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If i buy my 16 year old gf a cell phone can they get me for child enticement?

hello im 19 and i bought my 16 y/o girlfriend a cell phone. well her parents got mad at that and reported it. can they get me for child enticement (in texas) since i bought it and there are text messages in their that i sent that said "i love you" and "i miss you" im a hardworking person and im not one of those pedophiles luring kids or any of that but im afraid since im 19 and shes 16 they can use those messages against me :(


    




Billy
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As far as child enticement, I highly doubt it, but I'd have to re-read through the code to be sure.

Besides, in Texas as long as your under 3 years older than her she's legal. The statutory rape law has a clause in it allowing for up to 3 years difference, so as long as you're not 3 years 1 day, don't worry.


kyliekissesx
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I would advise you to look into the laws of your state and see what you can find. That will you will know for sure what to expect.


just me
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They only have the best interests of their daughter in their minds. If you truly love her, it is time to be a man and sit down with her father and try to prove to him you are worthy of his daughter. If you have no honoralbe intentions I suggest you hightail it out of state as fast as you can and start your life over and stick to adult women.


perfectlybaked
I don't think those platonic things are enough evidence.

Buying stuff can't be considered "intent."

Now, if you bought her something from Victoria's Secret that's another story!


smoothkrooner1
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I think you'll be ok if nothing inappropriate has happened between you two. Unfortunately this is a heads up for you and you should pull back completely! Apologize. She is too young for you. I know its only by a few years but you're in the illegal area. If she really likes you she'll be patient (as you should ) for a mere 2 years. This is an exercise in patence and tolerance that will prepare you for the future. One of many exercises you will hopefully experience.


*****
Not unless you are caught getting romantic with her.


jackson
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Forget about the 3 year law or anything like that. If they are that upset over a cell anything could happen. The could probably figure out SOMETHING to get you charged for. Even if you go to court and get out of it just the very fact that you were just charged will stick on your record forever. Good luck w. the job thing then even 10 years from now.

Was she 16 when you started dating? Were you 19 and she turned 16 while you were dating? Or was she 14 and you were 18? You have to lok at the actual age difference.

If the parents take issue they could do many thing to ensure that she says whatever they want her to or make her life miserable. No allowance, college money, gifts, car, car insurance, going out, minimal clothes, etc.

You MUST speak to the parents. If that does not work you need to safeguard YOUR life and step away.


fiji2litre
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It depends on the statutory rape laws in Texas. Here in Colorado the age of consent is 16. I would be careful though some people don't take kindly to some one over the age of 18 going out with some one 16. I would check the local laws. Good luck.


Fernando C
it depends on how serious the cops want to pursue it, but you should talk to her parents and if they are OK w/you dating there daughter then you should be OK. seems like a minor offense misdemeanor at the most, I wouldn't sweat it, try & get the phone back if you can. when I met my wife she was 16 I was 19 we are now 24 & 21 we have 2 kids everything works out, good luck & god bless!


Cooooool
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Please send me copies of the rule book of Texas, then I'll comment.


caityjayne13
It depends. Its most likely ok if its a special occasion or a one time present (to show her you appreciate her) but it won't be seen as okay if you and she do anything 'funny' after you've given it to her. Also might I make the suggestion that you give her something slightly more general, I dont know about your girlfriend but there are presents that show appreciation more than cell phones. If in doubt ask her parents, it may sound stupid but they can give you permission and they also will know the things she likes.


faesson
do what you want and ignore them.

the laws are designed to protect the underaged, but if you are serious about her and not just a slimeball, then its now YOUR responsibility to protect her. Treat her honorably, start doing the same for her parents and stop acting guilty.

someday the world will figure out that an 18 or 19 year old dating a 16 year old is normal and acceptable.

good luck. and be good.


stop_staring_please
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Have you checked to see what the age of consent is in Texas? usually 16 is the age in many states. Which means that she is old enough to date you. In some states it also goes by years.


abizzell4hire
I think we have a three year limit of statute here in Texas, meaning if you're three or less years apart, you're OK.


Lil ****
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srry to tell ya man but yeah they can but thats only if they check all that and you made it even worse by sending those messages without her sending it first


lovelybaby
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i'm not sure about texas, but isn't there like a window of years where it's okay to date someone younger than you. i thought if it's 4 years difference or less then it's not as big a problem. i could be completely wrong. 3 years doesn't seem like such a huge deal to me. i've seen worse. at least you're both teens.


jonny8102
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You have no problem whatsoever,


gbluebone
NO... that's not enough in trial, seriously... be more careful next time though. Plus it's only a 3 year difference... I know in this state that's still allowed, don't know in texas though...


ballsmodels
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i would say ur going to get in trouble y r u hookin up wit a 16 year old?????? lol


Julie W
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honey if you bought my 16 yr old a cell phone i would make sure they never let you out of jail. couldnt you find some one your own age?


blj63
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Dude she's under age. You gotta end it. Your gonna go to jail.


loveme
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the legal age of consent is a guess 16 so its not illegal anymore!! i mean sending an I love u msg is nothing!


gakso
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dont worry, you might get a warning but thats all


ctown
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I suggest you hire a lawyer.


Aimee
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i dont think they can cause you didnt say nothing bad...


Emually
I don't thinks they should be, its not like you posted i wana rap your or crap... hopefully. and i mean, if you guys havn't done anything bad like underage for her. then they most likely can't get you for anything...
but you might have to cool it a bit with her. and maybe hold off till she's older. depends on what her parents think, i mean. you wouldn't want someone who hates you as the mother and father of your gf... and try to make a good impression on her parents.

PS: next i suggest you get her motorola, those phones have locks on messages. thats what i use, my parents are a bit nosy -_-


xx, age 14





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