Any cops here that could answer this question?

gunsandammoatwork

Mikeysco has it right. Your dad can (and should) get a restraining order against your bf. He can list himself as the primary and the rest of the family and the house as protected against him.

What you don't understand is your "bf" has a problem with violence. No matter what he told you when he called to make-up, normal men do not resort to violence in an argument with a female. It isn't the "one time" thing he's trying to tell you it is.

Thank God your Dad has his head screwed on straight, as opposed to all the do-nothing parents these days.

Kitty

Sorry to say this your still a minor.

He couldn't do it unless you were the magic number 18.

River

Since you are not emancipated as an adault, your dad controls the situation. Unfortunately your boyfriend will probably have no shot in law enforcement with this on his record. If a protective order comes through the line, that would be a real negative. If you have ever been convicted of a felony or a restraining order placed against you, you will not meet the requirements for about 99.9% of the agencies in the US.

mikeysco

It's difficult to give you a good answer without knowing what state you're in.

In California, yes - your dad could get a restraining order against your boyfriend. If you really want to help this kid become a cop someday, then you two need to go your separate ways and never again see each other (which doesn't sound like a bad idea anyway) and not give your dad a reason to get the order.

However, as one other poster already said, if your boyfriend was convicted of some kind of crime, he's probably already screwed himself in the near term...meaning several years.

babygirl876259

well he is not gonna get anywhere with that attitude problem he has, if he does ever become a cop than he will probably be a corrupted cop....

FILO

I'm not a policeman, but I can tell you this. It's good that your B/F wants to be a cop, but his behavior might be the only thing that'll stop him from being one. The Academy makes their graduates take some form of aptitude test that will help them decide if these graduates can be public servants, I mean cops. so it all boils down to whether he'll pass the test or not with what already a past behavior your boyfriend had will put some weight on who they pick to do the job. Good enough, yes?

nickle

as long as you are a minor and living with your parents your dad can basically do whatever he choses to.

kstrzwsk

dont think so

us_hegemony

Whatever ticket he got from the actual incident will prevent him from becoming a cop anyway.

rita p

you should thank your dad and get rid of the boyfriend .if he is hitting you now id hate to see what he does when you start to have money problems and kids

RangerEsq

If he has been to court and paid fines, then your BF has been convicted of a crime and sentenced for it. As an adult criminal your Dad can certainly get a restraining order to keep him away from his minor daughter.

I should note that you are obviously NOT telling us the whole story because there was clearly a criminal conviction and your description of events does not sound like any sort of criminal conduct.

someonewhosnotyou

you are RETARTED!!!!! is sounds like your more mad at your dad for protecting you that your piece of s*** bf for kicking your ***. I shouldent be a cop he should be getting arrested by one women like you make me sick, the next thing you know youll be gitting pregnate by him and then he'll be kicking your kids *** to

Love always, Kortnei

You cannot be a cop if anyone has a restraining order against you

Akon_luva_13

Oh... i am a cop. i say you should put a restraining order on him because he is doing the wrong thing

ladyinblue

No, doesn't sound like that could ever happen.

glamour04111

SGT. D

Yes your father can swear out a Temporary restraining order (TRO) on your BF since you are still a minor and obviously are living on his property although he may be talking about a no trespass order. I don't know the details but physically fighting in an argument with your significant other is called a domestic disturbance and it's illegal. You and your BF better check into some counseling and be taught the proper way to argue without resorting to physical violence or you may both end up being charged next time. And yes if he has been convicted of any domestic violence crimes even a misdemeanor , under new federal guidlines he can not be a police officer.

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