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div2wice
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Wow, you are right. Nothing but judgmental people here....
It is upsetting to read this, that a mother doesn't want or love her child. HOWEVER it calms me a bit to know that you are willing to give her up for adoption instead of doing something else to her. You recognize that there is a problem and you are doing the right thing by giving her up. The rest of the people who answered should realize that as well.
It is a good idea for you to give her up for adoption, there are millions of people out there who will love her and give her the home she deserves. As far as what to tell people, honestly, its really none of their business. It seems as though you're a bit embarassed to tell them the truth, for fear of being judged. I don't blame you....but that is something you will have to deal with at sometime because it is an upsetting situation for people to hear.
You can simply tell them its a delicate situation and you'd rather not discuss it. That she is in a loving home and is being taken care of and that's all that matters.
GOOD for you for doing the right thing!!!! |
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England Auden
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I remember when trolls were just short little dolls with giant purple hair and hawaiian shirts.
Those were the days. |
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Kazi
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Tell your imaginary friends that you hate your imaginary kid and then ask your real shrink to up the dosage. |
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IDK!!
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It's something trolls do. |
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sunny
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Reply hazy, try again later. |
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I Love A Child With Autism!!!
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That you are not worth the air you breathe and your child will be better without you if this is really the way you feel about her because it is only a matter of time until she senses how you feel. |
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Lovin my swagg
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Thats its you that got issues not her! |
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Felicita1
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Notice folks, a fine specimen of a troll. Unfortunately not an endangered species, but we can only hope. |
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spydermomma
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So your "kid" is one of those 3 little goats that go tromping over your bridge? |
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K B
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oh my gosh! how can you not love your own child? i feel very bad for the poor kid. |
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mamm23
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You say "I'm selfish and don't want to have this child around me." Then your beautiful child will go live with a family that loves her. |
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minmin
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well is she 3 or 3 months? b/c your other questions say 3 months and this one says 3.
and i'd say if you're really having trouble in math and cutting yourself. and have a 3 and/or 3 month old...you definitely have issues that can't be resolved here.
and to answer your question, tell people that you are too mentally unstable and definitely too immature to have a child. |
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k4yjo
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See a doctor |
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Mom to Foster Children
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What do you mean you don't like her? You tell them that your a selfish ***** and that you only think of yourself!
Reported as harm to minors! |
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Little Katie
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No one can really be this heartless.... Trolls are .... stupid! |
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Amy J
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You take her and go back under your bridge with the rest of the trolls.
Not sure why you are complaining you got so many negative comments isn't that what you're looking for? |
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Lyssy
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Wow, that is just awful.
You bring a child into the world only to not give her love and affection.
You shouldn't say anything (because you shouldn't be in this situation).
Go get some counceling. I seriously think there is something wrong with you. |
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amazingly intelligent
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Tell them she will be better off having a family that is capable of giving her what you cannot, starting with love. |
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Sophie
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You are doing the right thing then. Since you are going to be a negative aspect in your own child's life- it's better that you do NOT raise her. |
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snowwillow20
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After reading all of your previous questions (yes, we can do that) I think you should go for counseling to see why you ask these types of questions. Just my opinion. If by chance you do have a 3 year old that you don't like, my advice again is counseling to find out why you don't like her. |
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naughty girl
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Do what you feel like you need to do. If in your heart that's how you feel about your own child then give her up.
Good luck with everything |
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Mother of Many
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People take offense because we are here to discuss REAL issues. Not this fake heartless sissy stuff. I think you only posted this to get a rise out of people, and well you did. As I am sure you are satisfied now. Move on please. |
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missing my man
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because you don't like her are serious what kind of parent are you she is better of without you... that what you tell them she deserves a loving home and i cant give her that |
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Ms Lisa
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Oops, my answer to your other question was to give her up for adoption! I'm new to this, I don't really understand how to read everyone's question. Anyways, I think you are making a very smart choice. You should not raise a child if you do not love her! And if people ask you about it, just be honest with them! Tell them you didn't feel any kind of emotional attachment to the child, so you felt it was best to let her be raised by a family that would love her. It sounds cold, but the truth is, any of us would rather see a child raised in a loving home! I wish I knew you, because I would adopt her! I can't have anymore children and it's devastating! |
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Rowan
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Simply say "i can't deal with her, i don't love her" you seem quite willing to advertise your lack of affection for you child to goodness knows how many people here, why not anyone else who asks?
People are taking offense because you are coming across as a selfish human being who is giving away her child because she doesn't love her. Now, i would normally say people like you shouldn't be allowed to breed, but then, that little girl wouldn't exist. I'm surprised that you weren't EXPECTING negative answers to your question. You come on here and announce you don;t love your child, what a stupid person you are! |
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ezmee1859
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Why don't you go get some counseling before you make such a big desicion? Do you have family that can take her? Please think about what you are doing. It may seem like the right thing now, but one day you will be very sorry, and then it will be to late. |
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littleJaina
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That you are a creep! |
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mommy_of _4
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Hey your doing whats best for your child, if that's truly how you feel. Have you found a home for her yet? |
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Serenity71
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Then she's better off with someone who can love her. At least allow her to live in a stable home.
Make a choice before you do something you might regret to her if those feelings are strong. |
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