I need serious advice to do with drugs.?

â˜¼grundle goatâ˜¼

you can make an anonymous call to the police and tell them your suspicions. you can also give them permission to tap your phone lines so that you personally, dont have to give them the numbers. if you get the ball rolling and the police find out on thier own, then its not all on you. meth is very very dangerous and lots of meth users tend to be violent. good luck to you, but please dont stick around to see the worst of this. break it off with him and go stay at a safe place, maybe a friend or a family members house. tell the cops your suspicions and let them do the investigating. stay out of his business and as far away from him as possible. believe me youre doing the right thing, meth ruins families and communities, it has become an epidemic in this country in just a few years. you wont get in any trouble, in fact think of all the people you are helping by getting him off of the street.

avoiding him or ending the relationship isnt going to help him or anybody else. he needs treatment, tell him you know there is a problem and urge him to check into a rehab facility - if he refuses, that is when you leave. it is also your duty as a citizen to protect your community. tipping off the cops about his meth use and possible sales involvement could save dozens of people and families from the torture you are going through.

blessed_thang

Sorry girl, you need to put as much distance as you can from this person. He will lie about everything. What if you are unknowingly carting the meth around? From what you say, he would do anything to continue meth use. Anything.

KC V â„¢

As an officer with over 30 years....I've seen some pretty sad things resulting from the use or sale of illegal drugs.

As a narcotics officer for the past 20 years...I've seen some pretty sad things with the families of those involved in the use or sale of illegal drugs.

The drug methamphetamine has become extremely popular not because of its' positive attributes...but because it is a drug which sinks its "hooks" in to the user quickly and to a point where discontinued use is extremely difficult.

Knowing your "fiance" is possibly involved in the illegal drug trade makes your life extremely difficult AND extremely hazardous. The people involved with methamphetamine are known to experience serious mood swings and paranoia.

Personally, I'd suggest you find a better man for yourself, however, too often the "significant other" is too unwilling to "lose the love of their life."

My suggestion is you contact your local law enforcement agency and request to speak with a narcotics officer who can give you guidance with this serious problem.

If I didn't know what I was talking about....the other posters wouldn't be saying essentially the same thing....dump him!

I've also included a website below that provides some very good information about methamphetamine.

My prayers are with you and best wishes!

Lt. Dan

Why are you still with him? Get away now before it's too late and you have a child with this person. He probably is using at the very least.

nassim420

Sad as it is or not, he will probably find out it was you that reported him. To me, it sounds like he is selling. I would just dump him. Save yourself the excuse for him to go crazy on you.

MagicGee24

Think about all the people u wiill be helping look at this girl this is what drugs will do to you over a course of 10 years She looks 20 and the end pic is early 30's
http://poetry.rotten.com/spiral/

ibeboatin

Call crime stoppers local number. Give limited info. Let the law figure out the details. They have subpoena rights etc for phone records. Even if he does time you ultimately are: A.) Doing him a huge favor. He may be safer in a lock-up.Drugs are hard to get in there. B).. You would be protecting yourself. Ever hear of drive by shootings, drug raids etc.Obviously he is not thinking of protecting you Contact a lawyer for more info re: you liabilities. You may be liable for criminal charges.

â™¥ Cassie â™¥

I would do it, give the police the phone numbers and tell them what you know. If you don't could get in trouble for what he is doing if he is selling drugs.

Frank D

Hi Erin, First you have to get out of the relationship.This is most important. If you plan on notifying the authorities then you have to protect yourself. Second, there is really nothing you can do to make him come clean with you,we went through this with one of my brothers. When the time come,he will hit bottom and realize he needs help. Right now you have to worry about you and only you. Being put in this position isn't right, you didn't ask for it. The authorities can only do so much and in the event you are there you will be arrested too... I wish you all the best and hope he wakes up to see how he is throwing his life away..

mattinhoustontx

Just get out of the house and dump him. You WILL get in trouble if the authorities find meth in your home. You should leave him and find someone without all the fishiness.

Bella

I have 2 kids, {with my ex} same thing, I KNEW there was something not right, we almost lost the house. ALL he ever did was deny deny deny. After about a year he an-tied up and said it was "coke" the day he told me was the day he left. I have 2 kids to think of. Had he been forthcoming in the beginning I might have stuck around to help him get out of it. But to deny and then when when things are really bad, suddenly want my help NO WAY. out he went. It was hard but it had to be done. Sometimes no matter how much you love them it is never enough. If you have kids or are thinking about it, you need to get out. You need to put yourself first, he will only drag you down, and it is not a fun ride. My ex swore the he was clean and wanted another chance, he had more relapses than I have fingers.

If you suspect it and have a gut feeling about it, go with that, your intuition is usually right. If you want to go to the cops make sure you {or he} is out of there first. Messing with those people can be bad. They value their money more that people. I don't want to scare you but you wanted the truth.

I hope this helps. Good luck, and know that things do get better, if you make the right decision.

roxana m

HONEY IF YOU DON'T REPORT WHAT YOU KNOW YOU COULD BE CAUGHT UP IN THIS MESS TO REPORT THE DIRTY RAT,AND GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION,YOU WANT TO BE ARRESTED FOR CONTRIBUTING TO THIS KIND OF LIFE. YOU BE STRONG AND REPORT IT IF YOU HAVE PROOF!!!

tommyhawk

Well, if you have no trust in this man then it's time to get rid of him and move on. As for the drugs, I would turn him in and protect my self frist and for most. Just a thought, go to the court house and speak with the district attorney, and see what help he or she could be. But get away from this man before you end up in jail with him. Whats stupid, is if you do'nt do something about it for our self.

Southern Girl

If you don't trust him anymore then really there's no point in staying in the relationship, or maybe you ought to put it on hold or something (until he cleans up, you guys work out the lying problems, etc).... I'd confront him again but with some serious evidence about this meth business and if he still denies it then leave him. It's one thing that he's lying to you, but it's another when it's illegal and could seriously inadvertantly get you in trouble too. Do you live with him? If I were you I wouldn't want to chance myself getting in trouble with the authorities, so what I'd do is leave the residence asap (not to mention that it's a hazardous drug!)

Rachel M

You need to go to the police before they come to you with a search warrant and you wind up going down with him. The longer you ignore this behavior (and I think you're instincts are right, he's probably using and selling) the higher the probability of you being seriously harmed by it.

Don't waste time - go to the police station today!

Student

Very simple sweetheart leave him before you lose everything you work for it is not worth the aggravation he is a looooooooooser!

Mr. T's Pretty Cuzzin

Drugs are bad, and I'm serious! Mmmkay...?

nostradamus02012

just get away now.

if he is selling and or doing meth, he is in deep trouble.

he may turn evidence on YOU when he gets caught.

just move out and it might not be a bad idea to put a restraining order on him.

go there with your father and or brother or friends and get your stuff and just get out.

if he is selling drugs, he is just no good...

tired soldier

id ditch him. i have alot of friends that have been hooked on that stuff. he wont stop and eventually he will turn violent and start stealing to get it. his habbit will grow. it would be smart of you to break up with him asap. the cops will get him eventually, they always do.

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fruit.nevermore

If you're worried about getting in trouble for being with someone who sells meth, don't. If you have been suspicious for a long time then decide to report him, that's what you're SUPPOSED to do by law. You are telling them the information if you do that, not hiding the crime, so you' won't be in trouble with the law. They can't expect you to have called if you didn't know for sure until now, in fact if you'd done so it would have been more irresponsible than anything.

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