My husband was arrested?

Do You See What Happens Larry?

Sounds as if you're raising a kid, a juvenile delinquent rather than married to a man. Take the advice of everyone on this board and kick his asss to the curb.

POLARIS

He sounds like a criminal idiot. (Sorry for the redundancy.) You need to leave this loser immediately.

champagne

silly man...hes an adult,stop blaming his mates.your husband is an idiot

Big C

Well, blimey good show there lass. Just get in the lorry and drive like a bat out of hell away from him. Get a bloke what knows how to treat his women and not like a "bail me out of jail, when I get in trouble" lady.

Jamie

By helping him you are only letting him get away with such deplorable behavior. If you have a child please walk away from this bad influence or give the child up. If you feel that what your husband is doing is okay, please get counseling!

suspendor

NO ONE is that 'unlucky'. Your husband needs to reevaluate his life and his relationships. And if you can't see that, you do, too.

Katie D

Get a divorce, pronto

snikleback

plant drugs on him so he gets sent down for more time,then hot foot it off with his mates who are obviously more intelligent than your husband.

bostonianinmo

You must be joking! And you're still with this idiot? Where is your BRAIN? Leave that loser and move on with your life!

festus_porkchop

Oh darn, why is it that everyone who is incarcerated is innocent.
I wonder who it is that are doing all the crimes that the poor innocent people are serving time for.

breedgemh_101

It appears that your husband could call trouble his middle name. You must have the patience of a saint to even contemplate trying to get advice in order to save his worthless skin. Call it a day.

pink_angel

Sounds like he's doing a good enough job on his own. I don't think there is much you can do if he doesnt want to get any help.

trollwzrd

Jails and Prisons are full of people that are innocent. Thats what Prisons are for all the innocent people that way they are protected from society.

If he got arrested more than once for drunk driving and driving without a license then he definitly needs to go to jail.
But I can make one suggestion; maybe he should quit drinking and driving and get a license before he gets behind the wheel of a vehicle again. Oh! And lose the friends if you think they are the cause of his problems, but personally I don't think they are. It sounds like your husband is his own worst enemy.

st.abbs

He will probably not be able to drive a car under a provisional licence for the next five years and most likely be given a three months custodial sentence.Since he has a non appearance at court and offended whilst on bail for drink driving he should not get bail.

What should you do? pray that the judge has a change of heart and gives him 5 years to ensure that the waster does not kill someones Mother,Son or Daughter for the next five years as he has been lucky up until now.

Annie

As far as I'm concerned, he deserves to do jail time for the drunk driving charges alone. I'm not sure why you say his mates are trying to get him in trouble, but he needs some time in jail. Are you sure he's innocent of the bank robbery? Not showing up for court sure makes him look guilty. You need to get as far away from this guy as possible, or you will end up broke, in prison, badly injured, or dead. You really won't help him by trying to solve his problems for him. Good Luck!!

skunk masta

he sound a right tit

spannerbox

if i have to have a driving licence, insurance and road tax why should ur old man not,sounds like his friends are doing him a favour and getting him off the streets, best get a divorce quick, and let him drown in his own s***

hades

I understand his situation. I went to another country and sniped 5 people when I realised I was going to jail for defending myself in a streetfight.

The people I sniped were all idiots anyway and the guy that got into a fight with me is in a meat farm.

We do crazy things when accused of crimes we did not commit and end up commiting higher crimes, its life get used to it. we all die.

lyndon747

Your husband is a tw*t ! Have some respect for yourself and get rid of the looser.

andrew m

sorry...........spend some time alone or find someone else

John L

Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha

CABLE GUY

move away from the area, if you can. you and your husband have to sever all ties with his old life if you are to have any hope of future happiness.

Doethineb

Let's see: one charge of bank robbery and awaiting trial; one offence of failing to surrender to custody; one offence of driving with excess alcohol and driving without a licence; one further charge driving with excess alcohol and driving without a licence of which he is probably guilty, as he still doesn't have a licence and presumably was breathalysed. It sounds as though the kindest thing to do to your husband is to lock him up to protect the public from further offences of this nature and let the time spent in custody on remand count towards any eventual sentences of imprisonment. He doesn't seem able to keep out of trouble. The second drink driving charge will carry three years' disqualification and it would be handy to get it out of the way while serving a sentence.

Those are the facts, viewed objectively. If your husband is acquitted of the bank robbery, things can only improve from that depressing scenario!

Mahatma Coat

He won't change. He says he didn't do the robbery, do you have any way of knowing? He did get busted twice for drink driving. You need to cut your losses. I hope you don't have kids but even if you do you need to get the hell out of there.

inu6080

Sounds like Your Husband Is A Loser.

It Time For You To Move On.

tallerfella

You must be so proud...............

mikydotcom@btinternet.com

You deserve a better life than this idiot can give you-why are you still with him?-find some body else to warm the bed with you at night.....preferably not from the same estate though:-/

sevenout7

leave him and quit making excuse for him

paulisfree2004

dump him, I take it youre free tongiht?

Valiant

Let's see.......

Bank robbery, driving under the influence (twice), non attendance at court (twice), driving without a licence, insurance etc. (twice).

I don't think he needs his mates to get him into trouble dear, he seems pretty good at it himself!!!!!

What do you want to do? If you want to stand by him then make sure he stays on the straight and narrow because if you don't, then he will do it again and will serve more time in jail and you will be asking the same question again. If he persists in drink driving then the next time he could kill someone and you would then be associated with this person and your life will be even more unbearable.

Move town, find a decent, law abiding person and settle down with them.

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