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What the hell is wrong with you people. He said, "This woman I WAS dating, found out I have a GF and somehow found out where we live and?" Was is an indication that he dated her in the past, not that he dated this woman at the same time as his present GF. In your bigotry toward men, do you just assume that all men are cheaters? You people make me sick.
To answer your question though, I don't know what you could do in this case, other than ignore her. She hasn't really done anything to warrant a restraining order. I understand where you are coming from though. At one time I had the exact same thing happen to me, except the ex-girlfriend who sent the letter tried to make it seem as if I was still seeing her. She even went so far as to follow me around. This way she could lie about the right times to say that I was with her. I was able to eventually get a restraining order against her, because she tried to assault my current girlfriend. She was a real nut job and that was the reason I stopped dating her in the first place. In your case though, I don't know what to tell you to do other than be cautious and hope that she goes away. You might want to call the police and let them know about the situation, just so they have a record of it. Then if something happens, it will be the second instance on record and she would have a much harder time arguing her way out of the restraining order. |
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njagalamalaya
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Why were you seeing someone when you already have a girlfriend? You got what you deserve buddy. |
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SusieQ
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How about stop cheating. Sorry, no sympathy here dude. |
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cmdrbnd007
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For what writing a letter to your girlfriend ratting you out. Give me a break, you should have kept your little friend in your pants. |
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Disgruntled
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So far all she's done is tell your girlfriend you're a cheater. You're gonna have to wait for her to harass you before the police can do anything. |
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BettyBoop
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Ever see Fatal Attraction. Good flick.
Perhaps you should try being faithful and honest in the future. |
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luv3dbb
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Why were you cheating on your GF? There is nothing you can do. If I was your GF I would kiss your sorry tush goodbye!! |
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raggedflex
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i really doubt a court would issue a restraining order in this case unless she is threatening physical harm to you or your GF or something like that
i think the best you are going to be able to do right now is talk to her and tell her you want her to leave you alone |
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grlz_rck
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If all she did was write a letter then most likely thats all she's going to do. If she's truly crazy, a piece of paper restraining her from you isnt going to stop her. It doesnt sound like you 2 were seeing each other long if u dont even know her name. I went on a blind date once and that weirdo was knocking on my door the next morning with a dozen roses. When asked how he knew where i lived he laughed it off and said, "next time dont give out your license plate number". Riiight.. like i would give someone that? Restraining order didnt stop him either, he worked for the sheriffs dept. SOO... I moved 1200 miles away. I dont recommend that.
Just tell her to get lost. |
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*miki*
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depends
were u seeing her at the same time as your girlfriend?
then your gf has a right to know
if not, if she's history for you
tell her
strictly and directly
not to ever contact you or her again, and reassure your gf that its over between you two
if you want call the woman while your gf listens in
if that doesn't work, file a report against her
she's now stalking and invading your privacy |
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Lisa W
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So basically, you got busted!
If she is stalking you then consider a restraining order but you don't know this for sure. Just tell her to stay away or else you will file legal action against her.
Good luck keeping your girlfriend. You got some xplaining to do. |
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clockworkbox.com
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You were seeing a woman whos last name you didnt know? Doesn't sound like a serious relationship, just tell her to beat it. |
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Jane
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She hasn't technically done anything wrong. She just told your partner the truth. If she gets violent then yeah get a restraining order but try and talk it out with her first if it's okay with your girlfriend.
Also next time keep it in your trousers!! |
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Piltdown Man
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So you were cheating on BOTH these women, you got caught, and you want to take out a RESTRAINING ORDER
on one of them???? Watch the movie "Fatal attraction", that'll tell you everything you need to know. Loser. |
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whitefangz1
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You can't call the police because she has broken no laws. You're allowed to write letters to people in this country. It's legal.
You won't be able to get a restraining order because the woman has done nothing to indicate taht she poses any threat. She merely sent a letter and told on you.
It's legal for her to find out where you live, write a letter, tell on you, etc. You're thinking perhaps that some law is in place to protect the confidentiality of people who cheat?
You clearly think you have done nothing wrong and have the morals of a flea. I think the best thing for you to do right now is to approach your girlfriend and say, "I'm sorry. I cheated and you deserve better. Please beat me over the head repeatedly with a blunt object." |
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Mr. Atracimacy
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congratulations! u have no girlfriend! u got exactly wut u deserve. dont ask anyone advice on how to weasel ur way out of getting caught cheating dumbass! man u r STUPID! |
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bkc99xx
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Well, apparently she knows your last name. You are in deep now. Based on what you have shared, her simply writing a letter to your gf is not enough to call the police. I would be more worried about what your gf is going to do to you than what the other woman might do. |
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engineergirl
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The more important question is why were you seeing another women when you had a girlfriend. You reap what you sow. |
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Karen K
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Well, I'm thinking you would have never told your GF if you never had gotten caught. Maybe if you told her to leave you alone that you screwed up really bad she would decide your not worth the heart ache and trouble. I hope you have learned your lesson of how things can go from great to bad in a heartbeat. If you don't love your GF enough to be with her my goodness let her go. |
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Jennie P
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Sounds to me like you weren't thinking too well. If you have a GF, leave other women alone. DUH!! Now,put your big boy pants on and deal with it! |
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yooper4278
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HA HA HA HA HA HA!! You got caught cheating!! Hopefully, both women will dump your sorry backside. Maybe you'll learn your lesson then, Romeo. |
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Scott C
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Doesn't sound like she's done anything illegal. Frankly, sounds like she gave you what you deserve.
It's simple, if you don't want your girlfriend to know that you've been cheating on her, then don't cheat on her.
Be a man. A real man would be willing to face the consequences of his actions, instead of trying to figure out how to get back at her. |
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prodigykid0
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Why were you seeing another woman when you have a girlfriend? Is your number in the phone book?
If it is a huge issue for you, move somewhere else.
If not, send her a letter telling her to stop and leave you alone or you will have a restraining order against her. Hopefully, you can scare her into leaving you be.. |
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laurie
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Well , if you're stupid enough to cheat on your gf then you deserve any sh*t you get ! |
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Wife of Abdul Wahab
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have you ever heard the saying everyone gets whats coming to them ? ... not only did you cheat on your girl friend you toyed with the affections of another woman she was not wrong for letting your girl friend know but if you and your girlfriend have both expressed to her that you don't want her to come around or contact you then you should call the police and explain the situation to them further.... Just asking her to leave you alone may work thou so there is no need to resort to the extremes first but be sure and let her know that the BOTH of you wish to be left alone if not she will pester you MORE thinking that her plan to ruin you r relationship is working and may even attempt to stalk your girl friend to be sure that she "knows what a AS$ hole you are"
you could also try apologizing to her ....good luck |
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Kristin S
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Yah no sympathy at all. What's wrong with you people who cheat. Quit breaking hearts. It was 100% right of her to tell your gf. Don't be with anyone else besides who you're with. Don't you think of anyone but yourself? Think about how your gilfriend feels right now that the man she loves was with another woman. I hope you get what you deserve. Or something profound happens and you actually see the light and change. |
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C.Elizabethツ
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so far she hasn't done anything.
you got what was coming to you, you shouldn't have been cheating. sorry bud |
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triple O G
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you're all up in her, then she's all up in you. sounds like justice served ! |
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damianliffrig
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1.) call the police (non-emergency)
2.) she had to of figured your name out and about it if she was a sidekick.
3.) i dont know the rest |
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