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Whats the best way to get revenge on evil birth parents?

My birth parents got in touch with me 3 years ago after 37 years. It turned out my younger brother had just died and they were looking to bring me on as a replacement, a substitute so to speak.
When they realized I was a man in my own right and wasn't going to fill the shoe's of their dead son they turned nasty. They even went to the police and told them I'd been harassing them, Which was proved to be a lie.
I really want to get back at them somehow in the most evil possible way. Without going to jail of course. Any ideas?

And if anyone insults me I'll just delete your question so please don't bother. I've heard all the "Look at it from their point of view crap" I'm going to listen to.
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Didn't want to mention it but my adoptive mother was even worse than them two.

And cantstopLinnyG, you need to get out more


    




cantstopLinnyG
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The most evil thing you can do is say, "Thank you for giving me away", then make a ginormous poster of you and your adoptive family and put it in their yard.

eta
You are right, Peter, I do need to get out. Do you have any friends? Ones who wont make it burn when I pee? Please make sure they are nice, though. I have abandonment issues.


sunny
Do you have a light saber? Or a stun gun?

Hmmmm.

Make them pay for your therapy?


gypsywinter
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VooDoo Dolls?


PhilM
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You want to get back at your evil parents by proving yourself to be evil? The best way to get back at anyone is move on, and don't look back. Go forward and lead a successful life. Revenge never solved anything.


Robin
Find a way to forgive them. Not because they deserve it. But because YOU do!

Actually, I wish I had some evil, nasty thing to share that would make you feel better, if only for a moment. I'd love to get back at the evil adopted mother I have. I won't go into it here...this is about you & your story.

I'm so sorry you've had such a horrible experience with the birth parents. I do hope you find peace. Once you figure out how to get even, if only in your fantasies, try the forgiveness and set yourself free.

Then forget all about them!

The best revenge is living well. =D

ETA: Ahhh...I should have known some of my peeps would show up with some FABULOUS ideas. BWAHHHH! Love the light saber idea! And the voodoo dolls.

ETAII: Come on ppl, where's your sense of humor? One of the best ways to get over the painful memories is to find a way to laugh about 'em. =p

ETAIII: Now CORN, that's what I'm talking about! Thanks for the GREAT IDEAS! ROFLMAO


Freckle Face
I have found that success, self-acceptance, and happiness were the best revenge.

best wishes to you.


kims
It would seem that the best revenge would be to give Corn Is Not Dog Food their address.


Isabel A
I think your best "revenge" is to live well. Take care of yourself and live the life you want to live.
Good luck.


Randy B
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My only suggestion is to move on, and carry on being happy and healthy. If they truly are that way then the best way to get revenge is to not end up like them.


27 weeks with #1 Its a Boy
i see some good ideas on a show called fringe


Dreamweaver ILF posse 2009
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LMFAO! corn is not dog food you have a brilliant (if not a little frightening) mind! I can't WAIT to try the rubber band thing!!


DevonChaos
The best way to get back at them would be to just live a happy life without them in it. They are going to fuel your fire every time. I know from experience. If you can be happy without them, do it. Just ignore them, and live your life the way you want.


Independ"ant"
Easiest way to hurt them.....?

Tell them everything that could go wrong with being handed over to strangers....happened.



Nothing can be as devastating as that.


Kelly
The best way that you can get back at your parents is to not need them or interact with them. Letting them bother you is when they win. Focus on your own life and don't let them get to you. The more you play the game the more amo they have against you.


MamaKate
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I think you have already gotten it.


Anha S
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Play that choky gaggy noise from the Grudge and thump and bang about in their attic. I'm not feeling overly creative this morning, but that would just about give me a heart attack.

Corn is not dog food, what an imagination! I'm so tempted to try that rubber band thing on someone, but I will be good.

In all seriousness, live well, live happy. That's usually the best revenge.


Ted Pack
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Live well and ignore them. Every unanswered telephone call, unanswered letter, forgotten birthday, forgotten mother's day, forgotten father's day, etc. will be a reminder to them.


Heather Leigh
I say ignore them and change your number if you have to. If you want more than that, then Corn...gave you some great ideas (I think I need to try and stay on her good side!!) . Some of which I may have to try on my ex-husband!!


HappyMomAnna
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Are you wanting to Hurt their Feelings really bad--or, be evil without breaking the law, or just evil without getting caught?

...I only know ways to hurt a persons feelings and it sounds like there is en ought of that to go around....a dozen dead roses and a note that says, these roses are dead like my feelings for you... that is the most evil thing I could think of.....


MATMAN
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Do nothing.
Their already living in their own guilt.


hotmama
Call the police and tell them they're harassing you...
Or you can be the bigger person and totally ignore it... you know you're better than them.. don't sink to their level.


♥♥Rita♥♥
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My advice?? Don't let it eat at you.......

This has probably got to be heart rending at some point for you.

If they are continuing to make bogus claims about harrassment, take them to court. If they are bothering you, get a restraining order or protective order or whatever.

Evil breeds demented minds.....just try to move past it.

You could put an ad in the local paper where they live.....nahhh, just a thought. :-)8

Take care!!


Kero
Don't waste your energy on these evil people. By seeking revenge you are giving them more of yourself than they deserve. The best revenge would be to become rich and successful and preferably Famous lol. but mostly happy within yourself.That would be the best revenge, that no matter how much **** they have done to fcuk you up, you just keep bouncing back and not wasting your time with them. You are better than revenge, so don't let yourself be just as bad as them by seeking it. you wil probably find that revenge wont come with the satisfaction you expect.


kero
im also addopted but hate both set of parents im now crying cause they say they dont love me any more and i have to go back to my care home and i am stupid but then again my mum amd dad both take drugs which is annoying and before you ask they take crack and herrowin and they smoke weed they are both alcoholics and batter me every day im lucky that i am good with fixing things cause i am locked in the sellar with no food no drink just a computer and my dads stash of money and tools which when they go out later i will use and spend but here is the thing to give yours revenge like the other guy said stic shit in there letter box but then you will get arrested or buy a science kit make a small bomb and let it off in there back garden or put smoke bombs in there letter box or buy them a gift and make up you know be friends and by the way hello other users ..........!!!





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