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Horrible to be 22 and not married?
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Horrible to be 22 and not married?

i think it's horrible to be 22 and not married.


    




bellaserah2
I think it is horrible to rush in to marriage because you just want to be married. It is worse to be 24 and divorced or have one of those starter marriages and get divorced after 5-7yrs. I would wait till you get a little older, get a career and get a life goal. Living for a marriage is never as fulfilling as living for a goal. People change and you can change and what you wanted 2 yrs ago will be different than what you want now. Don't put an age on marriage, put a standard... Don't get married unless you truly love the other person and work well with each other. Love is not enough, how you treat each other and communicate is. People will change and grow but if you find a man or woman who is equally willing to work on the relationship than you will stay together...no matter what age you get married at.


BeepBoopBeep
that is NORMAL. I wouldn't even wanna marry at that age. I'm 20 now and marriage is off my mind.


Eurydice
my sister says its horrible at 55,your still in the dating pool


jack spicer
i think it's horrible to be married before 30...


Nena
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girl it is not horrible, I got married at 18 now im 23 still married and believe me it is HARD to be married sooo early in life, you are better off single, don't get me wrong I love my husband but no matter how much you love eachother it is always hard!


me n' mona
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I got married at 22 and it wasn't that great...I then got divorced at 25 and that was much better. It all depends on the person. I think 22 is way too young to be married anymore, I think that kids are sheltered a lot more now than they used to be and aren't shoved off into the world which may have a lot to do with it. I actually hated being married, but to each their own!


L. J.
It is not horrible at all. Do you know how many people are married to the wrong person at 22 or any other age and are not happy? Lots! Take your time and find someone that will make you happy. If you do that, it will take a while, but it is worth it. Enjoy yourself right where you are.


Harleigh
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why would you think that? At 22 you're just starting to live!!


DOOM
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I'm 27 and can't fathom being married.


Chriztina
Wow I must be on my way to hell then, I'm 24 and it's not even on my list of things to do anytime soon. I hate to think what all the older singles are going to think.


Ben H
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HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA How old are you? I'm 25 and I think it would be horrible to be 25 and married.

Let me guess, you're religious right?


Jessica P
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You are still young, and probably don't even know what you want yet.....dispite you realizing it or not. Don't rush it, if you push thing's you will end up in a bad situation, unhappy and more apt to get a divorce. And hell when that divorce rolls around, you will be wishing that you NEVER entertained the idea of marrage.


PIKA
well it seams to me you need to find fufilling goals for your life somethig that will take your mind off of this, otherwise your likley to rush a relationship and perhaps accept an unhealthy one just to get married.


armonymind
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oh common, you are so young!!!!


j
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WHAT!

no way your youthful! ...go do what you want and can while your young

Stuff being married who needs a man or women...to have fun, be who you are and having an exciting life.

And if snobby married people are sticking their nose in your business stuff em.

p.s
I don't mean to slight people who are married...if they're happy well then I wish them happiness ..I just think its stupid to force other people to get married by pressure...just do what you want...
I don't really want to be married I dont feel that would be the life for me ...so I've made myself strong enough to deal with people who will think I'm selfish.

Power to the people who do what they wanna do


There is no Shermer in Illinois
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Take a look at the divorce rate. Relax and wait for the right person. Getting married because of your age makes no sense.


Diane S
If you find horrible get yourself a man or woman. I was married at 16 and been married for 33 years and would not change a thing. Ain't LOVE great.

Thanks for the memories. Good Luck


ahmed k
Select your best half


TexasblueCat
You are 22 and FREE! Marriage is overrated.


luansian
mmm average to get married: 30
so dont worry
just enjoy life until the time arrives lol


Cai
Oh my goodness! I'm 20 and couldnt IMAGINE being married within the next 5 years, let alone the next 2!! It's not horrible at all! but then again, to each his own, so...don't be in a rush to settle down, but if you find someone that's right for you...don't hesitate if you're ready :)


itz631
Why.. married people are boring


GreenIYD
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Um.. 25 and definitely not married. Not quite ready and would NOt have been ready at 22.

Most people are in school still or trying to get themselves financially stable, and out having fun and dating. Why would it be horrible to not be married at 22? You miss out on an awesome part of youth by making that kind of committment so early.


candleinthewind7579
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Actually it's wise. There's no set age for anyone to be married...the time is only right when you're in love with the right person, educated and financially secure


appalachianman420
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That ridiculous!! You know 95% of couples that marry that young end up divorced.


punky89
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no
marry when your ready to
i read some place that 34 is the perfect age to start a family


*~Lollipops~*
thats kinda early for the average person. you have plenty of time ;)


RIP Sean Taylor
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OMG Its Normal Well Not Now These Days People Getting Married And pregnant At 16


Trace
In my opinion 22 is too young to get married. I'm 20 and still not dating anyone because I'm in college and want to get my career going first so when I do get married, me and my husband will do fine financially. I'd say at about 25 is the perfect time to get married and there is a better chance of a lasting marriage if you wait.


Julie K
I think so too... I am 22 and not married.. not even close to getting married... I am still in school.. and all my friends are getting engaged/ married... I feel like there is something wrong with me that I don't... :(


whatdoesitallmean.
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no...if anything its good to be 22 and not married. You have your whole life to get married. Your 20's are the years to go out and have your fun and before you know it the guy your supposed to marry will come along...but untill that happens HAVE FUN!!!!





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