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LaurieDB
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Not again. What does who raised me and how have to do with my desire to make adoption better and to get my equal rights? |
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Laurel J
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To what Laurie, Rejected, and Gaia have said, I can only add
OH GHACK---- |
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Freckle Face
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Absolutely no child owes gratitude to their parents. Parents raise their children, they are the ones who wanted the children. The children did not ask to be born or adopted into their families.
I wish i had a better answer for you. Its too bad that people think you can't have an independent thought on adoption no matter what kind of family you had. |
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♥♥Mum To Superkids♥♥
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What I don't understand is why anybody would think a child owes their parents any kind of gratitude at all, adopted or otherwise.
Parents choose to bring children into their lives, not the other way around. |
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preacherswife
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Obviously, they don't realize that being adopted is sometimes difficult for anyone to handle, regardless of life afterward. |
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a healing adoptee
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I'm so glad that my parents are nothing like some of the a-parents on yahoo here. they have always treated me with respect. to answer your question though, it seems that this person was just lashing out and they failed to realize how hurtful those words are. |
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Isabel A
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It just shows me that there are a lot of bigoted people out there.
My only question is, why would someone who obviously hates adoptees want to adopt one?
It boggles my mind.
But maybe they get something out of making a child "shut up and be grateful".
It just says something about them.
That's my opinion anyway. |
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bailie28
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we the vagrants the adoptees should be thankful someone picked us out like an abandoned animal and took us home..lol...kills me...everyone has the right to know who they are and where they came from...its that simple... |
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Sophie
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Because they're saying what they feel. If we think it's right or wrong, great- but it's THEIR opinion; not yours.
In MY opinion, it's WRONG to tailor your opinions/answers just to be with the "in crowd" and not get ridiculed later.
Come on- people learn when others give honest answers... |
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Alyssa's mommy
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You don't have to read questions that upset you. Just ignore them. Some people don't know anything. You have every right to feel the way you feel. No one can tell you how to feel. |
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sapphirarainxx
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Get a life sweetheart!
Whos worse guys? Her for posting it, or us for answering her!? |
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Mrs Robinson 2 B
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because some ppl with natural parents are suffering and ppl like you who have nice caring adoptive parents dont know how lucky you are thats why |
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monkey925purple
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that makes no senses of why why why why why they not shut up and their caring family and gratful..maybe ur pap just don't likes it |
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