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mightmike_007
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this happened to me 10 years ago as a male, and did not go further.
The police will issue a warning under any statement but to prove harrasment to the cps they must have evidence. If you are arrested always consult a solicitor regardless of what the police tell you.
Stay out of the way and you will be fine it takes at least 3 warnings to prosecute. I DO NOT RECOMMEND YOU HAVE ANY CONTACT WITH THE AGGRIEVED UNLESS ITS THROUGH A SOLICITOR OR BARRISTER.
GOOD LUCK |
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cuddles
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well you didnt deny that it was you..you just said it wasnt from your mobile number...dont contact him or have friends contact him since you were warned by the police as this can result in fines and court hearings..
they will let him know that they made contact with you and told you not to have any contact with him..
they wont tell anything that you said to them... |
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Scouse
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You have been formally warned. If it was not your phone who's was it?
Your friends? If not you will need a lawyer to find out who is making these malicious calls. You already know what I think |
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Leather and Lace
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Maybe you should contact an attorney and ask him/her these questions. If your former partner is convinced you are the one doing (or behind) the harassment, you may need an attorney in the near future. Good luck. |
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Bardic
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I, too, notice you just claim it wasn't from your mobile number, not that it wasn't you. Looks like the police suspect it WAS you nonetheless, that's why you've been given the warning. Take heed of it. The police aren't interested in relaying people's feelings, and you can't use them as a go-between. |
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nosdda
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The Police will just tell him that they have spoken to you about the matter and he should't have any more harassment. |
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pinky
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It totally depends on your police. Mine would go back and tell him everything you said. Police tend to side with the guy. Lay low and forget you ever knew him.
Police, like everyone else, tend to believe the first person they talk to. Or they believe the person they like better.
I'd be very careful. Stop at all stop signs; don't speed; don't run a red light. My police allow anything that their friends do; nothing by anyone else. Until you know how your city runs, just be careful. |
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elin j
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You need to go to a lawyer for the false accusations. If you are certain you haven't given him any reasons to believe you are harassing him.
It's unlikely the police would come out unless they had serious grounds to do so. Are you sure you've not text time and he's interpreted it wrongly, or maybe someone from another number is posing as you? |
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Lily B Talus
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they will not go back to him, they have good reason to think that it was you...get in touch with the Domestic Violence unit at your local police station and ask for advice about your fear of him, also if you were responsible for the calls etc...do not send anymore otherwise you'll end up in court...you need to get some advice, if there is no d.v. unit phone women';s aid and ask for help, they are listed in the front of most phone books. |
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Han
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It is difficult... you say you deny it because it wasn't your number, not because it wasn't you.... it's not that I don't believe you, just that we need a bit more info. You don't mention why you're scared of him, why he's your ex, or any reason why he might point the finger at you if it's not your number....? |
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stickadiddle
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DO NOT CLICK ON TO THE SITE GIVEN BY THE FIRST IGNORANT ANSWERER AS I HAVE JUST SPENT 15 MINUTES TRYING TO GET RID OF IT AND HAD TO EVENTUALLY REBOOT MY COMPUTER.
Good luck with your harassment problem.. |
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PJ
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The police won't go back and say anything to him. |
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Schmitz
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Warnings mean nothing other then it is a warning. If it does go to court if he keeps on reporting you and it is not your number then your in the clear plus he will suffer court fees etc.... You can tell the police anything you want but if you go to court everything you say will be used against you. just be careful in what you say. |
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NDawg
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I police will say "We have given her a warning which means she is not to have contact with you. Since we gave her that warning, we don't you to make contact with her either if you do, that warning will/could be revoked since you made contact with her (that is depending on your state laws). |
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old know all
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Get it lawyered. If he has made a false accusation, he needs to be made to retract it. If the police have abused procedure, you are entitled to damages. |
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n b
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Do what other women do and falsify a history of physical abuse.
That should help you. |
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