If I go out to dinner w/ a guy at an expensive restaurant..and he pays..does that mean i owe him anything?

ga_morton

You owe him kindness and consideration and a "thank you". Beyond that.... anything you want to 'give' him is totally up to you.

Laura G

NO WAY

Ima Stressed Out

Did he ask you to dinner? If he did he pays and you owe nothing. If he gets ugly go dutch then tell him to go away.

mamanook

Yes- A sincerely spoken "Thank You".

Alan S

at least a thank you.

Kerry

No you do not owe him anything, other than perhaps the pleasure of your company for the dinner time together.

igottadrive2001

you sure do owe him,,,,you owe him politeness, good conversation,good table manners and,,,,,thats it

FOA

fdj1

you should paint his house for him

ravenna_wing1

Nope. If he chose the restaurant, chose to pay... that's his fault. You owe him nothing, but a verbal thank you (and if he was nice, a "good night" peck on the cheek).

jon r

no, but you hsould not lead him on.. and make him keep buying to stuff, if you only like him as a friend.. if it is more i would give him head

Year of the Monkey

All you owe him is a little appreciation that he regards you highly enough to buy you dinner. So I guess yes-you owe him gratitude, but nothing else. That's all up to you.

Pfo

Not unless he told you beforehand that if he takes you out that you owe him something.

~~~Buffy~~~

NO..... if he ask you ... he should pay... and you should not be expected to owe him nothing.... have fun

smellyfoot â„¢

If you do (or give) something nice, you should do it out of kindness - not because you expect something in return. Getting something in return should be an unexpected, and much appreciated, bonus.

Octy a.k.a Octaneâ˜…97

Not if you Kiss him Good-Night :)

sm80

No u dont!

anamanta a

no he the one that wanted to pay.

wrack 'n' ruin

"Owe?" No, not really. Did he invite you? If you invited him, then you should've offered to pay, or at least to split it. If he invited you, then generally he pays, and you don't "owe" him anything.

Except a thankful gesture. Once a girl sent me flowers after I took her out to a ritzy dinner. Nice, but a little more than I might expect. It would be appropriate for you to call him, either that night or the next day, and thank him; tell him what a nice time you had, and how/why you enjoyed yourself. "It was nice talking to you about ______ ." "I enjoyed the [band] [dessert] [company] [filet mignon]."

If you mean s - e - x , definitely not!

You might want to reciprocate and invite him somewhere, as your treat, unless your situation doesn't let you afford it.

p v

Thanks

alexander c

If he invited you ,it was his choice,no you don,t owe him anything,if you had a good time just say thank you for inviting me to this wonderfull restaurant.

Anubis

If he invited you, no. If you offered to go dutch and he let you off, no. Else, you owe 1/2

Jack

Not at all....he had the pleasure of your company.

Shredder

znselkkin

no, not the first time, but after that always go dutch (go halves).

Another Perspective

Of course not unless you asked to go to that restaurant or were leading him on. I would always let the restaurant quality tell the story on how I felt about someone. Some guys do let that tell how bad they want to sleep with someone. I think if this is his purpose, he deserves not to get anything.

Lewis C

We like to think so but NO!

Daybreak

You don't owe him anything. It was his choice to pay, and your choice what happens next.

VmkRoxMySox

No you shouldn't have to i mean a nice person would do that anytime!

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