Why are some mexicans disgusted if I'm not fluent in spanish?

H B

They are just spouting their venom at you simply because you are an American.
No more no less.

patriotwww

They still think Texas is part of Mexico!

atlantaboi3

You are not wrong. They are. Believe it or not, this happens to a lot of people. Even people who are not of hispanic decent. Usually they get nasty responses because they do not speak Spanish. I think they think you are not being true to your heritage. In all actuality you are. They just can't understand that. Nor can they understand English probably. That could be what upsets them too. Who knows really.

Roger N

I can see their point...
The are in a land that is pushing them to turn away from their heritage. If they run across someone as yourself that appears to be Mexican and you cannot speak Spanish, then they will look at you as a "sell out".
They fail to realize...they are in OUR house. They can do as they wish in THEIR home but they need to conform to US while out and about in public.

Layne B

Because they are ignorant?

Rob S

They know that EVERYONE in the US is going to have to speak spanish soon anyway... Bush is giving the country to mexico.

shelly

I have the opposite problem. I'm white and if I'm walking by some Mexican workers and hear them say something about my...chest area, for example... I call them on it, and they have this look on their face like "How dare you know Spanish, white girl!" We're in California people! Most people take a couple years of Spanish in high school!

melody r

I live in Texas too and am married to a man who speaks fluent Spanish. I have found that within the Mexican culture, if you are of Mexican decent that it is an insult to your race not to speak Spanish. Hispanics are very big on preserving their own race and heritage and if you do not conform to their ways you are a "traitor" to your own race. Just my insight from 36 years living in Texas.

Because to them you have to stand for the "Cause" or "La Raza" So you have to speak perfect Spanish in order to be accepted by them. But here's deal I'm Hispanic/American and i have been through the same situation as you have. And i have seen what illegals have done good and bad.

Just here.

MAYBE CAUSE YOUR MEXICAN-AMERICAN

Pop D

No, you are not wrong. It is great for them to be proud of their heritage but when living in the United States the best way to get ahead and live the good life is to use good English. Do the people here who think we should cater to non-English speaking people believe that the Mexican government should cater to English speaking people who move to Mexico. Should Mexican schools, stores, industries cater to English speaking people. Should all Mexican government documents also be printed in English for the Americans who have moved to Mexico. I'm sure Mexico and most countries around the world would not cater to English speaking immigrants. Try to live in France without speaking French. The problem is not you, it is with them.

nimisisprime

possible for the same reason that african immigrants think less of me because i black but I was born here

snappygirl

Maybe they feel like you've betrayed your heritage. You shouldn't feel bad about it though. You are an American citizen, you speak the language that is natural to you.

Holbrook

What I find funny is that many of them speak horrible Spanish...my wife is Colombian and I speak a good bit of Spanish, but Understand more than I speak...listening to the people around here who are illegal is awful...they speak Spanish like the Rednecks here speak English...what is amazing is if I go to South American countries...people speak Spanish to me...my wife says it's because I look Colombian (From Cali or Medellin)...I guess I do...dark brown hair, tan complexion, green eyes...but my Southern Accent when I speak Spanish must give it away...=)...so when I am in Colombia, I speak as much Spanish as I can, since it is their country...I just wish the Illegals would do the same here...all the Colombians I have met here in the US speak English...makes you wonder...

weechi

my boyfriend is mexican, living in mexico his whole life. i wouldn't say he's disgusted at all when he comes here and sees people such as yourself (he never aproaches someone speaking spanish, only english and then will switch if that other person prefers)....but he is a little confused.

i guess you have to think of it like this...the US is a country built on a creed, not a race. mexico is largely ONE race...so...how a person looks is what they are. they don't have the diversity like we do here. so to them....it's very funny, very strange to see a hispanic person who can't speak spanish, because it's difficult for them to conceptualize a country made up of ALL different kinds of people...different races.

they don't understand that you are not mexican...because, you look mexican! they have difficulty realizing that "hispanic" is a race, NOT a culture or a language. if you were born in the US, you aren't obligated to speak spanish!!

i just think they have trouble realizing that you are american, not mexican, therefore you don't need to speak spanish.

as for the nasty attitudes...i think it comes out of not being able to understand. but...it's not right. you speak what you want to!

ricmon87

same here. I am Mexican American and one time at my high school graduation, this hispanic reported wanted me to say something for thier local newspaper. I do know spanish, but when it comes to speaking to fluet people, i get dumb. so I told him i know very little spanish. But i do have problems speaking spanish somtimes. but Mexicans aren't disgusted that you are not fluent in Spanish, they probably think you should at least know it.
I think they very well should at least give it a try at learning more english.

Zapata

Coconuts are not very well liked!

New Day...

Because they can't speak english?

cadaholic

assimilation is a dirty word even in a foreign land where some come illegally. thats the governments fault as well since people are doing whatever they fell like doing even though they are illegally here to begin with. our jails are filled with many illegal criminals who should be deported along the way too.

Mathsorcerer

I conur with melody r. I am also a native Texan (as if my name didn't tell you that already) and some Mexicans do think that if you are of Mexican descent that you should automatically be fluent. Unfortunately, they simply don't know any better.

I don't disagree that some white people are still racist and judge people based solely on how they look, but that behavior is prevalent in other cultures/groups, as well.

daydreamer2

If you don't already know, then find out how to say to them in Spanish: "You don't speak for me!" http://dontspeakforme.org/ Those people and you deserve and get my respect!

Tobias Maximus

You know, as sad as it is to say as a Latino myself, I agree with you. I live in CA and people automatically talk to me in Spanish just because I look Hispanic. They don't bother to find out if I even speak Spanish. Luckily for them, I like speaking Spanish (so I don't forget it) but I can understand where you're coming from. Not everyone is so receptive to the language as you can tell by the posts on YA! Also, us South Americans, speak different Spanish than Mexicans do. I can't understand them half the time....sorry you live in TX, by the way :o)

David

im sorry there rude ignorant's they think that U.S should speak spanish as there official language.They do the same thing to me eventhouth im not a mexican,but hey ignore them.Ive lived in texas and i know how it feels.I would always get cussed in spanish cause they knew that i wouldn't understand them.Dont let them get into you.

I dont think its just with your language, it also happens to other people that are from different cultures and cant speak the language. For example chinese

AaronAA

:-( Maybe because you look like an Aztec and have the eagle stamped on your face? The thing is, that regardless of how how many generations of your family have been here, you still look Mexican, and any angloamerican will immediately classify (unless they talk to you, etc) and categorize you. I bet you that by looking many assume you're an illegal alien. It's unfortunate, but that's how it is. You SHOULD, however, seek to learn the language, it is a romance language with 33% more words, much richer and excellent literature and poetry - ---- Reconnect with your RAICES (roots), and SUPPORT (apoya) and VOTE (vota) for REFORM for your "hermanos", because they are your people. A cat born in france and a cat born in an over are still cats.

no_spin_zone_factor

This is a excellent question and I am glad you asked it. The answers given are very informative. I personally feel that the reason you get the responses you get is because most of the Mexicans I know are racist and I am refering to the ones who were born south of the border. They expect you to put race above being American. Just be who you want to be and proud of who you are. As a Americn, your first language is English. Nothing wrong if you wish to learn Spanish, in fact, a guy I went to school with was alot like you. His mother was hispanic, but he didn't learn any spanish at all till he was grown. If you do wish to learn spanish, do it for yourself and not because of what anyone else thinks.

Jimmy B

You are completely right not to stoop to their level. The Mexicans that do that usually don't like American society in general. However, I do agree that as a people(Americans) we are more liberal than Mexicans and I feel that we (Americans) are arrogant,pompous, and ignorant. Although this is a generalization, I see and hear about many people who, in my opinion, have these traits. Although you do live in America, I think you should learn to speak Spanish. It will not only make the insults cease, but it will, later on, allow you to make more money and learn any other latin based language. It will also help you carry on your latino culture to your kids and fellow Americans.
Iit would be in their best interests to learn english, but there is no law that dictates this. They don't have to learn english or assimilate into American society if they don't want to;however, it would be in their best interests.

makeitright

Wow. Well, maybe they expect you to speak Spanish if you are of Mexican descent. However, coming from South Texas myself, and being caucasian, I always make every effort to speak Spanish to my amigos.. It helps me and it helps them become more united. You sound like you may live in San Antonio, so I understand what you mean.

Yes, they should adapt and so should we.

reene2g

dont deny your heritage, am sure you eat taco's and mexican food!!!

i try and speak my ancestor's language (even though no one around me speaks it) and we still cook some of the food. I love being different thats whats makes America great!!!

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