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Father seeing his kids and court?
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Hello all
I need some advise
I have two daughter’s age 7 and 5 . I am now divorced from the father and the kids live with me.
Their father used to see the girls at the weekends. Until one weekend the 7-year-old stated saying she did not want to go I told her she had 2 as he was their father. Weekend after she refused point blank kicking and screaming. so asked my ex husband to come round and talk to her she refused and so did the 5 year old
He took out on me and beat me up (he has been found guilty of ABH)
From that day august last year he has not seen the kids but he is fighting me for contact.
Cafcass was involved and a few weeks before the kids was to be interviewed they come out with my ex had been touching them….called the police kids was interviewed etc but CPS would not run with it as the kids was to young to be put on the stand!
Now child servers are involved because Cafcass won’t touch this case….
I have just got the kids counseling which they start Monday..
My ex is still fighting me for the kids the kids have told child services they never want to see him again they have told the school the same .
But the father is trying to say he never hit me! And I’m tuning them against him which is not true
So child services are doing a report for the courts now.
Has anybody been though this and what will the likely out come?
I’m worrying myself sick about this because I’m so scared so judge will say they have to go to see him even if its supervised and I know the girls don’t want that
His solicitor is so confidant he will get to see the girls he wont even give them there stuff back.
I have a solicitor and he says that he has no chance but is he just saying that because he is getting paid a fortune from me for this matter
If he wins I feel like I have let my girls down once again all I want is to make them happy.
Sorry its so long
Thanks
Additional Details
they do have an independent advocate
they talk to the school and child servies
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Mu1
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Don't worry - I think it's very unlikely the court would allow access in this case. He has used violence against you, has molested the kids....he'd got no chance. your solicitor is right - he's just being a hard case by not giving the kids' stuff back - by now he's probably convinced even himself that he's a perfect dad. don't panic hon, judges have seen dozens like him - anyway, he'll probably screw up in court - they always do! Little tip - whatever he might say or do in Court - DON'T REACT - he'll do his best to make you look bad. maintain your dignity. good Luck hon xx |
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Away With The Fairies
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Your daughters need an independent advocate to speak for them. If you are acting as their advocate, it won't have the same impact.
Speak to social services about it - they'll recommend someone for you. |
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Kira J
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if your girls do not want to see their dad then they cannot be forced by any court.
no judge will force the kids to see a parent they do not want to see so just keep this in mind.
your ex is just fighting a losing battle.
good luck and stay strong. your solicitor is correct on this |
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jamand
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His solicitor is so confidant
Who told you that - your ex!! Lies and lies and lies - told to you to make you doubt yourself.
He has little or no chance of getting access with this accusation over him - |
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