Was my marriage just about a visa?

giraffe shoe

well, you should really ask someone who knows you and your husband instead of random people on the internet who have never met you. how can strangers know your husband's motives?

Charles Taze R

talk to ice then an attorney

you might have a case to have his visa and your marriage annuled

Honesty Hurts

u got playedd.

Katie V Dub

all men change when you marry him

confront him. tell him how you feel

paimimor

get out now, he's using you

Kaite (:

tell him straight ur not paying a penny towards his visa.

if he goes mad and storms out, u know that its a sham

if he goes mad but asks you why, its a sham but u need to really talk about it

if he doesnt go mad and looks shocked, i wud say he isnt taking u for granted. anyway u can do better then someone that talks to u like tht!

Zebra Z

Hi

You need to tell him that he is no longer living in his own country,

I heart beets

bail on him and find someone who loves you for who you are.

MEGAWALRUS

Hopefully you've known him a while before you married him. He probably is just getting worried because you can't sponsor the visa if you're not working.. And he can't get a job can he? You had better figure out what his and your motives were when you married. Surely you trust him if you married him, but only you can know.

*~alycia~*

For the babies sake and yours GET OUT NOW, don't let someone marry you just for a Visa. He is using you!!!! If he expects YOU to support HIM, he is a loser and needs to go back to where he came from. You deserve WAY better!

slaarwalhz

I think he is just using you. Sorry!

Abriam L

yes

blazer14760

I really think he's using you for $. My uncle did the same thing to my grandmother...Not a happy ending, I would get out and get a fresh start.

proud walker

I think you know the answer to this one. He's got you where he wants you and now he's tightening the strings. Maybe you and your baby will be better off if you ditch this ungrateful and unsympathetic person who is only likely to get worse as he gets what he wants and you get more dependent on him. sorry to be so negative.

*â™«~Râ™¥cKsTâ™«R~â™¥*]

your husband is crazy!

Spotter 888

If that is how you feel, then I guess you should cut the relationship right now. One mistake is enough. File for annulment or divorce whatever is the legal advise to you.**

Sugar

It sure looks that way...and it's not good.

Taylor J

leave him!!!!!! let him get deported

Rocky D.

Give him the BOTD...

RedSnook

Yes he is using you
Sorry about losing your job ;-(
If he was any kind of man he would be out there trying to find ANY kind of work (non legal of course) to support his wife and expectant child.
Give him a strong talking to, if he rolls his eyes, think twice.
Couples come together in a crisis, don't they?

Good luck

sarreh7

hes got what he wanted off you now he doesn't need to keep you sweet
bail out

UhOh!

Im so sorry you are having to deal with this.... But seven weeks into a marriage you should still be in the honey mood stage, so if he is treating you bad I would def. jet!
In no way will it be better for the baby to grow up in a home full of fighting! If he is just using you then he deserves to not get that visa.... and if hes not using you then hell find another way to get a visa and maybe after you leave hell realize what he had with you and change...
Either way I would say please leave! Lean on your family and friends, it might be hard but I promise itll be worth it... Every women deserves to be treated with respect, and from the way it sounds your not getting that, and it may escalate to physical violence in the future!
good luck and congrats on the beautiful creation growing inside you!

Cheshire Cat

get rid of him.
come on, does that sound that he loves you?
you are preggo, you feel sick and he tells you that you are lazy?
hell to the no!

angler

You have been well any truly used.Get out
and do not give him a penny or sign anything.Unless it's divorce papers.But
your going to be on the phone to the police a lot.He will harass you.Hope i'm
wrong about that one but i doubt it.

Miss

What's he going in an asylum for? Yeah, he's crazy. I think you should
get out now. The baby growing in you is more important! Oh, he needed a visa for an immigrant? I see now. Wow, he was just using you it seems.

Good luck with him if you choose to stay with him.

Kamus_1911

get out now! ! he sounds like an ***

michaela

i would bail its not worth the trouble i wish you luckâ™¥

Rabbit Feet

That's what you get for spreading you're legs so fast

UPDATE: well thats different. btw what country is he from?if he's an assylum seeker youcan tell his country where he is then they will catch him and then you fille un-contested divorce.....roflmao

dazzii

bail him now, sounds like he is from turkey, send him home

well, my biggest advice is talk to him, the biggest thing that separates people is not talking, thats usually how a divorce happens. Tell him how you feel. Also, if he is so worried, ask him (in a polite and respectful way) to maybe see if both of you can get a job. Also, start out small. Do something you think you would like or enjoy and be good at. But don't get worse or more sick by working too hard.

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