Who do you love more????????

Patela

My child with the same bloooddd!!!!!!

Heather B

I'm confused. Is 'your adopted child' not 'your child' then (scratches head)

whatever!

The fact that you are asking this question, should mean that you should not adopt. Also too, don't go around making fun of adopted children.

tish

if you believe you won't love the child the same then why would you adopt??? i don't understand why you would even entertain this thought

oh...

you're 16. gotcha.

go study, dear. midterms are coming up soon.

Joy M

Wow, you are really immature for 16.

Are you adopted?

Gershom

You sound real sophisticated.

my grandma totally loved my cousin who was biologically related to her over me who was the adopted one. You could cut the favortism with a knife it was so thick and in my face.

Isabel A

I don't like you. You are mean. Please go away. Thanks.

aloha.girl59

I second Isabel's answer.

sunny

I KNOW my aparents love their two bio kids more.

And I don't blame them. I love the kids I made with my husband better than any kids I've ever known.

Remyxo

Love them the same :]

Crucio

I know I would love both the same because my parents love me the same as their biokids. Love grows it does not shrink.

Honey donâ€™t ever ever adopt then. No child deserves that.

Lillie

I love Jesus.

emnari

I didn't know you could love children more or less if they weren't your own bio children?? I love my (step) son, my (adopted) daughters and the baby I'm planning all the same ... you shouldn't love anyone of them more or less ...

Sue M

I think that you love your child the same no matter what.
A Mother's love is a Mother's love. It has no boundaries..
Blood doesn't come into it.

Jelly tots

OMG if you doubt how much love you have in that big heart, then dont bother to adopt.

simple

Anne K

You would love all your children the exact same, why wouldn't you. Your child is your child no matter if you gave birth to it or adopted it. They are all your children.
How can you say you wouldn't love your adopted child as much as a biological child? Can you see into thefuture? You may have a biological child and not bond with it. Having children and raising children is not all black or white.
Adoption is a tough and very strict process, its very difficult to get approved for adoption, and rightly so, the children come first in adoption. If you think now, that you would not love an adopted child as much as a biological child, then there is no way on earth you would ever pass the adoption process.
Maybe you are thinking about adopting for all the wrong reasons?
You are very young, and you don't seem to know much about adoption. I wish you well in the future.

Sunny

,You have to be at least 25 to adopt in most countries, in other countries you have to be older! So you have a ways to go! And thank god because you have a lot of growing up to do! A mom loves all of her children the same, if you don't think you can do that then you need not to adopt!

Roxy

why wouldent you be able to love them the same there is no shame in that
i mean you are helping a child out and that child should be as big a part of your family as your your owen child so you should be able to love them the same . I mean its up to you
you shouldent adopt if you have doubts
hope thjois helps

gbcheesehead4life

well i agree with everyone here. but if the adapted child is kind of old when you adapt them then I dont think that you can really get that bond that you would if thwy were younger. I think that if you adapted the child and they were really young then you can get that bond but otherwise that bond is just not as strong. So you should love them the same but if they are older and you adapted them then you may just no form that special bind but you most definately should LOVE THEM THE SAME!!!!

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