Hope some law enforcement can give a advice on how catch a cheating guy in action?
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Hope some law enforcement can give a advice on how catch a cheating guy in action?
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How could he manage to avoid getting caught the whole time?
My friend has been desperately trying to catch her boyfriend cheating on her. She’s pretty positive that he has been cheating on her. I’m almost 100% sure he has been cheating on her. But she really wants to catch him in action so she doesn’t have to live with feeling of guiltiness.
I’ve always been told and heard that it’s so easy to caught guy cheating. I have never heard of any guys getting away with cheating on their girl. Then on top of that, I’m dead on accurate when it comes to read person. I can always tell if they’re up to no good or lying. In fact many of my friends often ask me to help determine something and I have pretty much always been very accurate when it comes to this sort of thing.
But with this guy, he’s always naturally defensive. No matter what, he’s always defensive over anything and everything. So it just makes it way harder.
I’ve tried to fish information out of him, but it never work. But I can tell he was actually hiding something really deep inside.
I’ve tried to set up a couple false myspace profiles with girls of his taste. Since he really like Russian girl, I made a profile that would fits his taste. The closest I ever came to having any luck was when I told him I’ll be coming to visit his city after having a long boring conversation for a couple weeks. That’s when he started to email in Russian to ask me about Russian cultures which caught me off guard since neither of us knew he could understand Russian or know the culture so well. I tried to use translator on website to reply, but he ignored me after that.
I’ve sent a couple girls to try seduce him, but it never work. He just end up avoid them or walk away from them.
So my friend decided to try having private inspector follow him around twice. Both time he outsmart them and caught them in action. One of them even worked in group of four and he still caught them.
The closest we have caught him in action was when one of our friend spotted him sitting with a girl and talking with her in a coffee shop for a short time before going their own way.
This is making us crazy. How can we catch him in action? It seems like there’s absolutely no way to trick him or anything. I’m afraid to ask him about the girl he was talking to in coffee shop because I really want to catch him in action, but if he knows that I know something then he’ll just manage to avoid getting catch.
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If he's not cheating then how could he knew that private inspector was following him?
Why would he suddenly start to write email in Russian?
Also we clearly know he is hiding something. Why would he be talking to other girl and sitting with her? My friend didnt know of this, so this mean he's hiding this from her.
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Kevin
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You said you can always tell if they’re up to no good or lying. Have you looked at yourself, before pointing at another?
You are lying, getting involved in things that are none of your business, and trying to entrap someone. You're the one who is up to no good, and it makes you (and your friend) look desperate and pathetic.
I'd say the answer to your question is that he can tell the same things.
You set up false profiles, and claim to be Russian. Then when he "calls you on it" by writing in Russian, he simply proved that he knows what you are up to. You responded with an online translation, which anyone who knows a smigeon of Russian can tell is done online.
Tell your friend if she doesn't trust him, give up her obsession and get on with her life. And you should avoid pointing fingers at others, when you are doing what you claim to despise so much. |
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Ken
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Why are you so hung up on catching this guy? So you can ask him out yourself? If I was dating a girl as insecure as your friend, I'd probably try to flirt with you too. |
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tacos
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consider this...he's not cheating |
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Mike
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just because he notices an incompetent private detective following him does NOT make him guilty of cheating. If all you caught him at is sitting with someone and having coffee, that is NOT cheating. I do this in my break-room at work every day. |
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jonn449
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Consider this..........
Maybe its you and "your friend" are the ones with the problems! |
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Michael H
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First off, law enforcement doesn't get involved with people cheating in a relationship. It isn't a criminal matter. Private Investigators will take the case simply to make some money, but rarely do they get the "caught in action" video. It seems to me that you and your friend are spending a lot of time on a guy who she could just simple break up with. There not married. If there is this level of mistrust, even if the guy is cheating, then they shouldn't be together. Why waste time and effort and money trying to catch this guy? |
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WhatBrain?
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Cheating isn't illegal and some private investigators are not so good. If she trusts him so little, perhaps she should just file for divorce? Besides, having lunch together is hardly cheating. Your friend is highly insecure to the point of mental illness and could be dangerous. If you care, get her some help. |
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