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Amoré
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if your lucky to have some big, mean looking friend, come on over to your place and stare at this woman a few times...... approach her and ask her what's HER PROBLEM.
your friend's size and demeanor will probably make her back off !
I've had to do this before and it worked.
the police can't do anything...... do it your self.
Show this woman your not afraid of her !
If you look and act like a victim that makes bullies feel powerful !
Take her power away by gaining your own !
best of luck ~ |
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ted
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LIFE is seldom simple or easy. In many cases people are stuck in their ways and this seems to be the case with your neighbor. You can't change her disposition but you can break her disrespect toward you. most people do things because they feel there is no punishment. EXAMPLE ... people who drive bad, people who are rude in store, people who work for bill collectors, people who spam your email....like this anoying women many people do thngs that may hurt us because in many cases there is little reaction to their action. If you want her to leave you alone you may have to give her some of her own medicine. I'm sure she will beak soon. |
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Nik
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Tell her to buzz off and mind her own business or get a restraining order or simply move!! |
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Vince
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Ok, there are a few things you can do, first IGNORE HER she does it for one of a few reasons and ignoring her will either make her stop because she is not getting a rise out of you or it will get worse to the point where the cops can and will do something. Each time she does something record it get a little notebook and write the time, place, and the incident that way you have a record of everything for the police. I also agree that a restraining order could help if she does not stop after a week of you ignoring her, and with your note book you can give the judge specific instances of why the restraining order is needed! |
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Cat
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this isnt easy.... i suggest move. Which isnt always pracitcal. or restraining order. Thats way you both are not allowed to talk to eachother or interact. |
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Dennis G
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read your lease agreement very carefully and see if there is not something wrote in the contract about bothering neighbors or conduct and see what you can as far as the apartment management about enforcement.
In the mean time you need to keep a daily diary of events this person brings at you even down to the police being called. Document everything you know of. Eventually your going to have to go to court to take apartment management into tow for lease problems or your going to have to have a order served to the tenant next door. Keep track of issues and facts. Usually living with people of the caliber your describe leaves moving as the best option. |
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Layne B
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Doesn't sound like she is a tenant of yours.
Unfortunately, unless she does something that violates the law, the only thing you can do is move. Unless you choose to torment her, but do it lawfully. |
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jonni_hayes
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it is possible you could get a restraining order against her, you could also report her to the owner of the building explaining the conditions that you are having to deal with, with this person.....other than that have you thought about moving........there are laws out thee to assist you, if you need to consult with a local attorney who could advise you of your rights as a renter and what course of action you can take....good luck |
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Rob P
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Take her out back and beat the crap out of her.
You might get put in jail, but you'll feel better and she'll think twice the next time. |
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Hollywood
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Get a V.P.O. (restraining order). And/or confront her about the situation, if you can. and if nothing works...MOVE. either to a new complex or just a new apartment away from her. |
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jujl62
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You need to talk to your landlord's about your problems and see if they will help |
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*Star*
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Tina:
I would suggest you talk to the Management in your Apartment complex and see what they can do... Also, If she is personally bugging you by racial slurs and comments then why not put a restraining order or why not move out and look for another apartment... i know you probably think me saying to move out is not what you had in mind but sometimes it's the best way to handle a situation like this. If I were in your situation and I wasn't able to fix the problem, I would move out to prevent any more confrontations and for my kids to not see this kind of stuff.... Think about your kids, you want the best for them, and these kind of neighbors are bringing allot of negativity to your life.... So I hope these words help you in any way, God bless and stay strong.....
Your friend: *Star* |
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Tactical Medic
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unfortunately if there is nothing you can do, you may have to move to a peaceful place |
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She's on fire!
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You could try a restraining order but, that would be rather difficult with you all living in the same building. I would talk to the apt. manager first, just to see what they can do. The next step, and probably what you should do anyway, is move somewhere else. I know it would seem like you were letting them win but, you & your daughter would be the winners because you wouldn't have to deal with the racism & general meanness of the neighbor! |
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i need braces bad
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move before something major breaks out |
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QueenLori
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Get a restraining order against her. |
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antigovernmentofficial_bot
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For 700 hundred Bucks I'll Kill her for you...on the flip side
by some pure uncut crack, throw it on her front door,
and smear some on childs face, and call the cops. tell
them your daughter was given drugs by the neighbore
you hate and frame her wrong doing. that'll give her some
prison time. have fun. |
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DennistheMenace
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whos better friends with the owner?
hes has to provide a safe etc,etc, place to live, if a tenant is creating problems for everybody, its his job to get rid of them.... |
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Rob S
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Tell the landlord that he is going to have to make a choice between you as a tenant and her. You might have to move, but would that be so bad? |
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upside666
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Start learning witchcraft and ritual magick, and put a curse on the ***** - seriously.
Not much anybody else can do, im afraid. |
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Blitzpup
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you could move, but that is like surrender. I don't have any real suggestions, other than I would start a diary of her actions, and keep it faithfully. Sooner or later this will find its way into some form of legal action, and you will want a documented case file kept just for your own protection if nothing else. |
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Nemek
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Shoot her, then say she was such a messed up person she must have commit ed suicide. |
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jes1brian
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i guess it a wast of time trying to appeal to her better judgment .how old is she ; if she.s under 40 put a rat in her letter box . that will shake her up . some people are just so horrid .good luck . |
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hah
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get even........really.........tell her to lay off or she will regret it, then see what happens......sounds like a real pain!! |
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james b
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My advice would be to buy her a dog. One with a weak digestive system. Maybe one with a laser gun too. Then the dog will do your dirty work. |
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