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Were you adopted AND abused?
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If so would you please check out this site and consider being a part of the study run and created by an adoptee for adoptees?
http://adopted-abused.com/
What do you think about studies like this? Additional Details I'm hoping it brings more awareness to Placement of children. I think that child placement needs massive reform.
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LaurieDB
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Children raised by adoptive parents, just like those raised by biological parents, can and sometimes are abused. Adoptive parents, like biological parents, are human. Some are good parents, some mediocre and some are flat out lousy. Sadly, children have died at the hands of adoptive parents just as there are those who've died at the hands of biological parents. Awareness needs to be raised to dispel the idea that all adoptive parents are good, loving parents. For us as a society to hold onto such old ideas is dangerous for those children who are living in abusive adoptive homes.
The safety of the children needs to come before any other ideas each of us may have about adoption. |
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Erin L
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Hi Gershom! It's good to see you around again. How have you been?
I think things that bring more awareness to the placement of children are good, and I think things that validate the experience of victims and help them feel less alone are good. As a purely scientific study this one doesn't seek a random sample and so the statistics aren't really going to be valid as far as determining frequency of abuse in adoptive families and comparing that to biological families. |
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gracekelly3rd
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i was dropped off by martians but they meant to drop me to this rich family acroos the road.... |
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Do you think these adoptive situations are good ones? |
I see this often here and never gave it much thought until recently.
The typical scenario/question:
"I have a 2 yr. old with a druggie who is now in jail. He was never a ... |
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How much money do you have to make to adopt a child? |
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Why is adoption so expensive, and how much does it usually cost anyways? |
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Adoptionchild to family member |
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Foster care/adoption? |
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Considering adoption? |
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In Australia to adopt a child do you need to be married? or to become a foster carer? |
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Has anyone ever felt "entitled" to adopt another woman's baby? |
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Hawaiian adoption..? |
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Is 16 too old to be adopted? |
if someone would be willing to?
PLEASE HELP ME!... |
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Are there any adoption books out there written by First Parents? |
I read many blogs that emotional and enlightening from First Mothers. I was just wondering if there were any books explaining adoption from a First Parents pov and would you recommend them?
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Adopting my step daughter |
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Is there a website with adoption records? |
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What has your experience with adoption been like? |
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Can anyone tell me how to do this? |
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In the state of Arizona when adopting a baby, I know you have 7days to wait until you can become the legal... |
| parents of the little one. What if the birthmother doesn't sign off on her parental rights but you still have the baby at our home. Once the 7 days are up, is that it for the birthmother? Does ... |
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Doing Foster To Adopt |
| I was wanting to know if anyone on here has ever Foster To Adopt a child, and if so during your intensive interview, at your home, what kind of questions do they ask you?? Any help is appreciated.... |
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We wanted to adopt a small chold between the ages of 2 and 4 |
| since 3 of our children have grown and moved on . we have 2 children left a 13 yr old and a 5 yr old when we checked into adopting it was going to take about 2 yrs in classes and fostering the child .... |
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As a Foster Parent would you consider? |
requesting an original birth certificate for each child you foster so he or she can have it when they get older?
This may be the only way some adoptees will have access to their truth ... |
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