Should I be in prison?

~~PG~~

Don't stress out over this. No you should not be in jail. I think it is great that you have stayed with her and you take care of your children. NOW get her on birth-control ASAP!

Call me MISTER PRESIDENT!

Yall are married. Who cares what dad thinks? Stay out of trouble, work hard, you'll be alright.

TAT

You need to not worry. I think the statue of limitations is up. She is not filing charges and obviously wanted to stay with you.

Jennifer C

Of course you shouldnt.

You wife is there with you and your kids need you. What use would you be to them in prison?

stfn314

You were both kids. You're not a rapist. Relax and just try to be a good dad and husband.

hey-0 its nic0

you guys sound like a good couple to be together for that long is amazing.... and i dont think you did any crime...

Ellie J

He wasnt there to support and youre there for your kids. good for you! you know you're a good person, don't let him get to you. you know what's right.
Now on a different topic, you may want to get brith control. kids are a lot of work and you have a lot! concentrate on what you have!

TampaBay

get good job, get education, feed the kids, love the wife, be nice to them, don't get mad, enjoy time with them no matter rich or poor...you all can make it. you are fine. normal. no need to think about prison.

I live with my wife since teen age :) and we have 3 kids. i started out with $00.00 money. zero, zip, nothing... I got help from welfare, you know then I went to school, and raise kids... now I have BS degree, wife got BS degree too and have a happy family. You are the man, you in charge of your family and lead it to happiness. be strong and don't be influence by others. you have to use your brain and filter out good/bad and make your own decision. trust yourself and be confident. Good man, kind heart, and happy family will lead you to success. btw, help your wife out, 4 kids is too much for her.

Flippantman

You shouldn't be in prison, everyone deserves second chances. I just hope that you have a good relationship not only with your wife but also with your children, love and respect them and make sure they don't make the same mistake you did, because, no matter what the law says, you messed up.

Elliot

Well, If you both wanted to have kids, then no.

Get that corn outta my face

That was beautiful. I know you love her, I really do. I understand completely. The same thing happened to me not too long ago. Flee the country and everything will be okay.

nick s

You shouldn't be in jail. As long as you just lover her till the end. That is a sad story. Only reason you would go to jail is if someone filed a report on it. So be happy with what you have :)))

â™¥Kellyâ™¥

ummm no. i mean, what you did is considered statutory rape but your dad said you should be in prison because of how many kids you have together? umm that's not a reason to go to prison. as long as you guys are in love, it doesn't matter how many kids you have or how old you were when you first got together

SUNSHiNE

WOW for such young age yall sure do have alot of kids..... no u shouldnt be in prison, both were under age..... so maybe he was jokin... i joke all the time with my brother in law he has 6 kids and is 30

not u again

no you shouldn't be in prison that would be wrong your father should not have said that if your oldest daughter is 5 then your wife was 14 when she was pregnant that is also wrong you both were just so young I hope eventually you and your dad can get things straight but just think about when your daughter is 14 how protective are you going to be I also hope you and your wife stay together forever

miamigrl23

He said it because she is so young and is missing out on life but if your both happy then don't worry about what your dad said, you have your own family to worry about, your the dad now.

fock fear

You are not supposed to have kids before 21

SomeGirl :)

no you shouldnt be in prison :/
hope you guys have a happy life together and hope everything will work out ;):)

marielaveau1794

I dont think legally you should be in prison because the difference I believe has to be at least 3 yrs. I am not 100% sure on this but I think this is right.

MAZe

Sorry this isn't a question. You want some kind of emotional support so I recommend talking to your wife.

John O

manningj hit it right on the head. you are a grow man with a family to worry about. Be a better father than him to your kids.

Lily

I don't think you should be in jail for that - whoever told you that is very wrong.

Being that you're both so close in age, I don't think anyone could really deem it as 'rape.' Especially if you were both consenting.

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Why would a person be put in jail for having to many children at a young age, That is preposterous.

MakeupGeek

No no no no no.You're fine. =]

Ignore the person that told you that; besides, she's 19 and not 18 and younger, so it's perfectly fine. However, I'd stop having kids for a little while. It might seem a little weird to other people that you so young and have so many kids, plus you still are in college, right? So, it's a lot of work. However, the fact that she was 15 or 14 when she got pregnant isn't all that great, but you're fine.

gtatix

You sound pretty upset about this. I think your father was talking about having too many kids, not about rape. AND I am sorry if you have a lot of respect for your father, but I think he was WAY OUT OF LINE to say such a thing. Your kids are part of YOU and your WIFE and if you love her and them as much as you say, you are entitled to EACH AND EVERY one of them. Just take as good a care of them as you can - I don't know of many PERFECT PARENTS so don't feel you are alone when it comes to feeling that you are a perfect provider. You should talk to a professional - like a psychologist - about your concern regarding your father's comments. It sounds like you may be unnecessarily fearful of him. You are a man now and you are YOUR OWN BOSS - not to mention the fact that you have a family to take care of.
1100 or so years ago, women were starting families at the age of 14 and it wasn't uncommon to have a family with 6 to 10 boys and girls!

gracie519

you're fine

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