we have 2 children left a 13 yr old and a 5 yr old when we checked into adopting it was going to take about 2 yrs in classes and fostering the child . Well heres the thing we dint want to foster for 2 yrs to find out the bio parents wants them back. here in our state 1200 children a yr reach 18 in orphanages you would think they would be fairer to loving caring adopting parents when they want to adopt we dint mine all the classes and them checking our home and us out what we mine is getting attached to the child same with the child attaching to us to maybe being taken from us for nothing we have done wrong. so my question is is there any other way out there to adopt and do you feel this way they do it is fair to the children in these orphanages and to all who wants to adopt
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WE dont mind the classes or the checks we just dont think its wise to get attached and then somthing happen beyond our control
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Meghan
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well im 13 and ive been in foster care al lot becausse my mom abused me and still does i got so attached once that my foster parents really wanted to adopt me and my mom even said they could.... but then for some stupid reason she wanted me back.... and im still heartbroken.... we didnt get to go to court cuz they gave up.... but if this is happening to u right now i say fight for them until u cant fight no more!!!! im sure those kids would be as sad as i was to go back to their parents wen they r so attached to u.
if u want to adopt sooner then ask a judge im sure he or she would understand.... GOOD LUCK!!!! |
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Crucio
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Consider adopting a waiting child, these kids are already available for adoption natural parents rights already been given up or terminated. You might also look into the Fos to adopt program. In this program you would only be placed with a child that had a high probability to become available for adoption. |
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Annabelle
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I kow what your saying, i was raised in a family that fostered children periodically, til their parents sorted their lives out, it was heart wrenching seeing my 'sisters' and 'brothers' go when their parents decided it was time to go back. My parents were so wonderful and did a wonderful job raising these neglected children to feel wanted and secure in a family enviroment. The longest we had anyone was a girl name Joy, she was my sister for 4 years, my parents tried to adopt her, her mother came and took her back...i could never do this work, too emotionally hard.
It seems the system really does let down everyone involved, especially the child, the carers, it seems to be a no-win situation unless you adopt. I dont know why you have to have classes, your parents many times over, or dont they think you have enough experience!!!!
I dont know of any other way, unless the courts give a child some rights to whom they wish to be with. |
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Mother of 1
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Honestly Its better to Adopt them When they are Little LIke baby because now there like your not my mom and adoption makes me sad I'm glad my parents kept me |
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