What is worse.......................

sunny

Yeah, right.

Welcome to Y!A.

Yawn.

â™¥â™¥Mum To Superkidsâ™¥â™¥

I'm glad your life is going smoothly.

Have you considered birth control?

I luv my kids

What is worse is a person with an attitude like yours. You aren't their mother? You gave birth to how many babies but you aren't their mother?
This makes me sick. There are so many people who cannot have children and you don't want yours. Why do you continue having babies and giving them away then? Have you never heard of birth control?? How about self control? It took me 8 long years to have my first baby then I lost him. And you are so flip about this whole subject.

Claire D

do you mean you have kids just to put up for adoption?

also what do you mean "what is worse"?

Anha S

If you want to keep your childhood, there are several things you could do. Namely birth control that comes in a rainbow of forms and varieties that when used properly are pretty darn effective. These are people that you are passing off like a used pair of shorts. I hope these poor children never find out just how blase you are about giving them up, or just how whoopdie do you are about their existance as a whole.

I have to wonder if doing what you are doing gives you some form of ego stroke.

nana(dueOCT19)

ok so this is at least your third pregnancy and you don't want the children?

have you not heard of birth control. these are you OWN children you are just giving them to someone else to raise. i can understand getting pregnancy once and giving the baby up BUT not 3+ times...
if you want a life get on birth control..take responsibility for your action

i don't agree with abortion but you have no right to tell someone they are not going to heaven. thats called judging and every sin is the same in God's eyes so you are just as wrong as you think they are!!

GROW UP

i hope this is a troll

Gaia Raain II

I have to wonder how your children will feel one day knowing that your youthful partying was so important to you that you gave your own flesh and blood to strangers. I wonder if they'll agree that your youth was enough of a reason to take away the only thing they knew and loved at birth.

Enjoy this youth. You sure traded a lot for it. And I'm sure you'll be answering questions about it someday.

Carol c

I also believe your attitude and behaviors are totally irresponsible. You say you want to make adoptive parents happy and that's why you just have kids to give them away?

Don't you read anything about how adoptees feel knowing that their first mother had them and then gave them up? At least most of them come to understand that their mother suffered profoundly. How about the research that shows that a large percentage of adoptees feel they have abandonment issues? Do you still see nothing wrong with bringing a child into the world knowing that a disproportionate number of adopted people suffer?

No mentally stable woman goes into pregnancy with "no feelings" as you say you do. I feel deep sorrow for your children that all you think about is getting your childhood back.
If you are not a troll, please go speak with a counselor. You might be suffering from some kind of attachment disorder.

Philippa

Come back here in 18 years time if you have connected with any of the children you have so easily given up for adoption.

I hope they never find out how flippant you're being about this as it would hurt them so much. Trust me I know what it's like being in reunion with a child that I actually wanted to raise and it aint easy. He knows the truth now, we have a good relationship but he had issues with adoption before reunion which are worse now because he knows the truth that I wanted him

Try using birth control.

Crucio

What is wrong with you Tammy? I wouldnâ€™t fault you for placing your baby(s) for adoption but the fact that you continue to get pregnant when you know you are not at this stage in your life ready for baby just shows true irresponsibility. Clearly you are not using an effective method of birthcontrol if anything at all. Of course a child is better off being with a parent or parents who want that child regardless if itâ€™s biological parents, adoptive parents or some other caretaker.

People donâ€™t need you to provide babie(s) for them there are far more then enough children and babies who are already here who need homes and parent(s).

LadyCatherine

yet i still have several years to actually live and have fun"

I stopped reading after you said this..

PhilM

If you were the woman who gave birth to me, I'd rather have been aborted.

You asked.

Alex

ok, first, you are better off getting counseling, who the heck has 3+ kids before they are 21 and just gives them away with no feelings? get yourself fixed or something but i defiantly think you would benefit from some serious counseling. ASAP

â˜®yoyoâ˜®

well, i personally dont see whats so bad about it.

if the children go to happy homes.

but i think you probably should care about the baby and what happens to it later in life.

rosesheartspurple

Give the baby up to a family that can not have kids! It will brighten their day! Would be better than keeping the child

grovesy23

I think this questionable, if you are doing it purley to give a couple a child then its a truely beautiful gift your giving. If your doing it for personal gain such as the baby bonus or other payment or you are just careless with birth control then I think its a different situation. Its still lovely for the family who adopt that baby but possibly irresponsable on your behalf if this is the case.

*Miranda*

I think in my opinion you should do what you think is best for your baby. I know your making a family extreamly happy (since i have been TTC now for over 2 years and no luck) people who make nasty comments to you are absolutely rude and have no respect. Yes in some perspective they shouldnt say things the way they do but in others maybe you should practice using a condom or being put on BC i do not recommend the shot!!!

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